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Simisu
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i miss my girl friend!
#8782408 - 08/16/08 01:40 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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she's waiting for me in Spain since July, we've been on the phone right now for almost an hour and it sucks! these long silences are SO fucking hard to deal with when you can't see the person in front of you! i miss making love to her... and i need to know everything will be ok!
it's not going to be much longer but we're both trying to hold on to something until we can figure it out again together. in the meanwhile both of us are confused and uncertain. we're trying to maintain and be positive and yet we're both facing all these changes, apart! i'll be flying there early September and i'm hoping for the best but i can't help fear the worst... i don't want to get stuck with fear! and i miss her damn it!
anyone ales had to deal with long distance relationships? what was your status, how did it resolve?
also, i don't know what i can get her... i want to bring something along for her but i have no idea what!
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: Simisu]
#8782578 - 08/16/08 02:23 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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I heard guys in Spain are really attractive.
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: MarioTrip]
#8782587 - 08/16/08 02:26 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yeah, he's probably going to want to bring her some antibiotics for the infection she probably picked up from them. I know a girl who went to Spain and cheated on her bf constantly while she was there. She went for a full semester though.
Hope your girl is faithful man, good luck to you!
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: Simisu]
#8782590 - 08/16/08 02:27 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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This is just like the situation in Before Sunrise that movie with Ethan Hawke.
In case you didn't know
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: g00ru]
#8782677 - 08/16/08 02:53 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Hey a woman needs to have fun on her travels and part of that fun is sampling the local flavor so to speak; and not just the food!
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: MarioTrip]
#8782682 - 08/16/08 02:55 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Honestly, whenever I return to Amsterdam, I'm going to fuck a bunch of prostitutes. And do a lot more than just herb.
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themange
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They never work. dont tell her that though, because you prolly can still get some next time you see her if you play it cool.
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: Simisu]
#8782720 - 08/16/08 03:12 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: g00ru]
#8782721 - 08/16/08 03:12 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
guruu said: This is just like the situation in Before Sunrise that movie with Ethan Hawke.
In case you didn't know
Yeah this really does. Great movie, loved Before Sunset a little more though I think. But both are great
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themange
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: The_Ghost]
#8782725 - 08/16/08 03:14 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
The_Ghost said:
so thats what they look like on the inside.
I like how you chose the ass one instead of the vagina.
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: themange]
#8782762 - 08/16/08 03:29 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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The ass was the quickest result on google
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: The_Ghost]
#8782781 - 08/16/08 03:34 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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I wish I lived in Spain. The women there are rockin'!
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: Saneorsick]
#8782785 - 08/16/08 03:35 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Saneorsick said: I wish I wished in Spain. The women there are rockin'!
Oh yes.
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: The_Ghost]
#8782905 - 08/16/08 04:09 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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I'm sure we're not doing much to make the OP feel better...
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Quote:
DragonChaser said: I'm sure we're not doing much to make the OP feel better...
What can we really do. The situation aint gona change itself.
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: The_Ghost]
#8782937 - 08/16/08 04:20 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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C'est la vie
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: Simisu]
#8782940 - 08/16/08 04:22 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yeah I know your pain very well Simisu. Don't listen to all these dicks telling you that it'll never work because that's definitely not true for everyone. Obviously alot of long distance relationships don't work out, but there are plenty that do.
Do you have plans to move to the same city any time soon? If you don't have any plans at all, it will be much harder to make things work because there won't be anything to look forward to. One of you may think that there's nothing you are waiting for, so why not see what else is out there. I think plans for the future are SUPER important.
Obviously another really important thing is trust. If you really love each other, then that shouldn't be a problem.
As to what to get for her, try and get something that she loved back home but can't get where she is now. I have no idea what that may be, but I would try and think along those lines. Of course, there's always the obvious flowers.
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: g00ru]
#8783116 - 08/16/08 05:25 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
guruu said: This is just like the situation in Before Sunrise that movie with Ethan Hawke.
In case you didn't know
ummmm... how so?
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: MarioTrip]
#8783132 - 08/16/08 05:28 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
MarioTrip said: I heard guys in Spain are really attractive.
and from what i hear their penises taste like candy.
looks like ur screwed buddy jk
go to spain and find urself a hottie.
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: PilzeEssen]
#8783134 - 08/16/08 05:29 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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show her your wang.
