A perfect example of the "honeymoon phase" of a relationship ending, and now the thoughts are being thrust upon your mind to move on. Mother nature says to go spread genes.
If you want to be recharged and deal with this - it is going to take work. An easy way is, believe it or not, both willingly give up the desire for hot steamy orgasmic sex. If your sex life is dead, but you still both masturbate, you need to avoid and or limit that as well. Instead, replace it with more nurturing sex and affection. Become in tune with each others minds and bodies. It is easier than you think, and it eventually becomes natural. You feel so much better when you fight back against mother nature with tools mother nature also gave you.
Check into karezza and other sexual techniques. Also check out http://www.reuniting.info/ It has a lot of cool things. Once you understand the reason why you feel this way, it is easier to overcome and make something positive out of it.
Do not give up, not without a fight. Mother nature and your mind can be confusing, putting the pieces together helps you see the whole picture before you do something you may regret.
Good luck.
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