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Offlinewildchild68
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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: badchad]
    #9310046 - 11/25/08 10:56 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

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badchad said:
Relationships are a compromise between give and take.  Its not uncommon for couples to sacrifice things to appease one another (even insignificant things).

If you're not willing to sacrifice then so be it.  Let her know.




Right, but it sounds like he's also sacrificed by cutting way down on smoking.

I mean it shouldn't be that huge of a deal, but her giving you an ultimatum like that is bullshit. Perhaps she's the one who needs to comprimise.


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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: niteowl]
    #9310050 - 11/25/08 10:57 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

but why does she want you to stop smoking weed? is there any reason at all?


haha look everyone is getting so mad for you

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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: niteowl]
    #9310054 - 11/25/08 10:57 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

Stop smoking and  :volcano:  :shrug:


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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: AAAJ]
    #9310064 - 11/25/08 10:59 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

Don't compromise or "settle."

May regret it in future.

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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: AAAJ]
    #9310080 - 11/25/08 11:01 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

I would quit smoking pot for a girl, but not for a girl who told me it was over if I didn't.

Sacrifice for the sake of a relationship is the way it goes, but this sounds like sacrifice for the sake of sacrifice.

Why does she want you to quit?  Did one of her girlfriends tell her she couldn't get you to do it?  I smell a conspiracy... Take it as a challenge; find out what's behind this craziness and talk her out of it.  Then break up with her over it.

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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: niteowl]
    #9310084 - 11/25/08 11:03 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

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niteowl said:
Quote:

If she is being a controlling bitch- once she sees that she'll loosen up and let you smoke.




Not true.
A controling bitch does it to get a rush out of it.
If she can get him to stop doing something he likes she will definately try to get him to stop doing other things he likes too.

If he gives in on weed, she will just move on to bigger and better things.
Like alcohol or his friends.




No, I think you're looking at it one-dimensionally --

This is why the nature of the relationship is important. If they're both in a mutual process ( as in, two individuals in this process together -- not one process of growth shared between the two of them ) of growing she will NOT stay in that controlling state forever. Once she'll get over the guilt and accept who she was, then she will loosen up.

If, however, she is not committed to becoming a better and more aware person - she will continue indefinitely in her controlling state.

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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: AAAJ]
    #9310097 - 11/25/08 11:05 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

Let her move out and quit to prove a point.  It doesn't really sound like quiting would be that big of a deal for you.  :shrug:

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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: NubeEnLaMontana]
    #9310102 - 11/25/08 11:06 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

So what's her reasoning?

(Rhetorical question, she's female.  And there aren't any possible reasons)


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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: sam420]
    #9310124 - 11/25/08 11:10 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

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sam420 said:
So what's her reasoning?

(Rhetorical question, she's female.  And there aren't any possible reasons)





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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: Brainiac]
    #9310134 - 11/25/08 11:11 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Brainiac said:
She said stop SMOKING pot..

Not using it... :wink:




Haha.

"Baby, I thought about what you said, and you're right.  I should stop smoking pot.  I threw out my bong, and look at this:  I bought a brand new vaporizer!  It's tits!


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By making his world a little colder.

Under closer inspection I realised it was a funky ball of tits from outer space.


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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: circularvortex]
    #9310145 - 11/25/08 11:13 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

circularvortex said:
Quote:

Brainiac said:
She said stop SMOKING pot..

Not using it... :wink:




Haha.

"Baby, I thought about what you said, and you're right.  I should stop smoking pot.  I threw out my bong, and look at this:  I bought a brand new vaporizer!  It's tits!




You never know, it might appease her.  Maybe she's just paranoid about him going to jail.  Vaporizers really really help with the paranoia factor when it comes to getting high.  (no obvious smell)

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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: Annapurna1]
    #9310146 - 11/25/08 11:13 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Annapurna1 said:
just pack up a bowl.. blow some smoke in her face.. and tell the bitch to FOAD..toad...





hahahahaha:lol::congrats:

Move on, BITCH!!! hahaha

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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: Mitchnast]
    #9310156 - 11/25/08 11:16 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

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Mitchnast said:
Quote:

CptnGarden said:
dry smash her shitbox so you can say you did, and then move on
i had a best friend make me decide between him and weed also, he failed hardcore cause it totally ruined our friendship and now we dont even talk.




you've been waiting to use "dry smash her shitbox" since leftysurprise used it in the "Cheating and Ecstasy" thread





haha, faggot

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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: AAAJ]
    #9310165 - 11/25/08 11:17 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

Conditional love... awesome

Pack her bags for her.


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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: circularvortex]
    #9310202 - 11/25/08 11:24 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

I know this is different, because I've been married to my wife for ten years now and have been with her for more than 13, but... there was this discussion when I said I will be growing shrooms. She's never done psychedelics and doesn't trust them. At first she was opposed, but I said "look, I've given up some things because I knew that it would make you happy. I know that having a relationship is about being able to make compromises sometimes. It's part of the whole committing oneself thing. But there are some things that I wish to not be changed and I want you to understand that I will not appreciate you trying to change them. As long as you are cool with that we'll always work it out. So now I am going to build me an incubator and a fruiting chamber and I'll grow shrooms. Not debatable". She is now comfortable with it and even asks me how they are coming along.
What I am saying is, don't allow her to use her Jedi mind tricks on you or play silly games. If she loves you she'll see that you already cut down for her. You are not her toyboy and you are not her trained monkey. Tell her that in no uncertain terms. If she doesn't get that THEN dump her.


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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: AAAJ]
    #9310284 - 11/25/08 11:39 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

i say that it's unfortunately that so many males interested in drugs cannot find a partner who is tolerant of drug use.

so, my advice is:

- find a female who does drugs as well, but doesn't abuse it. i know it may seem hard but there are some of us who are like this!

also, find a female that isn't dramatic and an attention whore. i know that's difficult too...

females! can't live with them...can't live with them :grin:

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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: boO]
    #9310314 - 11/25/08 11:47 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

have you tried ice in the ass and pussy?

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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: Mitchnast]
    #9310330 - 11/25/08 11:51 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Mitchnast said:
have you tried ice in the ass and pussy?


:lol:

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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: creekfreek]
    #9310332 - 11/25/08 11:52 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

It's the new asprin.

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Re: My Girlfriend is Moving Out... [Re: boO]
    #9310348 - 11/25/08 11:56 AM (15 years, 4 months ago)

I just remembered a funny little story, too. It's long, it's in German and there's no fucking chance I am going to translate all of it, but it's about how women always put so much energy into changing their men. And then one morning you find a letter on the kitchen table saying "I am sorry, but I don't love you any more. You aren't the man I once met and fell in love with. I am now with Dave, I found in him what I once admired in you when I met you. Bye".


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