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psycotropic
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: Incompl]
#9095410 - 10/18/08 07:29 AM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm so sorry brother...I can say that I've been where she was, but thankfully lived through it. Always remember that the healthiest thing you can do right now is cry & remember her fondly. Recall good memories. Support others that loved & knew her.
& remember that suicide is never anyones fault.
Hold in there hunny! She'll always be there with you. I suggest keeping a small token that reminds you of her positive light with you.
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AlteredAgain
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: Incompl]
#9095431 - 10/18/08 07:56 AM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm very sorry about your loss.. I cannot imagine the heartache if I lost my sister.
and to you and your family.
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Cepheus
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: Incompl]
#9095456 - 10/18/08 08:22 AM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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Just imagining what it would be like if I lost any of my brothers or sisters brought a tear to my eye.
I can't even begin to contemplate what it must be like when something like this happens so prematurely, with someone you've shared some of the best times of your life with.
Much love .
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dwtk
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: Cepheus]
#9095507 - 10/18/08 09:01 AM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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Shit dude, I'm really sorry to hear that
best of wishes..
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WhiskeyClone
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: Incompl]
#9095558 - 10/18/08 09:25 AM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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Man I wish I knew what to say
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: Incompl]
#9095593 - 10/18/08 09:42 AM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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Wow, sorry to hear.
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norml840
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: Incompl]
#9095648 - 10/18/08 10:03 AM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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magikgrl
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: norml840]
#9095671 - 10/18/08 10:09 AM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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So sorry to hear of your loss. Peace and love be with you.
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: Incompl]
#9095732 - 10/18/08 10:36 AM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm so sorry.
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: Incompl]
#9095756 - 10/18/08 10:46 AM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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Hey man, I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I can relate somewhat to how you feel dude. My dad killed himself when I was 10 years old--it devastated me. Just know that in time things will get better. Hang in there.
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isaacein
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: Incompl]
#9095983 - 10/18/08 12:11 PM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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She's in a better place now. She'll live on through you every time you remember her.
Whatever you do, don't blame yourself. Turn your pain into love for those around you who need it.
Best wishes. Be strong. Love is the only thing which can get you through this.
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jellyfish
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: niteowl]
#9096335 - 10/18/08 02:11 PM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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niteowl said: I can understand your grief.
I can also understand why your sister commited suicide, since I have attempted suicide many times in the past.
I, in fact, have contemplated suicide recently. It is not something that I have completely disregarded.
Death is something that I long for.
I just read the link in your sig and I have to say that you inspire me. Pulling yourself out of such a mess is something that most people cannot do. And to the OP, my heart is with you. It's hard to forget and move on but it's the only way.
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Nexion
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: Adden]
#9096367 - 10/18/08 02:19 PM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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S_2 said: Try to keep your family together. My brother killed himself 4 years ago and life still isn't right.
To be brutally honest, Thanksgiving and Christmas are going to really, really suck this year. Birthdays are going to be hard. Today will always be a terrible day every year.
You're going to have days where you just can't take it anymore.
It gets softer though. Be glad that you're numb right now. I know it's really hard to contemplate right now, but every day it gets easier, and every year will be easier. Just be ready to man-up and have a really tough year ahead of you. Be there for everyone else, but most importantly, find time to be there for yourself.
I'm really sorry for your loss.. it's a terrible fucking thing to go through.
Never forget how blessed you've been these past 15 years having such a great sister.
Wells said...sorry for your loss.
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djblackout
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: supra]
#9096376 - 10/18/08 02:21 PM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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keep your head up man
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frisky_
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: djblackout]
#9096397 - 10/18/08 02:24 PM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sorry for your loss.
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C20H25N3O
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: Incompl]
#9096632 - 10/18/08 03:16 PM (15 years, 5 months ago) |
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Incompl said: She went in the medicine cabinet and took every pill in every bottle, a lot of tranquilizers and tylenol. My mother is on prescription tranqs for sleep problems, when Anja took them her heart slowed down more and more until it stopped.
was it on purpose do you think? For example did the cabinet just have 3 differen't types of tranqs and some tylenol. Could she have just been a normal teenager wanting to get fucked up and had a headache or was it clearly intentional.
Either way, it must be tough to lose a younger sibling. I couldn't imagine what it must be like, but life goes on. That is all you can really tell yourself, i guess. I hope everything is well for you.
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twalker701
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: Incompl]
#9885584 - 02/28/09 04:33 PM (15 years, 22 days ago) |
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Very sorry to hear about your sister, my sister also died and the only advice I can give you is tell all the people that tell you they are so sorry to fuck off they have no idea of what your going through and only say that so that on some level they can feel better about themselves your sister is actually in a better place because well she's not here and no matter what anyone says we all know that this world and the people in it are the real reason for anyone taking their own life to your sister I say rest in peace you earned it
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: twalker701]
#9885603 - 02/28/09 04:36 PM (15 years, 22 days ago) |
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tell all the people that tell you they are so sorry to fuck off they have no idea of what your going through
uhh.. they probably do... death happens all the time and nearly everyone has experienced such a loss.
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WhiskeyClone
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: twalker701]
#9885616 - 02/28/09 04:38 PM (15 years, 22 days ago) |
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Yeah please don't tell people to fuck off just for offering their condolences. When my dad died I really needed people's support.
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CptnGarden
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Re: My sister committed suicide today [Re: twalker701]
#9885619 - 02/28/09 04:38 PM (15 years, 22 days ago) |
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tell people who are sorry to fuck off?
thats your first post?
just because people dont know what hes going through dont mean they arent sorry for his situation.
glad you got the whole world figured out though...
stupid troll.
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