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Anonymous #1
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Is it bad to date someone you dont love?
#8795235 - 08/19/08 11:08 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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I've been going out with this girl for almost nine months now, and while there was a point when i could say i loved her, its worn off. I like her a lot, and wouldnt mind spending a few more years with her but I know I would never marry her. I really need a girl in my life right now, it keeps me going... and I don't really know a girl right now who I would want to do anything but have one night stands with. Does keeping the girl I'm with just to be comfortable make me a dirtbag?
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Is it bad to date someone you dont love? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#8795266 - 08/19/08 11:17 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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It's pussy. Fuck it or go turn on some radio head and kill yourself.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Is it bad to date someone you dont love? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#8795278 - 08/19/08 11:20 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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it's not a bad thing, but to be fair, you should tell her this
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Is it bad to date someone you dont love? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#8795390 - 08/19/08 11:42 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said: Does keeping the girl I'm with just to be comfortable make me a dirtbag?
Only if you lie about your intentions.
But this dependency is probably not good for you either. It's your life.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Is it bad to date someone you dont love? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#8795454 - 08/19/08 11:52 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Naw, so long as you dont see your being together as a waste of time it's not. Unfortunatley many females see any relationship that doesnt end in marriage as a waste of time, but if she's cool she wont either.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Is it bad to date someone you dont love? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#8795846 - 08/19/08 12:56 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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well shes looking for long term shes made that clear... but whenever she brings it up i dont really lie... ie one time she asked me if i thought "she was the one" and i just said i wasnt sure yet. I might have a few slips when we are fucking but comon nothing said when she is naked counts.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: Is it bad to date someone you dont love? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#8795890 - 08/19/08 01:04 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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as long as you don't tell her you love her. i made that mistake.
but give it some time, when i was in the same situation I did and Now I love her, and I think I'm falling for her. It's been 14 months here. I guess it just takes a long time to fall in love with a person.
But no, you're not a dirtbag
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Is it bad to date someone you dont love? [Re: Anonymous #6]
#8796047 - 08/19/08 01:33 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yeah, I did this same thing back in high school... picked up a girl I didn't love at all just for the hell of it, and basically spent the next four months at the top of my game with social manipulation after making her fall for me.
It worked, and then somewhere down the road I found myself falling in love with her. Funny how that works, really.
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Anonymous #8
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Re: Is it bad to date someone you dont love? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#8796457 - 08/19/08 02:36 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Is it bad if your penis touches your vagina?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Is it bad to date someone you dont love? [Re: Anonymous #7]
#8797074 - 08/19/08 04:20 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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I'm afraid of that.. i dont want to fall for this girl i can do so much better.
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Anonymous #9
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Re: Is it bad to date someone you dont love? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#8798144 - 08/19/08 08:14 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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lol
if you dont want to then dont.
do better then dump this one.
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Anonymous #10
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Re: Is it bad to date someone you dont love? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#8798267 - 08/19/08 08:37 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said: I'm afraid of that.. i dont want to fall for this girl i can do so much better.
dump it.
don't waste years of it's life when you know you're not going to stay with it.
drysmash it's shitbox first, though. hard and fast. use roofies afterwards - not during or before or she won't clench hard enough.
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Anonymous #11
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Re: Is it bad to date someone you dont love? [Re: Anonymous #10]
#8798730 - 08/19/08 10:10 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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it would be kind to move on, if she's looking for long term then move along and let her get on with looking for whatever is going to make her happy in the end, you are clearly not it.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Is it bad to date someone you dont love? [Re: Anonymous #11]
#8800037 - 08/20/08 08:33 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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i tried dumping her once... ahh the tears... its not fair the power or girls tears... we ended up getting back together within like an hour and then fucked the rest of the day away i suck
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Is it bad to date someone you dont love? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#8800273 - 08/20/08 09:38 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: i tried dumping her once... ahh the tears... its not fair the power or girls tears... we ended up getting back together within like an hour and then fucked the rest of the day away i suck
Oh man get out now. Don't say I didn't warn you.
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Anonymous #12
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Re: Is it bad to date someone you dont love? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#8800329 - 08/20/08 09:54 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said: i tried dumping her once... ahh the tears... its not fair the power or girls tears... we ended up getting back together within like an hour and then fucked the rest of the day away i suck
my girl never gives me sex anymore, maybe i should try the breakup line
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Anonymous #13
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Re: Is it bad to date someone you dont love? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#8802829 - 08/20/08 08:52 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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you're spending too much time on this girl
if you mean you can do much better personality wise and appearance, just get on with your life. stop wasting her time too.
shit dude, i spent 2 years with a girl I wanted to toss a long time ago. then i had a year to myself sexathon, wasted 2 more fucking years.
takes awhile to find the right one. take your time, but don't waste your time.
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Anonymous #14
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Re: Is it bad to date someone you dont love? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#8802879 - 08/20/08 09:00 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Don't people date to FIGURE OUT if they can love someone?
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Anonymous #15
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Re: Is it bad to date someone you dont love? [Re: Anonymous #14]
#8803480 - 08/20/08 11:08 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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no, not bad at all. before you break up with her make sure to put ice in her ass and pussy, she wont cry as much.
/thread
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Anonymous #16
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Re: Is it bad to date someone you dont love? [Re: Anonymous #11]
#8803750 - 08/21/08 12:23 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Anonymous #11 said: it would be kind to move on, if she's looking for long term then move along and let her get on with looking for whatever is going to make her happy in the end, you are clearly not it.
LOL
What about his happiness?
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