|
 dill705
Amazed
 
Registered: 12/10/07
Posts: 3,779
Loc: The Cat's Cradle
Last seen: 6 years, 6 months
|
 Re: Personal Happiness vs What's Right  [Re: Platinum]
#8896623 - 09/08/08 02:29 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Platinum said:
but heres the problem. meeting people is a huge issue for me right now. at school, i go to community college, everybody is there to go to class and go home. very few people are there to meet people. and i have nothing to do if i were to go out... where to go, what to do. im at a strange place right now i guess.
IDK - like i said, im at a weird time in my life. dont really know what i want to do with myself, i guess im pretty confused right now.
~dill's girlfriend~
I understand what you are saying.
I am going to school but live off campus with dill,
except he is in jail right now,
so a lot of the time I sit around bored and lonely.
I have friends on campus but our schedules don't always work out.
I understand the community college thing making it difficult to make new friends.
I suppose the best thing might be find out more about yourself.
Read books, do some self-reflecting.
Figure out who you are and what you really want.
You said you don't know what to do with yourself,
well, find out what you want and go do it.
If you learn more about yourself maybe you'll deal with the guilt differently,
you're feeling guilty about this girl, but why?
Only you can answer that and only you can fix that.
--------------------
My advice is to find those things that give pleasure and do them often without too much attachment and relax and wait for the show to end.
-Icelander-
I like free markets and all. Truly I do, at least in general, but there needs to be some kind of oversight in recognition of sustainability. Life works the same way, on a bunch of sustainable systems. Why not honor what made us what we are and take some lessons? Nature FTW!
~dill705~
|
 WhiskeyClone
Not here
Registered: 06/25/01
Posts: 16,509
Loc: Longitudinal Center of Canada ...
|
Re: Personal Happiness vs What's Right [Re: dill705]
#8896949 - 09/08/08 03:50 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
|
|
Hey Dill's girlfriend, you make good posts, you should start your own account 
--------------------
Welcome evermore to gods and men is the self-helping man. For him all doors are flung wide: him all tongues greet, all honors crown, all eyes follow with desire. Our love goes out to him and embraces him, because he did not need it.
~ R.W. Emerson, "Self-Reliance"
|
WhiskeyClone
Not here
Registered: 06/25/01
Posts: 16,509
Loc: Longitudinal Center of Canada ...
|
Re: Personal Happiness vs What's Right [Re: Platinum]
#8896967 - 09/08/08 03:54 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Platinum said:
So here's my question. Do I sacrifice my personal happiness and break things off because I'm in a sense... leading her on? Or do I keep things as they are, leading her on, and basically using her?
Is it really happiness that you derive from this relationship, or is it just comfort and affection? I'd say if it makes you feel low, then stay away, or at least be upfront about where you're at.
--------------------
Welcome evermore to gods and men is the self-helping man. For him all doors are flung wide: him all tongues greet, all honors crown, all eyes follow with desire. Our love goes out to him and embraces him, because he did not need it.
~ R.W. Emerson, "Self-Reliance"
|
|
Threaded
Previous
Index
Next
Shop: Red Vein Kratom
Edit 
Reply 
Saturdaze
GringoLoco
MuffinBear
OLIO
thenetherworld
Snobrdr311
wrestler_az