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DreamSignals
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Re: The Psychology of Orgies [Re: Icelander]
#9097091 - 10/18/08 05:40 PM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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Icelander said: 'When the student is ready the orgy appears'.
Here we agree. Try Burning Man.
I know I know. I hear of these burner "cuddle-parties" and all I wish I was more involved with that culture to take part in them. I am part of a sex-positivity group on campus called the B.L.I.S.S. (Beautiful Loving Intelligent and Super Sexy) Collective.
I talked briefly about this theory. We all agreed we could "arrange something".
But I'd definitely like to go to Burning Man next time.
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Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the law. (93) Love is the law, love under will. (93 93/93)
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Rahz
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Re: The Psychology of Orgies [Re: DreamSignals]
#9097883 - 10/18/08 09:12 PM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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An orgy might cause some personal revelations and would certainly provide some food for thought, but learning to love one single person without co-dependency issues is a real challenge. Without accomplishing this first, what can be expected from an orgy?
-------------------- rahz comfort pleasure power love truth awareness peace "You’re not looking close enough if you can only see yourself in people who look like you." —Ayishat Akanbi
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DreamSignals
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Re: The Psychology of Orgies [Re: Rahz]
#9098463 - 10/19/08 12:18 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well if you are sharing that love energy equally among participants, you are less likely to form co-dependent energy cycles. That's why most marriages end up in divorce, after a while the energy exchange becomes, mundane and even uncomfortable.
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Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the law. (93) Love is the law, love under will. (93 93/93)
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Re: The Psychology of Orgies [Re: DreamSignals]
#9098495 - 10/19/08 12:29 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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DreamSignals said: Well if you are sharing that love energy equally among participants, you are less likely to form co-dependent energy cycles. That's why most marriages end up in divorce, after a while the energy exchange becomes, mundane and even uncomfortable.
orgies could get mundane. with the male constantly releasing his sexual energy through ejaculation i couldn't see this going that far. unless of course we're speaking of cultivating sexual energy through tantra or taoist sexual practices.
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Rahz
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Re: The Psychology of Orgies [Re: DreamSignals]
#9098680 - 10/19/08 01:48 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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DreamSignals said: Well if you are sharing that love energy equally among participants, you are less likely to form co-dependent energy cycles. That's why most marriages end up in divorce, after a while the energy exchange becomes, mundane and even uncomfortable.
I think marriages become mundane because people aren't following their true desire. Results will vary, and this is proven out by talking to old people. But perhaps a lifelong marriage doesn't need to be the counter argument to orgies.
As for sharing love at orgies, I like that idea. But people have instincts designed around not having orgies. It will invoke lots of emotion to push those buttons, and while it's exciting, at the end of the day you still have the body to deal with. Perhaps it's possible to rise above our human nature, but it might be a good idea to exemplify it's potential first.
-------------------- rahz comfort pleasure power love truth awareness peace "You’re not looking close enough if you can only see yourself in people who look like you." —Ayishat Akanbi
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Re: The Psychology of Orgies [Re: DreamSignals]
#9099626 - 10/19/08 11:32 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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DreamSignals said:
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Icelander said: 'When the student is ready the orgy appears'.
Here we agree. Try Burning Man.
I know I know. I hear of these burner "cuddle-parties" and all I wish I was more involved with that culture to take part in them. I am part of a sex-positivity group on campus called the B.L.I.S.S. (Beautiful Loving Intelligent and Super Sexy) Collective.
I talked briefly about this theory. We all agreed we could "arrange something".
But I'd definitely like to go to Burning Man next time.
My third year at the man I became part of a theme camp called the Love Ho's. We did spontaneous cuddle parties in a different part of the city each day. Then I brought them home to my little town and Veritas and I did some. It was almost impossible to get people to come to them here. Many admitted they wanted to come but were terrified of the experience. I know how they felt.
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Rahz
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Re: The Psychology of Orgies [Re: DreamSignals]
#9101412 - 10/19/08 07:29 PM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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Hey DreamSignals, I was thinking about your topic and remembered a book you would find very interesting/educational.
Sperm Wars by Robin Baker
-------------------- rahz comfort pleasure power love truth awareness peace "You’re not looking close enough if you can only see yourself in people who look like you." —Ayishat Akanbi
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DreamSignals
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Re: The Psychology of Orgies [Re: Rahz]
#9102879 - 10/20/08 04:02 AM (15 years, 3 months ago) |
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Holy shit that sounds pretty sweet/ I'll be spending some time getting some readin done at borders
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Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the law. (93) Love is the law, love under will. (93 93/93)
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