Quote: A relationship is not a stepping stone to a better life. Figuring out what you want and getting it is. A relationship is merely an embellishment, that feels nice.
Quote: A relationship is not a stepping stone to a better life. Figuring out what you want and getting it is. A relationship is merely an embellishment, that feels nice.
Too many people don't take this to heart, thinking a relationship will solve all their problems.
Registered: 11/16/08 Posts: 2,451 Loc: Somewhere California Last seen: 6 years, 18 days
right on
10/28/12 03:17 PM
Quote: You shouldn't be asking what a girl wants from you. You should figure out what you want for you.
I thoroughly believe that before you can date someone, you need to be in a place where you are comfortable and happy with yourself. What are your ambitions? Do you want a job? A life? Friends? A degree? Go get them. Women are attracted to ambition and confidence. I am so attracted to my boyfriend because he's always learning new things and teaching them to me. I love hearing about the crazy stuff he does at work. Or the fun things he's going out an doing. And the reason is, is because I'm doing the same thing. I like to vent to him about work, or school or tell him about the crazy people I've met.
I don't want to feel like I'm the only person who's actually doing shit. It's nice to share that with someone.
So you don't have to follow the social norms. You can live with your mother and play video games, and you'll find a girl who likes that. But you have to embrace it and be satisfied with it first. A relationship is not a stepping stone to a better life. Figuring out what you want and getting it is. A relationship is merely an embellishment, that feels nice.