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OfflineIrdamage
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Re: Anyone feel like its hard for guys to get a long with their fathers? [Re: HuHEN]
    #9259281 - 11/17/08 10:25 AM (15 years, 3 months ago)

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My father is really understanding and supportive of everything I do. He is really easy to talk to and we get along well.




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Re: Anyone feel like its hard for guys to get a long with their fathers? [Re: Cannabischarlie]
    #9259356 - 11/17/08 10:41 AM (15 years, 3 months ago)

I fucking hate my father with a passion.

He's a psychotic, sadistic , manic depressive Fucking waste of life.

I'd slit his fucking throat if i could.



so yes,I agree.


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Re: Anyone feel like its hard for guys to get a long with their fathers? [Re: CaptainH13]
    #9259380 - 11/17/08 10:45 AM (15 years, 3 months ago)

I don't have a source, but i read a statistic somewhere that people who do not have a relationship with their biological father are 10 times more likely to become an addict of something or other.  Thought that was interesting if there is any truth behind it....


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Re: Anyone feel like its hard for guys to get a long with their fathers? [Re: Baby_Hitler]
    #9259503 - 11/17/08 11:11 AM (15 years, 3 months ago)

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You know what really makes it hard to get along with your father? When he loves Phil Collins and calls the president-elect "The Black Man" instead of calling him by his name.




Does he believe in a literal interpretation of Genesis?




:lol: Nice one.

But to respond to your joke with a serious answer, I don't think he does. He's just racist and has bad taste in music.


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Re: Anyone feel like its hard for guys to get a long with their fathers? [Re: adrug]
    #9259573 - 11/17/08 11:22 AM (15 years, 3 months ago)

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You know what really makes it hard to get along with your father? When he loves Phil Collins and calls the president-elect "The Black Man" instead of calling him by his name.




Does he believe in a literal interpretation of Genesis?




:lol: Nice one.

But to respond to your joke with a serious answer, I don't think he does. He's just racist and has bad taste in music.




thats about my only problem with my dad. hes a big racist. but ive gotten to the point where ill call him out on it and make him feel like an asshole about it lol.  some of his beliefs regarding race have no substance and are pretty much just handed down from his racist father, who was a fire and brimstone baptist preacher.  im slowly breaking him of it though, i dont expect to ever fully get rid of it, but hes made progress.

at least your dad calls him the black man.  my dad calls him the sand nigger in nigger clothing elect.  :nonono:


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Re: Anyone feel like its hard for guys to get a long with their fathers? [Re: LeftyBurnz]
    #9259612 - 11/17/08 11:28 AM (15 years, 3 months ago)

My dad is totally racist, he doesn't actually hate people because of their particular skin color, he just makes assumptions based on stereotypes and experiences with different ethnicity.  For instance when i was in high school living with my parents if my room was a mess and i was putting off cleaning it.  He would say something like "God damn clean your room!  Looks like a bunch of niggers been living around here"

It sounds sooo bad like that in the quote damn lol


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Re: Anyone feel like its hard for guys to get a long with their fathers? [Re: Cognitive_Shift]
    #9259623 - 11/17/08 11:29 AM (15 years, 3 months ago)

Yeah, at least my dad tries to tone down his racism. He's not seething with anger over it, he just fears what he doesn't understand.


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Re: Anyone feel like its hard for guys to get a long with their fathers? [Re: LeftyBurnz]
    #9259644 - 11/17/08 11:32 AM (15 years, 3 months ago)

intense story moodion. that was a good read, just to open my eyes a bit. i can't imagine how it must have felt. like others have said though, it is obvious he cares a whole lot about you. i've gotta say though, it's kind of messed up how people always revert to the slippery slope fallacy of "if you try weed, eventually you're going to be shooting up heroin. just watch.."

my parents had a really bad divorce and they still don't talk to each other, so my relationship with my dad was very skewed as a child. now that i've moved out of my mom's house we get along pretty well though. we can talk for hours on end. he used to have a serious problem with substances, but he respects my choices so long as i am safe and don't involve the rest of the family. he's really supportive and tries to help me whenever he can.

sometimes he just doesn't make sense to me though. the way he used to treat my mom is disgusting. he also just filed for foreclosure...even though he left their marriage with over 400k in savings and as head of his own company. he is just not financially responsible at all. i'm taking out mad student loans and he can't help me pay for college at all because he squandered our college savings back when he was abusing and blowing money all the time. agh...parents.


