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Platinum
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Never Satisfied... WTF??
#8805114 - 08/21/08 10:52 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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IDK what the deal is. I really want to have a girl that I can call my girlfriend. But when I get them I am never satisfied. The grass is always better on the other side... till you get there. Then it's just as green, and it looks greener on the other side of that. I don't know... shits confusing really.
Like, I'm with this girl right now, we have fun... but we are not girlfriend/boyfriend. I don't want a relationship with her, but I want a relationship in general. We went to a concert last night and she starts buggin out when I talk to another girl. It's like are you retarded? This is exactly why we are NOT dating, now shut the fuck up plz kthx.
I don't know, I guess I need to go back to college and get the fuck away from here.
I guess what it comes down to, is when I was in college I guess you could call me a "player" but now it's starting to bite me in the ass. I find it hard to settle down with someone and make them my gf, and if I do, I know I'll meet some other chick that I'll just wanna fuck... or even date, who knows. I'm so used to that whole "fuck a bitch, be nice to her... hang out with her a bit, fuck her some more... and after 2 weeks move on" - that's what I did at school.
Anyone been in my shoes? Anyone have any advice?
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sam420
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Re: Never Satisfied... WTF?? [Re: Platinum]
#8805164 - 08/21/08 11:02 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Find a nice girl and stop being an asshole?
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PeterGriffin467
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Re: Never Satisfied... WTF?? [Re: sam420]
#8805197 - 08/21/08 11:08 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Get over yourself you weren't a player in college you just fucked a lot of ugly drunk girls
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Atheist
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better than being a virgin living with the parents ^^ LOL
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Kada
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Never get married. Thats my advice. I love my wife, but i think she is trying to kill me.
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Re: Never Satisfied... WTF?? [Re: sam420]
#8805216 - 08/21/08 11:13 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
sam420 said: Find a nice girl and stop being an asshole?
lol, seriously.
just kidding though, OP.
I live in your shoes and feel EXACTLY the same way. I have been with the same pretty, mostly sexy, dream girl I wanted to marry when we were in middle schol together, but I still want someone with bigger boobs, or more interesting, it gets complicated, buddy. They are just male urges. If you jack off that feeling goes away for a few hours.
Think about other women. Jack off. case closed.
But to be serious, after dating a LONG time, you'll find her. Don't move in to be with each other too quick. Thats what I did= trapped sexy man who wants to pound other pun, but can't....
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rick0909
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I am plagued by the never satisfied shit too. Probably why I have been with the same girl for 7 yrs and am still unsure if I want to marry her or not. She always brings up marriage and I try to change the subject as fast as possible. I guess I'm hoping that the perfect girl will just fall magically into my lap. Most likely that isn't going to happen. I'm starting to wonder if I should just suck it up and marry her. Something is telling me that it would end up in a divorce. She can be a vindictive bitch and would take me for all she can if that were to happen.
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Kada
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Re: Never Satisfied... WTF?? [Re: rick0909]
#8805246 - 08/21/08 11:21 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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The perfect girl doesn't exist. Don't ever get married.
-------------------- ~The Cultivators Motherload~ "I am free, no matter what rules surround me. If I find them tolerable, I tolerate them; if I find them too obnoxious, I break them. I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do." -Robert A. Heinlein "There is no need for temples, no need for complicated philosophies. My brain and my heart are my temples; my philosophy is kindness."-Dalai Lama Live long and prosper.
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rick0909
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Re: Never Satisfied... WTF?? [Re: Kada]
#8805283 - 08/21/08 11:30 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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That would be fine but I want to have kids or a kid. I want to be able to share my knowledge and experience.
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Kada
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Re: Never Satisfied... WTF?? [Re: rick0909]
#8805331 - 08/21/08 11:44 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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If you have been with her for 7 years without marrying her, then you should figure out what is stopping you and act on that. Weather it's to break it off or marry her, i would say she needs you to do somthing. You will find her gone one day if you don't, then you wont have the choice. She has been patient as hell with you then it seems. Could you live without her? Would you want to? I would ask yourself that. Most people who can't stay in one place is looking for that infatuation feeling. They usually don't try to connect deeper with their partner, they burn themselves out on them with it. I do miss that infatuated feeling with someone new and exciting, but is it worth it if you arn't happy in the end? You seem to have been with her for awhile tho, so maybe you are just avoiding it.
