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 Hmm, this might get complicated. 
#988053 - 10/23/02 10:33 PM (21 years, 11 months ago) |
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Very vague subject here, but Im was thinking about how to tell if a aquaintence would like to be your friend and if a friend might be interested in being a little more. Flat out asking can be awkward and a misunderstanding can waste alot of time. I was never the greatest at this and Im just milling this over in my head (I took some meds to study and cant sleep now!  )
As far as aquaintences go I think Im gonna try being blunt: " Unless you slap me and yell 'How Dare You!' Im going to be your friend." Sort of take my social skills back to the middle school level. 
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Anonymous
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 Re: Hmm, this might get complicated. [Re: Chemical_Smile]
#988243 - 10/23/02 11:23 PM (21 years, 11 months ago) |
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Just be straight and ask.
If you are bold and honest a chic will respect it and give you an honest answer.
If you be a weiner about it, you'll just be a weiner.
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Did I just post in chill??? SHIT  
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Edited by You_Suck (10/23/02 11:26 PM)
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FreezingPenguin
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Re: Hmm, this might get complicated. [Re: Chemical_Smile]
#988330 - 10/23/02 11:50 PM (21 years, 11 months ago) |
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NOOO, don't ask, that is soo unromantic
that's like asking "can i kiss you?"
can bite you neck now?
can i eat you out?
you don't ask dude, if its ment to be it will happen
make your move, and read her body language, i'm sure she prob feels the same way, and if not, it may be a little ebarassing, but that's whay friends are for. if she does reject you, it won't screw things up if she's a real friend, she'll only be flattered
but i for one think you have a good shot, cause being freinds first is the way to go. invite her out to a meal or movie or something, like a date, and just go from there
a little alchole is fine for the first kiss, but make sure your stone sober for the first fuck, otherwise the relationship is doomed
good luck ;-)
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Re: Hmm, this might get complicated. [Re: FreezingPenguin]
#988339 - 10/23/02 11:52 PM (21 years, 11 months ago) |
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Your right if this chicks not a good friend. It just flows if its new, but with a friend you are already open with eachother.
If she's a good friend just ask.
If its a new chick ~ feel the flow
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Re: Hmm, this might get complicated. [Re: Anonymous]
#989190 - 10/24/02 09:55 AM (21 years, 11 months ago) |
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I agree with Y_S
I recently tried this (just asking) with a good friend of about a year and even though she didn't want to get serious we're still friends.
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TinMan
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Re: Hmm, this might get complicated. [Re: dee_N_ae]
#991124 - 10/24/02 09:35 PM (21 years, 11 months ago) |
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Ha... if you really have guts, just go up to her and ask straight out,"Can I eat you out?" Works for me... at least once...
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dee_N_ae
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Re: Hmm, this might get complicated. [Re: TinMan]
#991138 - 10/24/02 09:38 PM (21 years, 11 months ago) |
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LOL
I've been tempted... 
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Re: Hmm, this might get complicated. [Re: dee_N_ae]
#991738 - 10/25/02 12:31 AM (21 years, 11 months ago) |
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Meh...just do what me and my current girlfriend/best friend did...Get really drunk, then say "hey...i dare you to kiss me".
That was pretty cool when that worked...
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Re: Hmm, this might get complicated. [Re: Toadie]
#991752 - 10/25/02 12:39 AM (21 years, 11 months ago) |
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hehe that's a good one.
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 Re: Hmm, this might get complicated. [Re: dee_N_ae]
#991972 - 10/25/02 05:39 AM (21 years, 11 months ago) |
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any more straight foward than this:
" Wanna fuck?" Hee-uk, hee-uk
" Yor pertee..."
" You smell good; like guys?"
Wha the hell? Freezing Penguin? Cool
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