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Anonymous #1

18 and no sex
    #10757151 - 07/28/09 05:59 PM (14 years, 6 months ago)

So here's the deal.
I've never had sex. I grew up fairly sheltered and learned about years after the rest of my peers, which may have something to do with it. The only thing ive done with a girl is making out, which I fully admit is laughable at the age of 18.
I know i'm not a homo- I very much enjoy beating it to pictures/thoughts/videos/whatever of hot babes. (blondes are my favorite, younger jessica simson was a fucking angel.) I guess the problem is that I just havent had a strong desire to go through the social routines of sex-having.
I should also throw out there that i'm definitely not ugly. I could name at least 15+girls that would have sex with me, but the problem is that I'm just not THAT interested in them. I'm kinda picky when it comes to being attracted to girls, I like the skinny blondes with stunning bodies and great full boobs. (see:jessica simpson)lol.
so is it weird for me to not be that interested in sex? I'd do it with a hot girl but I dont know how to instigate the situation..


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Anonymous #2

Re: 18 and no sex [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #10757206 - 07/28/09 06:09 PM (14 years, 6 months ago)

Weird perhaps, depending on who you ask. Useful? Yes. You get so much more shit done when not thinking about sex.


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Anonymous #3

Re: 18 and no sex [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #10757211 - 07/28/09 06:10 PM (14 years, 6 months ago)

Go fuck a hooker, it'll change your whole perspective.


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Anonymous #4

Re: 18 and no sex [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #10757268 - 07/28/09 06:22 PM (14 years, 6 months ago)

So you want to get laid, but you're being picky? :ilold:

that's like asking for change and then complaining about how they didnt give you any bills.


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Anonymous #5

Re: 18 and no sex [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #10757325 - 07/28/09 06:33 PM (14 years, 6 months ago)

You are perfectly normal.  The problem arises when you start comparing yourself to others.  I know all kinds of virgins from ages 0-28 or so.  I can't say any higher because they haven't volunteered the information.  The difference between this post and the way they talk about it is that they are very self-independent.  They do what they do and that's it.  They don't worry about their peers.

Anyways, I'm the same.  I'm not a sex hound.  I masturbate regularly, but I don't exert all of my energies chasing sex.  I work with men who measure their manhood by their penis size and how many times they got laid.  The catch is, they want you to feel inadequate.  THEY are better than you because they have sex more and their dicks are bigger.  And this is 30 and 40 year old men.  Not highschool.  People who feel inadequate in other areas will find a way to make themselves feel better.  Here's a typical conversation at my workplace:

Idiot: "You are gay"
Me: "I've only had heterosexual encounters"
Idiot: "You're gay because I've never seen you with a bitch.  Hell, you're pretty much a virgin."
Me: "I've had sex over 1000 times, how is that at all virginal?"
Idiot: "1000 times, but only with ONE chick."
Me: "and she was leagues beyond anything you've touched"
Idiot: "Ok, well.... my dick is bigger"

A constant one-up session.  Trying to find ways to make themselves feel better by bringing you down. 

So basically what I'm saying is, if you lower your own standards or have sex when you don't want to, just to reach some false standard created by your peers, they'll just invent the next one and not only will you have gained nothing, but you'll have betrayed yourself.

Don't worry about sex.  I don't think I lost my virginity till age 19 or 20.  Who cares.  You have better things to concern yourself with.


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Anonymous #6

Re: 18 and no sex [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #10757489 - 07/28/09 07:04 PM (14 years, 6 months ago)

eh, i didnt lose my virginity until a year ago (when i was 17), eh ive never been able to socialize very good with the ladies or anyone perhaps i grew up not being such a people's person but shit just sorta happened, to be honest i dont even know how the fuck i have a gf, shes the one that asked ME out. lol


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Anonymous #1

Re: 18 and no sex [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #10757491 - 07/28/09 07:05 PM (14 years, 6 months ago)

thanks #5, not sure what else to say but that was a good response. I really don't compare myself to others, and feel as if im fairly independent.
it's just funny to be around some of my peers, when 90% of their spoken words are relating to how many chicks theyve slept with as if it makes them somehow better than everyone else. oh well, I laugh at them on the inside. thanks for the advice


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Anonymous #7

Re: 18 and no sex [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #10758525 - 07/28/09 10:23 PM (14 years, 6 months ago)

I think what #5 said is true about not basing your life on goals of sex and other peoples misdirected standards, but I don't think that's entirely your issue.

Your view of sex and women in general seems a little immature and skewed.
You keep putting emphasis on how you expect every girl to look like "Jessica Simpson."
There is a fine line between settling for someone who you are completely not attracted to and expecting every remotely cool girl you meet to look like a perfectly proportioned bombshell, (Not that I think Jessica Simpson is that damn good).

