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Anonymous #84
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Re: I cheated on my boyfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9915314 - 03/05/09 08:03 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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I didn't really read anything in this thread so pardon me if it's been said already, but it seems to me like you should just reevaluate your relationship. There is no going back to the way things were before you cheated, but there must have been a reason you let it happen - I've been in so many situations where I could have cheated but I intentionally steered things away from it, because I want to be in a committed relationship with my significant other. You're most likely feeling guilty about having to break it to someone that you betrayed his trust - and you should.
Get it over with, tell him, know if you want to make things work or not, and be clear about it. If you feel guilty and are afraid the relationship is forever fucked because of a lack of trust then just do yourself a favor and call it quits and learn from the whole ordeal.
Don't get into another relationship that isn't expressly open-ended until you're ready to be faithful to a commitment like that.
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Anonymous #85
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Anonymous #57 said: guys don't have respect for cheating women, so if it gets out, expect to be treated as a whore by others. but hey, your dating a cheater... go figure!
a guy or a girl who cheats fails at once at all of the things that make maintaining a meaningful bond with someone worthwhile.
you people that say cheating isnt bad or that you and your other have an open relationship make me kinda sad. to me it sounds like internet 16 year olds or guys that never learned how to develope deep connections with someone. Sex is downright boring if your not in love. complex and deep individuals have complex and deep, rewarding relationships.
if you cheat on someone, and that other someone (i'l leave this up to you to decide)loves you, he/she deserves to know so he doesnt waste his time loving someone that doesnt deserve it.
and youre 20 and you've already fucked 4 men. and none of them seem to be relationships, just fucks. well the way you treat yourself is the way others treat you. your actions and what you do is WHO YOU ARE. thats how a person is judged by another. and you are excellent at deflating your value.
on the other hand youd make a wounderful fling in a parking lot for a guy who likes to use once and toss, so mayeb you should stick to that. it's what youre worth and capable of maintaining.
i feel pretty lucky with my girl when i read this sleazy shit you people do. it's hard to find someone thats worth respecting these days
hahaha you're obviously a virgin. go fuck yourself Poid.
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Anonymous #85
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Anonymous #51 said: WHO ARE YOU OP WE HAVE TO KNOW WHO THE BIGGEST WHORE ON THE SHROOMERY IS
I can't remember who posted this, but in the Pub a while ago, someone was posting about their whore girlfriend who got drunk and high with a black dude she didn't know, then rode around town with him and gave him her number, then he showed up and surprised the hell out of her boyfriend the next day. She ended up posting in the thread defending her actions... you and her are the same person ARENT YOU?!?!?!
that was capitalistic nomad aka zippoz and he's known to make a puppet or two.
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Anonymous #85
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Re: I cheated on my boyfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9915808 - 03/05/09 10:30 AM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: I did something fucked up. I know.
I'm sure you're all fucking saints though
even worse... 19 y/o virgins.
one of them even said that having sex with four people by the age of twenty makes somebody a whore. hahahahaha.
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Anonymous #85
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Anonymous #67 said: I cant believe none of you fags are down with OPP.
Don't tell him, live with the guilt. Lies are part of life, no matter what "virtuous" bullshit these moral warriors spit at you. People make horrible mistakes. I've never cheated on a girlfriend of mine, but I've made the assist.
qft
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Anonymous #39
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If this girl didnt cheat rihannah wouldnt be goin out with douchebaggolo you neonazi two faced degenerative mechanical WHORES!!
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Anonymous #31
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Anonymous #1 said: I did something fucked up. I know.
I'm sure you're all fucking saints though
SAINT RITE HERE NIKKA
ME AND MY GF RELATION SHIP I SACRED AS SACRED AS SHROOMS
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Anonymous #86
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Re: I cheated on my boyfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9919737 - 03/05/09 09:00 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: I did something fucked up. I know.
I'm sure you're all fucking saints though
Hey OP, don't pay any attention to the immature douches here that have been shouting whore! They are jealous that you are getting laid.
It is a sure thing that half of them have never been laid, and the other half have never seen a pussy that wasn't on their sister or mother. It is very easy to be holier than thou anonymously on the internet, and condemn people for mistakes in life that we all make. Not everyone cheats on a partner, but we all make mistakes of some kind.
Having said that, I can tell you that the worst day of my life was when I told my wife I had cheated on her. Fortunately for me, she forgave me and 20 years later we are still happening. This is the exception, rather than the rule. Infidelity is one reason for a roughly 50% divorce rate in NA.
So buck up, look yourself in the eyes and decide what you want from here on. You absolutely must tell your BF and let the situation go where it will. If the relationship ends, so be it. You still have a whole lot of life to live - good life. If he can genuinely forgive you, and you can both move on, you will have a whole lot of good live to live.
See, either way it is now a past mistake and you get to determine how you will live in the future.
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Anonymous #11
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Re: I cheated on my boyfriend [Re: Anonymous #86] 1
#9919778 - 03/05/09 09:07 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: I did something fucked up. I know.
