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Re: I once had this girlfriend... *DELETED* [Re: Kukaracha]
    #9637217 - 01/19/09 10:15 AM (15 years, 2 months ago)

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Re: I once had this girlfriend... [Re: Mr Cyan]
    #9637298 - 01/19/09 10:34 AM (15 years, 2 months ago)

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She said things like "we're in different worlds, i'm just a young girl, & you're older, you're my first boyfriend".




that's very telling right there. maybe she sees things more clearly than you think. you are in different worlds, and she is very young. as mature as she may be, trying to rationalize the emotions of a 16 year old will lead you down a difficult road, don't make it harder on her than it needs to be. my advice would be to hold on to that fondness you have for her, but go back to school and live your life. open yourself up to new experiences, that's what college is for. don't fret about a high school relationship. she'll be in the same world as you in two short years, and maybe you'll still have that desire for eachother.. and you'll both be adults, which always helps. my advice is to leave it alone man, let her have her high school experience, while you go live it up and enjoy seeing the scope of the world outside.

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Re: I once had this girlfriend... [Re: Hendostan]
    #9637341 - 01/19/09 10:45 AM (15 years, 2 months ago)

Well i had a long distant girlfriend and she cheated on my so many times. Be glad for the time you have with someone, but i know long distant relationships never work. You will both be happier if you move on. You both have a lot of growing up to do, and neither of you need this stress while trying to concentrate on school.

My advice is to go get laid. The first time is never magical, and it's best to get it over with quickly imo. Ive said before, sex is great, but don't take it to seriously. I know people won't agree with that, but i think it's put WAY to high on a pedistal.


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I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do." -Robert A. Heinlein

"There is no need for temples, no need for complicated philosophies.
My brain and my heart are my temples; my philosophy is kindness."-Dalai Lama

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Re: I once had this girlfriend... *DELETED* [Re: Mr Cyan]
    #9637768 - 01/19/09 12:07 PM (15 years, 2 months ago)

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Re: I once had this girlfriend... [Re: Mr Cyan]
    #9637882 - 01/19/09 12:25 PM (15 years, 2 months ago)

well personally i dont belive in monogomous relationships, other then that when your alone with someone its monogomous at that moment. i think its stupid to try to keep someone all to yourself.

i only had one girl friend and i havent seen her since she gave me a hand job. i broke up with her my first year of college on chirstmas(she was a russian jew so... no the big nose kind but not christmas celebrating) any who we hooked up and had sex for a couple months then i didnt really talk to her for like 3 months she said she missed me alot then she i visted her at boston university one day with my friend she would be all over me then the next a bitch Bi polar like or something. then before i left she totally gave me a hand job in my back seat while my friend was in the front she said she wanted to get back together then the next day she said she hated me and the time we spent that day bitchez are fucked up.


so lately i stick with just friends close close friends and have sex with them if its really called for i feel as tho if im gona really be friends with anyone it has to be at that level, way less drama and its all just love and loving but i am not bi so obviously i never have sex with guys.


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Re: I once had this girlfriend... *DELETED* [Re: Mr Cyan]
    #9638004 - 01/19/09 12:46 PM (15 years, 2 months ago)

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Re: I once had this girlfriend... [Re: Mr Cyan]
    #9638063 - 01/19/09 12:56 PM (15 years, 2 months ago)

It seems like she understands why this has to happen now, as opposed to be irrational and emotional and angry that you broke up with her.


If it is meant to be, it will be.


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Re: I once had this girlfriend... *DELETED* [Re: citricacidx]
    #9640062 - 01/19/09 05:47 PM (15 years, 2 months ago)

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Re: I once had this girlfriend... *DELETED* [Re: Mr Cyan]
    #9644652 - 01/20/09 09:22 AM (15 years, 1 month ago)

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Re: I once had this girlfriend... [Re: Mr Cyan]
    #9647126 - 01/20/09 05:14 PM (15 years, 1 month ago)

If you are still having problems then maybe. . . You made a rash decision and you are regretting it :shrug: I know you said you did this because she was like doubting your long distance thing but if you were so quick to end it, it might be that you are doing the same thing and only seeing her do it (its easier looking out than looking in)!  Either way you are both really young and lucky that you haven't brought sex into the mix because despite what some people say it changes everything and really not always for the better...

If you really think you love her and she loves you then just suck it up and call her more during the week while you're away. Communication is a vital part of a relationship, its not always verbal but if you were to see her everyday then there would be a different form of communication. Since you wouldn't be seeing her you need to text, call , email or something. Being with someone mental not just physically is what matters most of the time.


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