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help choosing the right girl.
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alright well im fucking torn.. and thought i would ask you guys for your opinions.

alright so here it goes... a brief description of both girls

Girl 1:
Dated her for about 2 1/2 years
Has a solid family
In college
Gymnast
Controlling
decently good looking (nothing special thou)
anti-drug

Girl 2:
Open to drug use (she doesnt do anything but drink, but doesnt stop me)
better looking than girl 1
going to high school online (senior)
not as motivated as girl 1
completely trusts me
has a lot of guy friends (idk this has always bothered me, about any girl)

feel free to ask any questions.

idk im completely fucking torn.. the first girl and i broke up.. but ever since shes been begging for me to take her back, so IDK.

any help is appreciated.


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Re: help choosing the right girl. [Re: Banez]
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Maybe, and this is only a suggestion, you should give guys a go.


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"I have sworn upon the altar of God eternal hostility against every form of tyranny over the mind of man."

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Re: help choosing the right girl. [Re: Banez]
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Neither if you are torn enough to ask here. :wink:


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I know... Its fucked up... Ill fix it minyana..[/quote]

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Re: help choosing the right girl. [Re: daimyo]
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no im not into guys


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Re: help choosing the right girl. [Re: daimyo]
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Or, keep both til one finds out. And stay lookin for girl 3, the motivated/smart doper all the while.


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"I have sworn upon the altar of God eternal hostility against every form of tyranny over the mind of man."

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Re: help choosing the right girl. [Re: mndfreeze]
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don't choose. tell them you have enough love for both of them...

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Re: help choosing the right girl. [Re: daimyo]
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You just cracked me up inside.  :grin:

I'd pick option #2.  Don't be threatened by girls who have a lot of male friends.

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Re: help choosing the right girl. [Re: Banez]
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While girl one seems controling and all... She's an athlete and seems more confident in herself. #2 seems needy.

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Re: help choosing the right girl. [Re: Banez]
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How is it that the first girl is even being considered?

Controlling? Sounds like a type A bitch gymnast to me. Why'd you break up again? I've found that going back to an ex is a bad move.

The younger chick who completely trusts you is probably a lot better, unless you're looking for a chick to change you and make you stop doing drugs.


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Yes, I could go drive somewhere everytime the urge to defecate hits, but...where's the fun in that.
-Moth

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Re: help choosing the right girl. [Re: SilentG]
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im just worried that if i stay with girl 2.. that she wont make anything of herself and ill end up supporting both of us

the advantages of girl 1 is that we were together for so long, and shes already working on a college education.. (we broke up because she was trying to change me)

and ive thought about keeping both of them, but ive been working that for about a week now.. and its very difficult. plus being a player is never good.


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Re: help choosing the right girl. [Re: Banez]
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I'd probably rather go for two: I'm fickle mainly, but I would also much rather be with someone whom is open and accepting of something that I'm interested than not be. Don't get me wrong, the first girl seems great, but I'm quite sure you're still young, if you feel like you might be going somewhere better with girl 2 then go for it.

And you're worried about supporting her? You're only in college, it's not like you're married. You both have plenty of time to succeed or fail at life.


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"Man's real life is happy,
chiefly because he is ever expecting that it soon will be so."
- Edgar Allan Poe

Edited by Geneephurr (10/11/06 06:02 PM)

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Re: help choosing the right girl. [Re: daimyo]
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daimyo said:
Or, keep both til one finds out. And stay lookin for girl 3, the motivated/smart doper all the while.


"motivated" and "doper" don't belong together in the same sentence. Don't deny it.


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Mindfulness is the aware, balanced acceptance of the present experience.
It isn't more complicated than that.
It is opening to or recieving the present moment, pleasant or unpleasant, just as it is,
without either clinging to it or rejecting it.

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Re: help choosing the right girl. [Re: Geneephurr]
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the actual relationship with girl 2 is much better.. like we hang out every day.. and things are great... girl 1 is over 2 hours away, so i see her like every 2-3 weeks.


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Re: help choosing the right girl. [Re: Banez]
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Stringing along two girls in a relationship is wrong. I know this because I've done it before, and its mean. You better decide soon, or drop both and float single for a while.


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Mindfulness is the aware, balanced acceptance of the present experience.
It isn't more complicated than that.
It is opening to or recieving the present moment, pleasant or unpleasant, just as it is,
without either clinging to it or rejecting it.

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Re: help choosing the right girl. [Re: Banez]
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I think you're worrying about stuff that doesn't really concern you.  :shrug:  Let HER worry about making something of herself.  She doesn't need an over bearing boyfriend on her case about what she should or shouldn't be doing.  She's young and free, and needs time to figure shit out on her own.  I'm not saying you're like that...I'm just having fun projecting.  :wink:

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Re: help choosing the right girl. [Re: Jenny]
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no.. i refuse to be single.. im liking this whole sex 24/7 thing. its nice.

im pretty sure im going with girl 2.. i just need to figure out how to break up with girl 1 again, without her getting all suicidal and stalker on me.


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Re: help choosing the right girl. [Re: Banez]
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Banez said:
im just worried that if i stay with girl 2.. that she wont make anything of herself and ill end up supporting both of us

the advantages of girl 1 is that we were together for so long, and shes already working on a college education.. (we broke up because she was trying to change me)

and ive thought about keeping both of them, but ive been working that for about a week now.. and its very difficult. plus being a player is never good.


Ahh, don't keep both of them. That's shitty - unless they're both down. #1 would never go for that though.

#1 is just gonna break yall up again. Besides having been together and broken up before is NOT an advantage. It just seems like it because you both know how you like to fuck, etc.

You sound a bit young to be planning on what girl you're gonna spend your life with. Just go out with #2 and see what she does with her life. Give her a chance to grow up some too. Hell, she might decide you're not the one for her. Or she might figure out that she really wants to do XXXXXX and impress the hell outta ya.

Sounds like #1 made you miserable (at least at the end) and #2 makes you happy. No brainer bro!


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Re: help choosing the right girl. [Re: Banez]
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I'd say number 2... you're trying to have the best of both worlds and you could end up with nothing if you're not careful. The younger one is just that, younger, it's ok if she hasn't figured out what she wants yet.

Hell, I'm 22 and all I know yet is I just don't want to make nothing of myself. The decision I made though is I'm not going to get involved with anyone who is not at least ok with my drug use, because it's a part of who I am.

And the important point - the second girl likes you for who you are. Girl #1 is just going to keep trying to change you. Girl #2 would be my choice, the male friends are no threat if you can trust her like she trusts you. If you're not happy down the road you can end it. Nothing says you have to be with someone in the first place.

Whatever your choice, think of your happiness and go with that. Make the choice ASAP and break it off with the one you don't want to be with ASAP too, because nothing good can come from holding on to both.


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I don't understand... who could kill a man, in the name of peace?

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Re: help choosing the right girl. [Re: SilentG]
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SilentG said:
No brainer bro!


I'm going to agree on that one.

The simple fact that you and 1 broke up before because she was trying to "change you" just screams a red flag to me.


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chiefly because he is ever expecting that it soon will be so."
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Re: help choosing the right girl. [Re: Geneephurr]
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One Word:

Threesome

:3some:  :dogpile:  :doggystyle:


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