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Anonymous #14
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Re: I cheated on my boyfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9832637 - 02/20/09 11:03 AM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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At any time during the lead up to the sex, did you ever think, "Gosh, I have a boyfriend, I need to stop??".
Like, what is the thought process that allows you to say "fuck it" and go for something like this while disregarding the man you love??
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Anonymous #9
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Anonymous #14 said: At any time during the lead up to the sex, did you ever think, "Gosh, I have a boyfriend, I need to stop??".
Like, what is the thought process that allows you to say "fuck it" and go for something like this while disregarding the man you love??
Umm...duhhhh. Horniness.
I've never cared when girls I was with wanted to get some dick on the side (as long as I can get some pussy on the side). Sometimes you need a change and you need to spice things up. Sometimes a super-attractive and sexy person comes along and you just want to bang the hell out of them. I really don't see what the big deal is. 
But, if the boyfriend expects sexual loyalty then what Anonymous #1 did was definately wrong. Sounds like she had fun though.
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Anonymous #15
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Re: I cheated on my boyfriend [Re: Anonymous #9]
#9832719 - 02/20/09 11:17 AM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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You enjoyed it for a reason. You're going to have to let the man you're with now know eventually.
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Anonymous #14
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Re: I cheated on my boyfriend [Re: Anonymous #9]
#9832721 - 02/20/09 11:17 AM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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I've been horny before and had attractive people coming on to me but I think "I would never hurt my girlfriend like this" and don't allow anything to happen.
I'm interested in the mental process of someone that allows themself to do something like this.
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Anonymous #12
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Anonymous #14 said: I've been horny before and had attractive people coming on to me but I think "I would never hurt my girlfriend like this" and don't allow anything to happen.
I'm interested in the mental process of someone that allows themself to do something like this.
agreed i feel the same way and would like to know the same thing!!
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Anonymous #9
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Anonymous #14 said: I'm interested in the mental process of someone that allows themself to do something like this.
I'll break it down for you:
1. Suave attractive dude comes along.
2. Suave attractive dude starts to mack on our beloved Anonymous #1.
3. Anonymous #1 enjoys the attention, is intrigued, and turned on.
4. Suave attractive dude goes in for the kill.
5. Anonymous #1 is so worked up that she forgets about boyfriend.
6. Five minutes later Anonymous #1 is moaning and her eyes are rolling up into the back of her head.
Pretty simple actually.
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Anonymous #16
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Re: I cheated on my boyfriend [Re: Anonymous #9]
#9832835 - 02/20/09 11:36 AM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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Must be nice not to be able to think about consequences when you do shit that's going to destroy someone.
Great job, #1.
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Anonymous #17
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Your a whore, and your enjoying it. Nothing wrong with that. Most men are whores and love every minute of it.
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Anonymous #1
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I'm not perfect. The whole situation is really out of character for me. The only people I really lie to are cops and my mom.
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Anonymous #18
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Anonymous #16 said: Must be nice not to be able to think about consequences when you do shit that's going to destroy someone.
Great job, #1.
You're pathetic. I bet if there was a gut saying that, you'd be all cheerful and congratulating him for his new victory. I don't understand these double standards.
#1, just tell your boyfriend, be honest to him. Accidents do sometimes happen, and if you really love him and want to be with him, it's enough to be completely honest. If he loves you too, chances are that he'll get over it, it all depends on how close you two actually are, and how easy it will be for him to get over that first moment which feels really bad, but it sure is better than lying to him. It will only make you feel miserable and guilty and he will pick up on your feelings and this is how you'll slowly lose him. There is a chance that he won't be able to forgive you, but personally I couldn't live with lying to the one I love.
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Anonymous #19
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The longer you wait the worse it will be when he finds out. Like an infection it only gets worse with time if you pretend it isnt there.
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Anonymous #12
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"Accidents do sometimes happen"
lol
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Anonymous #17
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And you better tell him before you have sex with him again. He will be more pissed off if you screw him and then tell him "oh by the way, some other guys dick was up in me the other day"
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Anonymous #12
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Anonymous #18
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Anonymous #12 said: "Accidents do sometimes happen"
lol
Yeah, accidents: things that you did with poor judgment. When you crash your car into the wall, even if it is you who was driving the car and are responsible for the crash, it is accident.
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Anonymous #12
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i accidentally crashed my (insert girl part) in to your (insert man part) whilest driving my whore wagon.
nice
well i am off to see if i can go get in to an accident :-)
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Anonymous #9
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Oh come on....leave the poor girl alone.
If this was a guy then nobody would care or people would be saying "Way to go stud!". But, because it's a chick everybody screams "whore".
Honey...you found some hot dude. You fucked him and you had fun. Given that you are in a committed relationship you need to tell your boyfriend immediately. Hopefully he will forgive you. The longer you wait the worse it will be.
Am I the only one who doesn't think this is a big deal?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: I cheated on my boyfriend [Re: Anonymous #9]
#9833124 - 02/20/09 12:20 PM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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Anonymous #9 said:
If this was a guy then nobody would care or people would be saying "Way to go stud!". But, because it's a chick everybody screams "whore".
Yeah, WTF is that? I got some good advice, (thanks) but I forgot that Shroomery is one big sausage fest.
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Anonymous #11
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Re: I cheated on my boyfriend [Re: Anonymous #9]
#9833129 - 02/20/09 12:21 PM (14 years, 11 months ago) |
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Anonymous #9 said: If this was a guy then nobody would care or people would be saying "Way to go stud!". But, because it's a chick everybody screams "whore".
Because guys are by nature polygamous whereas girls ought to be monogamous to care for their young.
A woman being a slut is just counter to all evolutionary principles.
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Anonymous #19
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Females are much more likely to cheat than males.
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