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OfflineCurious_George
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Holding on,, Why???
    #942049 - 10/08/02 08:56 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)


Well. I've been debating leaving my girlfriend for a while now, i've posted threads here and there asking for opinions and well, i'm no further ahead.

WHY is it so hard to let go? Wha't i'm going thru is just stupid, i'm not happy anymore lately, she's stressing me out and i can't pinpoint it to 1 specific thing, i just feel love for her but can't keep this up, i'm going to give myself ulcers?

questoins? comments?? WHY WHY WHY....

cg


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OfflineCurious_George
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Re: Holding on,, Why??? [Re: Curious_George]
    #942098 - 10/08/02 09:24 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)

Some background info to help me out.

i'm 24
she's 32

she has 2 girls one is 11 the other 13.

we've been together for over 1 year, living together for 5 months.

I used to be a pot grower/dealer/etc... gave it all up for love, i don't regret this, money is not what it used to be but that's ok.

She's really a nice person, or most of the time. Looks young for her age, enjoys adventureous things, used to be a sex freak, but lately not.

When we first started going out she had a series of panic attacks and has been taking meds ever since, my wish is that she gets off the meds and i get to see the real deal of her true nature.

there..


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Re: Holding on,, Why??? [Re: Curious_George]
    #942099 - 10/08/02 09:24 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)

Most humans crave stabilility within a relatationship, even when that stability is usually nothing more than a (sometimes thinly disguised) unmitigated hell of our own creation. Sometimes clinging to that nightmare existence is less threatening than facing an uncertain(and very possible happier) future. Hey, i just finished extricating myself from the worst singular gender/relationship nightmare of my  entire life about an hour ago so i guess that's why i'm in an overly philosohical mood on a subject i usually don't give too much thought about :laugh: Hope things work out for you dude! 


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OfflineCurious_George
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Re: Holding on,, Why??? [Re: FreakQlibrium]
    #942111 - 10/08/02 09:30 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)

thanks for the insight... well stated!! bravo!

cg


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Offlinerecalcitrant
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Re: Holding on,, Why??? [Re: Curious_George]
    #942130 - 10/08/02 09:36 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)

If she used to be a sex freak but isnt any more its because she is cheating on you.

thats what she would think if you suddenly wanted less sex. women send the same signals that they think they are getting, if that makes any sense.


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InvisibleFreakQlibrium
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Re: Holding on,, Why??? [Re: Curious_George]
    #942132 - 10/08/02 09:37 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)

Yes, but insights learned from the harsh lash of experience that only real life and it's sometimes painfully accompanying experience can supply.........but if anyone can learn anything from MY stupidity, then it's all worth it :wink: 


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Re: Holding on,, Why??? [Re: recalcitrant]
    #942137 - 10/08/02 09:42 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)

"If she used to be a sex freak but isnt any more its because she is cheating on you. " Hope you had a GR8 time at the Tool show last ight dude, but i don't think that i could agree with your generalization as to why ANY woman might suddenly lose interest in sex. I think Women are a lottle bit more complicated that that.........


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OfflineCurious_George
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Re: Holding on,, Why??? [Re: FreakQlibrium]
    #942139 - 10/08/02 09:43 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)

Cheating:: I'd NEVER cheat on her, no matter what, and she knows this.

Her on the other hand,,, sober, no way,, drunk, well maybe, but i'd be very supprised.

Am i just too gullible or what? sucker for punishment? being taken for a ride? or am i just delusional?

cg


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Re: Holding on,, Why??? [Re: Curious_George]
    #942160 - 10/08/02 09:54 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)

I wouldn't be too quick to think she's cheating on you. My former g/f was on anti anxiety medications, and that shit does some wierd things to the libido. Do you guys openly talk about your feelings for each other, and where your relationship is headed? I've found that in the past, even though I had convinced myself that I was being completely honest with my partner, I really wasn't. And vice versa. Open and honest communication is the key. I feel your pain, brotha. Good Luck



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Re: Holding on,, Why??? [Re: Curious_George]
    #942239 - 10/08/02 10:23 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)

Mabey you should start dating her daughters.


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OfflineCurious_George
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Re: Holding on,, Why??? [Re: Fred Garvin]
    #942244 - 10/08/02 10:24 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)

Hmm... what do ya mean?

No we don't communicate much, i am aware of this, you think maybe we are both in denile? It's strange, she fits my bill very well, she's smart, good looking, petite ( i like small women ) she is adventurous, mature, she's not a nagger, lets me do whatever i want, drinks, smokes pot, has 2 wonderful kids.

On the other hand, i can't figure out what i have to offer her except finantial help and anything she asks for.

i don't know anymore... FUCK!!


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OfflineCurious_George
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Re: Holding on,, Why??? [Re: Curious_George]
    #942250 - 10/08/02 10:25 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)

Her daughters???? 11 and 13.. you sick man!


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Re: Holding on,, Why??? [Re: Curious_George]
    #942260 - 10/08/02 10:30 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)

You might have more in common with them. You'll never know 'till you give 'em a try.


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Re: Holding on,, Why??? [Re: Fred Garvin]
    #942348 - 10/08/02 11:05 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)

"I wouldn't be too quick to think she's cheating on you."

That was my entire point CG, perhaps i didn't elucidate clearly enuff but that's what i was saying.......there are SO many reasons why a woman can suddenly lose interest in sex outside of her' "Messing around on ya"..........


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Re: Holding on,, Why??? [Re: FreakQlibrium]
    #942366 - 10/08/02 11:13 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)

list a few for fun!!


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Re: Holding on,, Why??? [Re: Curious_George]
    #942380 - 10/08/02 11:18 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)

eVEN IN THE MIDST OF YOUR SUFFERING AND INDECISION YOU ARE A fucking funny guy!!!!!! ........JEEZUZ........MAYBE THE 2 TIMING BITCH is CHEATING ON YOU! lmao!!!!!!!!! j/k :grin: 


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Re: Holding on,, Why??? [Re: FreakQlibrium]
    #942389 - 10/08/02 11:26 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)

I was fucking serious!!! List a few!

I'll start.

1- cheatin bitch
2- Itchy pusy
3- Smelly pussy ( don't aply here )
4- Hairy Pussy ( sometimes but that's ok with me )
or
5- anti-depressants lowering libio
6- Loss of interest due to poor quality of sex?
7- My dick too small
8- PMS
9- well that's it for me.. your turn.


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Re: Holding on,, Why??? [Re: Curious_George]
    #942410 - 10/08/02 11:37 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)

cg: wITH ALL DUE RESPECT BUDDY, I DON'T THINK YOU NEED ANY HELP FROM THE LIKES OF ME! LMAO :d


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Re: Holding on,, Why??? [Re: FreakQlibrium]
    #942442 - 10/08/02 11:52 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)

:mad:  :crazy:  :crazy:  :crazy:


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Re: Holding on,, Why??? [Re: Curious_George]
    #942463 - 10/08/02 11:58 AM (18 years, 11 months ago)

Well Cg, you have much more insight into the actual psychodynamics of your present relationship than i ever could.........i would never be so presumptruous to even suggest why that two timing whore..........whoops..............i mean your present female companion may be giving you the cold shoulder when it comes to things sexual  :grin: 


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