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Re: Anyone feel like its hard for guys to get a long with their fathers? [Re: JT]
    #9259890 - 11/17/08 12:17 PM (15 years, 3 months ago)

I'm really lucky, my father is one of the best people I know.  Our relationship got rocky when I was living at home and doing dumb shit like growing mushrooms and having drugs mailed to his house (I could have actually compromised his job had i been busted due to government clearances).  However, since I went to college and stopped using drugs so irresponsibly, He has been amazingly cool.  He lets me drink his nice beer/liquor whenever I'm home, takes me out fishing, pays all my expenses, and is just a really cool guy to talk to.  I'm also able to be honest about all my drug use and he doesn't freak out.  Most of my family used drugs at a young age, and all went on to get degrees and be successful, so none of them worry too much about their children experimenting.


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Re: Anyone feel like its hard for guys to get a long with their fathers? [Re: Druggie04]
    #9260210 - 11/17/08 01:25 PM (15 years, 3 months ago)

My dad is high all the time and it's really affecting his brain. He's more or less like a child with bizarre "freaking out" moments over such trivial things... not to mention he's illiterate. He has the dumbest reasoning and attitude I have ever seen and I suppose he loves being miserable because he never changes.

I constantly give him advice on how to be happier. Of course, a 20 year-old can't give that kind of advice to a 50 year-old right? absurd! (Is more or less what he's thinking) He's also only happy when I'M happy, which isn't quite often when he's around.... perhaps I have strong energy signals... but anyways...

Basically, I really dislike him because he's never done jack shit for me and was never a father so he doesn't deserve to be called father...\\

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Oh how I miss my mother.


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Re: Anyone feel like its hard for guys to get a long with their fathers? [Re: Devlish2]
    #9260369 - 11/17/08 02:00 PM (15 years, 3 months ago)

i know what your saying charlie.  my dad was not home very much until i was about 12 (he owned a business and was working 70-80 hrs a week, no joke) and just really wasn't around.  i had grown out of all the things that most fathers do with their sons at the time (played baseball and stopped, so no catch, didn't really care for football (neither did he) and wasn't very much for the outdoors at the time) and just now in the last 2-3 years reconnected.  its still very, very hard to talk to him (my mom knows everything about me, including my drug use, but doesn't tell him) and i know he loves me, its not like that at all, its just we can't really relate.  my parents have been married for 22 years this month, awesome parents, just my dad is hard to talk to. 

we fought a lot in my teens ,which usually lead me to no car, no life groundings, where i would go months w/o leaving the house except for school + work, needless to say i worked a lot, usually around 35 hrs a week and then full time at school, so i didn't see him much from 16-19.  we finally figured out some things we like (we have both been car enthusiasts for a long time) and i plan on buying some type of project car to start with him (an FC rx7 w/ a v8 swap is my plan, but a bagged truck would also be fun) so we can spend more time together but both be busy at the same time.


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Re: Anyone feel like its hard for guys to get a long with their fathers? [Re: smokeybear]
    #9260637 - 11/17/08 02:44 PM (15 years, 3 months ago)

rx7 would be a sick car to work on man, good looks on the v8 swap cause that rotary engine is gonna break the first 3 months.


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Re: Anyone feel like its hard for guys to get a long with their fathers? [Re: AJ4U]
    #9260941 - 11/17/08 03:33 PM (15 years, 3 months ago)

I agree with original poster. When I was a kid my father and I had a great relationship and he was there for me a lot. As I got older though he became more demanding and less fun. I also wish he were more masculine as a father (I know that sounds wierd). I mean he works out a lot, hes healthy, and he is cool and acts like a guy around his friends. But as a father he's over protective, strict, prefers to lecture instead of swear, and is anal about cleaning. This has caused me to resent my dad a lot. My mother is much more open and cool about shit. Idk we all have our reasons, but I think in order to have a healthy bond with your dad he has to be cool with you and down to earth.


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