-------------------- ~The Cultivators Motherload~ "I am free, no matter what rules surround me. If I find them tolerable, I tolerate them; if I find them too obnoxious, I break them. I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do." -Robert A. Heinlein "There is no need for temples, no need for complicated philosophies. My brain and my heart are my temples; my philosophy is kindness."-Dalai Lama Live long and prosper.
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Re: Never Satisfied... WTF?? [Re: Platinum]
#8805337 - 08/21/08 11:45 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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You seem to have contradictory desires--on the one hand you say you want a girl you can call her girlfriend, and on the other you say that you enjoy bangin' bitches and moving on. Which is it?
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PeterGriffin467
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Re: Never Satisfied... WTF?? [Re: Atheist]
#8805349 - 08/21/08 11:48 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Go spend a 1000$ on a vape and cry when everyone calls it gay lol.
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Re: Never Satisfied... WTF?? [Re: deCypher]
#8805350 - 08/21/08 11:48 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yeah... thinking of girls in terms of bitches & hoes tends to make longterm non-abusive relationships difficult.
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Atheist
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i actually paid around $400 for my vape, nice guess though
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PeterGriffin467
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Re: Never Satisfied... WTF?? [Re: Atheist]
#8805363 - 08/21/08 11:52 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yea I meant including all the faggy attachments
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PeterGriffin467
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When did you get your volcano by the way? Was it right after coaster said they were cooooool?
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Re: Never Satisfied... WTF?? [Re: Kada]
#8805369 - 08/21/08 11:54 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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I agree that I need to come to a decision fast. For her sake anyway. We argue a good amount and sometimes I just want to run away forever. She says all couples argue, it's normal. I tend not to believe that as much. We have had plenty of good times too. I noticed lately that our relationship has been based on our common love of drugs. We have never been together while sober for more than a month and I don't think we could put up with each other. It seems the only times we actually sit down together while home is when we are smoking a joint or something. We don't eat the same, watch the same shows, or generally share the same interest in things.
We also went through a coke phase for three yrs that really put a strain on our relationship. She ended up going to rehab after she started using opiates. I never got into the opiates and was able to get clean from the coke without any outside help. I've been wanting to take a break from the weed to see if we could be together without it, and to clear my head. I dunno. What would you do?
EDIT: Oh, and her family drives me nuts. Her mom is a wackadoo.
Edited by rick0909 (08/21/08 11:56 AM)
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PeterGriffin467
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Re: Never Satisfied... WTF?? [Re: Atheist]
#8805378 - 08/21/08 11:56 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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And unless you bought a used one from someone you didnt only pay 400$ nice try though.
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Kada
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Re: Never Satisfied... WTF?? [Re: rick0909]
#8805397 - 08/21/08 12:02 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Sounds like a marrage already man lol. Thats pretty much how my marrage is anyways. One of you has to be the boss at times, but you both have to be equals. We both are really annoyed by each others parents, and i feel bad because my mom is a psycho to her. You have to do the little things to make each other happy still. I tell her i love her everyday, and make sure she knows she is appreciated, and she leaves me alone when i i want her to lol. Im pretty sure i would never get married again if we got divorced tho, it's nice to a point, but i feel trapped. Every married man feels that way that i know tho. The grass is always greener on the other side i guess. At least im never lonley.
-------------------- ~The Cultivators Motherload~ "I am free, no matter what rules surround me. If I find them tolerable, I tolerate them; if I find them too obnoxious, I break them. I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do." -Robert A. Heinlein "There is no need for temples, no need for complicated philosophies. My brain and my heart are my temples; my philosophy is kindness."-Dalai Lama Live long and prosper.
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Re: Never Satisfied... WTF?? [Re: Kada]
#8805411 - 08/21/08 12:07 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yeah it feels like a marriage at times. Guess things could be worse. I do love her and she loves me. All differences aside I know I would miss her like crazy if she were gone. Why is marriage such a big deal to women?
Thanks for your words Kada. Somehow they made me feel a lot better about my situation.
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