I'm sure you're all fucking saints though
Hey OP, don't pay any attention to the immature douches here that have been shouting whore! They are jealous that you are getting laid.
It is a sure thing that half of them have never been laid, and the other half have never seen a pussy that wasn't on their sister or mother. It is very easy to be holier than thou anonymously on the internet, and condemn people for mistakes in life that we all make. Not everyone cheats on a partner, but we all make mistakes of some kind.
Having said that, I can tell you that the worst day of my life was when I told my wife I had cheated on her. Fortunately for me, she forgave me and 20 years later we are still happening. This is the exception, rather than the rule. Infidelity is one reason for a roughly 50% divorce rate in NA.
So buck up, look yourself in the eyes and decide what you want from here on. You absolutely must tell your BF and let the situation go where it will. If the relationship ends, so be it. You still have a whole lot of life to live - good life. If he can genuinely forgive you, and you can both move on, you will have a whole lot of good live to live.
See, either way it is now a past mistake and you get to determine how you will live in the future.
OP, what #86 really meant to say in all that was that you're a whore.
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Anonymous #21
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Anonymous #1 said: I did something fucked up. I know.
I'm sure you're all fucking saints though
Hey OP, don't pay any attention to the immature douches here that have been shouting whore! They are jealous that you are getting laid.
It is a sure thing that half of them have never been laid, and the other half have never seen a pussy that wasn't on their sister or mother. It is very easy to be holier than thou anonymously on the internet, and condemn people for mistakes in life that we all make. Not everyone cheats on a partner, but we all make mistakes of some kind.
Having said that, I can tell you that the worst day of my life was when I told my wife I had cheated on her. Fortunately for me, she forgave me and 20 years later we are still happening. This is the exception, rather than the rule. Infidelity is one reason for a roughly 50% divorce rate in NA.
So buck up, look yourself in the eyes and decide what you want from here on. You absolutely must tell your BF and let the situation go where it will. If the relationship ends, so be it. You still have a whole lot of life to live - good life. If he can genuinely forgive you, and you can both move on, you will have a whole lot of good live to live.
See, either way it is now a past mistake and you get to determine how you will live in the future.
OP, what #86 really meant to say in all that was that you're a whore.
Basically, yeah.
Also, by throwing in the bolded part above, it is clear that he is trying to justify his prior infidelity. Maybe you two can get together!
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Anonymous #86
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Anonymous #1 said: I did something fucked up. I know.
I'm sure you're all fucking saints though
Hey OP, don't pay any attention to the immature douches here that have been shouting whore! They are jealous that you are getting laid.
It is a sure thing that half of them have never been laid, and the other half have never seen a pussy that wasn't on their sister or mother. It is very easy to be holier than thou anonymously on the internet, and condemn people for mistakes in life that we all make. Not everyone cheats on a partner, but we all make mistakes of some kind.
Having said that, I can tell you that the worst day of my life was when I told my wife I had cheated on her. Fortunately for me, she forgave me and 20 years later we are still happening. This is the exception, rather than the rule. Infidelity is one reason for a roughly 50% divorce rate in NA.
So buck up, look yourself in the eyes and decide what you want from here on. You absolutely must tell your BF and let the situation go where it will. If the relationship ends, so be it. You still have a whole lot of life to live - good life. If he can genuinely forgive you, and you can both move on, you will have a whole lot of good live to live.
See, either way it is now a past mistake and you get to determine how you will live in the future.
OP, what #86 really meant to say in all that was that you're a whore.
OP what I'm saying is #11 has shit for brains and would like you to strap one on and DSHSB.
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Anonymous #63
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DSHSB?
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Anonymous #36
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Re: I cheated on my boyfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
#9920057 - 03/05/09 10:02 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: No I am clean and he wasn't black. Why does that even matter? (Unless you're a toothless hick.)
Or an OTD fag who tries very hard to be a badass by using the word "nigger"
Sorry honey but your white trash, get used to it.
YOU ARE A FUCKING WHORE, simple as that.
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Anonymous #8
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Anonymous #63 said: DSHSB?
Dose Some Heady Shrooms Brah
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Anonymous #11
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Anonymous #63 said: DSHSB?
Kinda like what happened to OP.
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Anonymous #87
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Don't tell him.
There is no point in putting that in his head, and if you regret it, then just never let it "just happen" again.
We are all human, and to be human is to error, but there is no point in ruining your relationship just because you had to stray to realize what was important.
Don't tell him, just love him all the more.
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Anonymous #87 said: Don't tell him, just love him all the more.
Which gives further reason for the OP to just suck as much dick as she can on the side, so long as she doesn't tell him.
Once a whore, always a whore.
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Anonymous #46
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Re: I cheated on my boyfriend *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #11]
#9920355 - 03/05/09 10:53 PM (14 years, 10 months ago) |
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Anonymous #8
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As long as she didn't get a disease and it won't happen again, what good does telling the truth do besides seriously fucking with the dude's head.
If she loves him and wants to stay with him, shouldn't she live with the guilt rahter than get it off her chest and have him live with the mistrust and betrayal?
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