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 Almond Flour
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 Whats with the "Gay" Persona? *DELETED* 
#9510656 - 12/29/08 01:04 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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Re: Whats with the "Gay" Persona? [Re: Almond Flour]
#9510666 - 12/29/08 01:07 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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The same thing happened to my best friend from high school. He was gay the entire time, but only came out when he went to college and then his personality seemed to change. He became flamboyant.
I think it was because that's the way he always felt inside, but was scared to express because he lived in Texas where gays are sometimes hunted down and killed.
I got used to it. I like a little drama and flamboyance myself. It's fun!
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Re: Whats with the "Gay" Persona? [Re: Almond Flour]
#9510667 - 12/29/08 01:07 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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Its a culture. Some gay people when they come out choose to join this culture. Seems strange to some people because they are from a different culture with different values.
Edited by DimensionX (12/29/08 01:09 AM)
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Re: Whats with the "Gay" Persona? [Re: DimensionX]
#9510674 - 12/29/08 01:09 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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haha physical culture,jazz,tap and ballet
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Re: Whats with the "Gay" Persona? [Re: filthee]
#9510679 - 12/29/08 01:11 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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its just to fit in
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Re: Whats with the "Gay" Persona? [Re: filthee]
#9510681 - 12/29/08 01:11 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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It's a superficial way to seek validation. Sadly, they seem to think that by being accepted by shoving it in people's faces is the only way.
Others do it just for the fun of it all. Could be still the above reason, though.
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Re: Whats with the "Gay" Persona? [Re: impgl]
#9510690 - 12/29/08 01:13 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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Probably because it's just so fabulous!
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For well you know that its a fool who plays it cool
By making his world a little colder.
Under closer inspection I realised it was a funky ball of tits from outer space.
  
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Re: Whats with the "Gay" Persona? [Re: circularvortex] 1
#9510696 - 12/29/08 01:14 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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teehee! 
I want his clothes.
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DimensionX
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Re: Whats with the "Gay" Persona? [Re: PyroBurns]
#9510700 - 12/29/08 01:15 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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That could be true to some extent. But also keep in mind that if you were a straight person in a culture of predominantly gay people, you would be the one shoving it in peoples faces. You would stand out and seem flamboyant because you are part of a minority.
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Re: Whats with the "Gay" Persona? [Re: DimensionX]
#9510705 - 12/29/08 01:16 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well yeah. That's how it is.
I'm not saying it's bad, but it definitely isn't a step in being gay. It's more like saying fuck y'all, I'm gay.
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Re: Whats with the "Gay" Persona? [Re: DimensionX]
#9510712 - 12/29/08 01:17 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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its all about validation, who you prefer to have sex with should not be noticeable physical feature.
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Re: Whats with the "Gay" Persona? [Re: Calix]
#9510734 - 12/29/08 01:24 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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It could be said that if you act masculine and wear masculine clothes that you are acting straight and that your sexuality has become a noticeable physical feature.
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Re: Whats with the "Gay" Persona? [Re: DimensionX]
#9510743 - 12/29/08 01:26 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sexual projection isn't exclusive to gays, you're right.
But that doesn't mean that it's necessarily fulfilling to build your persona on your sexual orientation.
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Re: Whats with the "Gay" Persona? [Re: Calix] 1
#9510751 - 12/29/08 01:27 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
Calix said:
its all about validation, who you prefer to have sex with should not be noticeable physical feature.
Says WHO
'Shoulds' are full of bullshit.
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Re: Whats with the "Gay" Persona? [Re: MOTH]
#9510762 - 12/29/08 01:29 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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Says people in really expensive suits!
Anyone may find satisfaction in being really gay, or really butch, or really straight for awhile but it will likely fade like any other "costume". True happiness comes from within, not from being accepted for how you present yourself.
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Re: Whats with the "Gay" Persona? [Re: MOTH]
#9510763 - 12/29/08 01:29 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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hahaha thats exactly what i thought
these days it ISN'T noticeable....cept for the lisping boa wearers
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Re: Whats with the "Gay" Persona? [Re: PyroBurns] 1
#9510767 - 12/29/08 01:30 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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Its not all about sexual orientation. Its an accepted part of the culture they live in. We all fit into a culture.
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Re: Whats with the "Gay" Persona? [Re: DimensionX]
#9510775 - 12/29/08 01:32 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yeah, but it's fake.
Would you rather walk into a room and get a knowing nod because you are wearing your tight Diesel jeans and a rainbow scarf, or just be accepted for who you are?
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Re: Whats with the "Gay" Persona? [Re: PyroBurns] 1
#9510782 - 12/29/08 01:35 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
PyroBurns said:
True happiness comes from within
Indeed! Which is why my hypothesis (after watching my friend transform) is that 'acting gay' is just fun for them. And birds of a feather DO flock together...there is a social feedback loop they share with one another. It must be even more fun to act gay in unison. I had a gay guy tell me once, "The world is a stage!"
It inspired me at the time. I may even start acting more gay, as an experiment.
Ohhhh honey! 
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Re: Whats with the "Gay" Persona? [Re: MOTH]
#9510786 - 12/29/08 01:37 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yeah, I'm sure it can be fun for some. But I worry about the others who see it as a requirement.
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