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 CHeeCHer
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 So unhappy with life and the way things are going. 
#2213325 - 01/01/04 11:22 PM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'm in love but not loved back.
No job.
Still Smoking though ive tried to quit like 4 times in the past 2 weeks
Depressed.
hearing voices tell me what too do
slightly insane.
that about sums it up, the only time i'm ever truely happy is when im with this girl. but i fear nothing will ever become of it.
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I'm like King Midas in reverse. Everything I touch turns to shit.
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Strumpling
Neuronaut
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 Re: So unhappy with life and the way things are going. [Re: CHeeCHer]
#2213386 - 01/02/04 12:07 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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1. Nothing will come of any girl if you dislike yourself..
2. Get a job - you are not alone..
3. Relax, man! Breathe 
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enotake2
Stop Bush's war
Registered: 01/31/03
Posts: 1,457
Loc: Comfy chair in my lounger...
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Re: So unhappy with life and the way things are going. [Re: CHeeCHer]
#2213713 - 01/02/04 03:18 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Trying to quit smoking while you are feeling down, whether it is tobacco or marijuana will be much more difficult. Also the withdrawal with either substance will contribute to your mood. So I reckon it would be a bad time to quit just right now. Re your depression - here are some tips to get yourself a bit happier:-
- write a list of things you enjoy doing. Try to do one a day. When you don't feel like doing something, do it anyway without thinking about it.
-make yourself get out of bed in the morning - as soon as you do the world is better outside your head
- cope with the present problems in your life. Try not to worry about the past or the future.
-break down tasks into manangeable pieces and just do a bit at a time
- exercise - great for stress and depression
- write out how you feel
- catch your negative thoughts and challenge them - is the problem permanent, pervasive or personal? Most often they are temperary, situational and there is evidence you are a better person than you are telling yourself. Is there an up side to the situation or things in your life that are going well that you are not thinking of? When you have done so put off thinking about whatever you were thinking about and distract yourself.
- or when a negative thought comes into your head try to block it out (say 'STOP') and go do something
- practice relaxation exercises
- Try to be with other people. Do something nice for someone else
- Accept that you don't have to be perfect at everything or anything and that it is OK to be average.
- if it is too much - get help - see a GP or a counsellor.
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Computer games don't affect kids. I mean if Pacman affected our generation as kids, we'd all be running around in a darkened room, munching pills and listening to repetitive electronic music.
"Being bitter and hateful is like drinking a vial of poison and hoping the other person gets sick" FreakQLibrium
"My motto from here on out is: If someone or something (including me) in my life is conducting themselves in such a way that they can be seen on Jerry Springer, it's time to take out the garbage!!! When you stop taking their behaviour personally and see their antics as a true reflection on their character, it becomes absolutely nauseating." Anon. on abusive relationships.
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 Re: So unhappy with life and the way things are going. [Re: enotake2]
#2213731 - 01/02/04 03:32 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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You truly do rawk,sorry if it's off topic but i truly admire the way you spread so much GENUINE positive NRG 
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CHeeCHer
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Re: So unhappy with life and the way things are going. [Re: enotake2]
#2214095 - 01/02/04 08:07 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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hmmm thanks for the advise i think i will maybe try and do some of those things....
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enotake2
Stop Bush's war
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Posts: 1,457
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Re: So unhappy with life and the way things are going. [Re: FreakQlibrium]
#2224979 - 01/07/04 11:23 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Aw thanks.
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Computer games don't affect kids. I mean if Pacman affected our generation as kids, we'd all be running around in a darkened room, munching pills and listening to repetitive electronic music.
"Being bitter and hateful is like drinking a vial of poison and hoping the other person gets sick" FreakQLibrium
"My motto from here on out is: If someone or something (including me) in my life is conducting themselves in such a way that they can be seen on Jerry Springer, it's time to take out the garbage!!! When you stop taking their behaviour personally and see their antics as a true reflection on their character, it becomes absolutely nauseating." Anon. on abusive relationships.
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Psilozero
StonedGuitar/BassPlayer
Registered: 03/07/03
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Loc: mile high
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Re: So unhappy with life and the way things are going. [Re: enotake2]
#2227232 - 01/08/04 09:39 AM (19 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
CHeeCHer69 said:
I'm in love but not loved back.
No job.
Still Smoking though ive tried to quit like 4 times in the past 2 weeks
Depressed.
hearing voices tell me what too do
slightly insane.
that about sums it up, the only time i'm ever truely happy is when im with this girl. but i fear nothing will ever become of it.
I'm right here with you bro. Going through the exact same crap.
Quote:
enotake2 said:
-make yourself get out of bed in the morning - as soon as you do the world is better outside your head
- cope with the present problems in your life. Try not to worry about the past or the future.
-break down tasks into manangeable pieces and just do a bit at a time
- exercise - great for stress and depression
- write out how you feel
Nice tips. 
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