Maybe you would have an easier time breaching the subject with women if you actually got to know some and actually had intimacy with a girl before you start drawing lines on what a woman should be like.
"Instigate the situation" by actually making a connection.
Are there any personality traits you like besides stunning bodies and full boobs.


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Anonymous #8

Re: 18 and no sex [Re: Anonymous #7]
    #10758592 - 07/28/09 10:35 PM (14 years, 6 months ago)

18 and no sex? dude that's REALLY not a big deal. Be glad you havent gotten some dumb immature bitch pregnant, or got an STD...you dont have to be cool like all the other kids...18 is still pretty fuckin young, and you will be younger than you realize for years to come.

one piece of advice i can give you though...stop being so fucking picky... you will gain a whole new respect for how beautiful less-than-perfect women are once you see how amazingly incredible they are naked IN PERSON, and how nice it feels for them to touch you. Besides, people are PEOPLE, not numbers on a ratings system, and chances are whoever u hook up with youre not gonna be stuck with for all eternity so get over that fear

but you ask is it weird to not be seeking sex like a fiend? fuck no its not, not if its because you got things that are actually VALUABLE on your mind. Even if you and whatever girl are both too young to really know much about real love, it doesnt matter, at least you can respect yourself if its that you want to actually LIKE the girl you sleep with.


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Anonymous #9

Re: 18 and no sex [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #10758643 - 07/28/09 10:44 PM (14 years, 6 months ago)

eh...you're not missing out on much  :shrug:


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Anonymous #10

Re: 18 and no sex [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #10760547 - 07/29/09 08:31 AM (14 years, 6 months ago)

dude you're fine.  i've only ever slept with 3 women, and I'm damn near 28, and I don't consider myself to be missing out on anything.  I'd worried for a while I was too preoccupied with physical appearances..  but I got over that pretty quickly.  It's not about who's pretty and who's not, and it would be dishonest and mean to pretend you're attracted to someone if you're actually not.  It's just about meeting someone you really care about and who cares about you.  You'll run into someone like that sooner or later.  they might not fit your 'ideal' right now but you'll throw that out the window if you find the right person.


not a big deal at all.  whackin off is a lot easier than dealing with someone you don't really want to talk to just to get them in to bed.


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Anonymous #11

Re: 18 and no sex [Re: Anonymous #10]
    #10760562 - 07/29/09 08:34 AM (14 years, 6 months ago)

just whack it. Women are a pain in the ass to deal with. They are worse than owning a house full of puppies.


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Anonymous #12

Re: 18 and no sex [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #10760569 - 07/29/09 08:37 AM (14 years, 6 months ago)

Don't worry, you'll get you some nay. You've got a lot of years to go yet.


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Anonymous #1

Re: 18 and no sex [Re: Anonymous #12]
    #10760874 - 07/29/09 09:58 AM (14 years, 6 months ago)

cool cool, thanks guys for the reassurance. all is well


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Anonymous #13

Re: 18 and no sex [Re: Anonymous #11]
    #10766213 - 07/30/09 03:07 AM (14 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #11 said:
just whack it. Women are a pain in the ass to deal with. They are worse than owning a house full of puppies.




god that is so fucking true i want to tattoo it on my fucking forehead. THIS^^^THIS.


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Anonymous #1

Re: 18 and no sex [Re: Anonymous #13]
    #10774277 - 07/31/09 11:59 AM (14 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #13 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #11 said:
just whack it. Women are a pain in the ass to deal with. They are worse than owning a house full of puppies.




god that is so fucking true i want to tattoo it on my fucking forehead. THIS^^^THIS.




haha..I share the same viewpoint. dumb bitches, all of them Ive met are either 1) stupid.  2) dumb 3) whores 4)stupid dumb whores.


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Anonymous #9

Re: 18 and no sex [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #10774316 - 07/31/09 12:07 PM (14 years, 5 months ago)

yeah...that about sums it up too  :lol:


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Anonymous #14

Re: 18 and no sex [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #10774321 - 07/31/09 12:08 PM (14 years, 5 months ago)

the way I see it your in an ideal position...

there are alot of women that like breaking in virgins like you...

you just need to communicate with them better.


Go find some really hot blonde chic that you would like to nail...

and tell her your a virgin and that you find her incredibly sexy....

and that you would do anything to lose your virginity to her!~


She might not be willing and turn you down...

but don't let it get you down if that happens...

just move on to the next one...

the key is being persistent and not giving up.


GL!~


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Anonymous #15

Re: 18 and no sex [Re: Anonymous #14]
    #10775449 - 07/31/09 03:34 PM (14 years, 5 months ago)

dont put the pussy on a platter:stoned:


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Anonymous #16

Re: 18 and no sex [Re: Anonymous #15]
    #10778494 - 08/01/09 02:28 AM (14 years, 5 months ago)

Didn't have sex 'till I was 21, no problem with that. Honestly, the only people who care about that shit are high school kids and the girl you're fucking. She only cares because she wants you to do it right.


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