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Anonymous #1
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What are you talking about
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Anonymous #9
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Anonymous #11 said: A woman being a slut is just counter to all evolutionary principles.
I think evolution made us want to fuck. Men and women being sluts is just the norm and I think that both sexes are pretty similar in their propensity to stray.
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Anonymous #14
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Re: I cheated on my boyfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9833242 - 02/20/09 12:35 PM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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OP should be dragged into the street and stoned to death. No joke.
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Anonymous #20
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Re: I cheated on my boyfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9833262 - 02/20/09 12:37 PM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: I feel so guilty, it is eating me up. I want to tell him so badly but I don't want any trouble. I never lie and never do things behind peoples backs... until now.
I'm sorry
dirty fuckin whore
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Anonymous #21
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Re: I cheated on my boyfriend [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#9833294 - 02/20/09 12:40 PM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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I hope you accidentally catch the herpes #1. It just happens. 
You have to tell the guy. It is bad enough that you did it in the first place, and not telling him now would lead to you being an even more deceitful whore.
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Anonymous #22
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I personally think it's awsome you cheated on him!! Just forget the guilt and get on with life don't tell him anything and if you ever feel like cheating again do it!! we can't be expected to spend the rest of our lives with one person unless it was truely meant to be!!!
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Anonymous #23
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What would HE do if he fucked a girl behind your back? How would you feel (if it were before you cheated on him)?
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Anonymous #21
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Anonymous #22 said: I personally think it's awsome you cheated on him!! Just forget the guilt and get on with life don't tell him anything and if you ever feel like cheating again do it!! we can't be expected to spend the rest of our lives with one person unless it was truely meant to be!!!
Crimson / Oxygen, LOL
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Anonymous #24
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cheaters suck, if he leaves you, you deserve it...
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Anonymous #25
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Anonymous #22 said: I personally think it's awsome you cheated on him!! Just forget the guilt and get on with life don't tell him anything and if you ever feel like cheating again do it!! we can't be expected to spend the rest of our lives with one person unless it was truely meant to be!!!
QFT
The problem here isn't that you had sex. You are supposed to have sex and like it. Good for you for not repressing yourself. 
The problem is all the insecure patriarchal men who call women whores because the men are terrified they can't have babies, causing their genetic reproduction to depend on woman being loyal to them. Thus, women are treated like property of men (what monogamy and the abortion debate are really about), and women who don't conform to that bullshit are treated like shit. Women are basically crucified so men can feel a little less anxious about their irrelevance to reproduction.
Consider lying, or telling him. If he acts are territorial, dump his ass and get a partner cool with you getting some on the side. If your man loved you, he'd rather you be having good sex with someone else then frustrated and monogamous.
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Anonymous #16
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Anonymous #16 said: Must be nice not to be able to think about consequences when you do shit that's going to destroy someone.
Great job, #1.
You're pathetic. I bet if there was a gut saying that, you'd be all cheerful and congratulating him for his new victory. I don't understand these double standards.
#1, just tell your boyfriend, be honest to him. Accidents do sometimes happen, and if you really love him and want to be with him, it's enough to be completely honest. If he loves you too, chances are that he'll get over it, it all depends on how close you two actually are, and how easy it will be for him to get over that first moment which feels really bad, but it sure is better than lying to him. It will only make you feel miserable and guilty and he will pick up on your feelings and this is how you'll slowly lose him. There is a chance that he won't be able to forgive you, but personally I couldn't live with lying to the one I love.
Actually, I hold men and women to the same standard. I had a friend who wanted to cheat on his girlfriend and I told him he'd be a piece of shit if he did, so don't presume to what the fuck I'm about.
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Anonymous #21
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#25, you don't get it brah
If you're in a relationship (i.e.: boyfriend/girlfriend), then there is a sort of understood possessive thing there. That's the whole point of the relationship. If this girl didn't have a boyfriend, then fine, fuck all the dudes you want, but if you're in a relationship, keep the foreign cocks out of yer vag or break up with the dude, it's that simple.
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Anonymous #26
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It all boils down to the fact that #1 chose vanity and novelty over trust and love.
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Anonymous #27
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of all people my mom gave me some good advice...well what i thought was alright advice back in the day lol. If theres no ring on your finger its not cheating. I personally think we should spread our seed while were on this earth.
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Anonymous #28
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Must have been good sex if you feel guilty lol
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #23 said: What would HE do if he fucked a girl behind your back? How would you feel (if it were before you cheated on him)?
Um. He has cheated on me.
And it is not meant for "a woman to be monogomous just because of evolution." Get your fucking facts straight before you fart out of your mouth. I'm not even going to get into it now, you're probably too narrow minded to get it anyway. We were completely equal until about 10,000 years ago. Equality ended along with foraging, and with the beginning of agriculture.
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Anonymous #26
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What does the ring matter without the trust behind it? I'd prefer to not need an object to have loyalty.
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Anonymous #11
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Re: I cheated on my boyfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9834408 - 02/20/09 04:05 PM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: I'm not even going to get into it now, you're probably too narrow minded to get it anyway. We were completely equal until about 10,000 years ago. Equality ended along with foraging, and with the beginning of agriculture.
I call bullshit.
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Anonymous #1
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Yeah and you're probably a dumb hick who also believes in creationism
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Anonymous #9
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Re: I cheated on my boyfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9834572 - 02/20/09 04:45 PM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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You know it would be really hot if you talked about the whole cheating encounter step-by-step.
Anonymous #9 needs to have some material to whack off to.
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