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: kindadank]
#8783148 - 08/16/08 05:33 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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yeah i do have plans to move, my lease ends on the 31 of this month and then i'll be off on the first cheep plain. my plans are kinda limited since i'm not sure if and how i'll be able to stay but basically i want to study Spanish and then start some studies that might actually provide for me along my path.
and surprisingly most of the people have only positive things to say, everyone's been really supportive... they seem to ignore the fact i have no money and no working permit
and yeah i guess a flower might just be the thing after all... i dunno...
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: Simisu]
#8783385 - 08/16/08 06:34 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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First of all, you shouldn't have ever started out with getting the whole girlfriend/boyfriend mentality.
Second, you just need to relax and understand that long distance relationships create a certain level of uncertainty and detachment. Think of your body as a sponge, constantly sucking up information, and draining old information. You are a combination of sponge, old picked up particles, and newly sucked up fluids, forever changing. And when your with this girl, you suck up each others fluids, no pun intended, and basically feel them encompassing your entire self, in these moments being together is the most natural and easy thing in the world. After a long separation, it's only natural that these fluids drain, and get replaced by new experiences.
It's all about feeling each others presence within yourself, their current self, in the now. When left to feed on fleeting remnants of what was, you'll find that things are not as fresh and real as they once felt.
basically speaking, long distance closed relationships do not work, the only way, is to hope that when you next see each other, you'll each soak up familiar vibes, and regardless of what happened in your absence, in THIS moment, you can really FEEL it, and you know that it's sincere.
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: Simisu]
#8784185 - 08/16/08 09:14 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Its something I'm going to have to deal with... I'm moving to the other end of my country next month, yet my woman of 2 years is staying put (shes gotta finish college before she can move).
I'm already not looking forward to it... Its hard enough thats shes 25 miles away ... let alone a couple of hundred .
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: Meat_hod]
#8785210 - 08/17/08 02:38 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Meat_hod said: First of all, you shouldn't have ever started out with getting the whole girlfriend/boyfriend mentality.
Second, you just need to relax and understand that long distance relationships create a certain level of uncertainty and detachment. Think of your body as a sponge, constantly sucking up information, and draining old information. You are a combination of sponge, old picked up particles, and newly sucked up fluids, forever changing. And when your with this girl, you suck up each others fluids, no pun intended, and basically feel them encompassing your entire self, in these moments being together is the most natural and easy thing in the world. After a long separation, it's only natural that these fluids drain, and get replaced by new experiences.
It's all about feeling each others presence within yourself, their current self, in the now. When left to feed on fleeting remnants of what was, you'll find that things are not as fresh and real as they once felt.
basically speaking, long distance closed relationships do not work, the only way, is to hope that when you next see each other, you'll each soak up familiar vibes, and regardless of what happened in your absence, in THIS moment, you can really FEEL it, and you know that it's sincere.
i agree with every single word! it's not really that we're trying to have a long distance relationship though, it's just that we had to be apart for a while to take care of things so we can be together. i don't think we talked about it being a closed relationship or not, it just is what it is. and i'm not too worried about that i know she loves me and regardless of what she's been doing, when i'm there is what matters to me. you're spot on, it's all about what's going on NOW! and i think she sees it the same way too...
it's fucked though, if it was different circumstances i wouldn't be bitching about it i think... i mean, it's not like i know where i'm going is what i'm trying to say. both of us will undergo such big changes and ALL AT ONCE! it's going to be a real test for us! she's moving in a new place out of the city, starting her masters, organizing projects and working on performances, while i'll be an illegal immigrant, trying to study the language struggling with money, making sense of the culture and dealing with the first time i'm in a real relationship and living with a partner for the first time. so you can see, to have to deal with the long distance before all that too is just MEAH
on the other hand... it could be fucking magical this is why i'm trying to push all the fears away and concentrate on being positive!
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: Cepheus]
#8785216 - 08/17/08 02:42 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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how long will you be apart?
i'd tell you exactly what meat hod just said the more open you leave your connection the more freedom to give each other to make the right right choices!
good luck man, it's a hard pill to swallow! but eventually things work out...
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: Meat_hod]
#8785242 - 08/17/08 02:53 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Good words man, really good metaphor.
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: Brugman]
#8787645 - 08/17/08 05:43 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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i checked the flights today, i might be there as soon as the second of September!!!
i'm going crazy!
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: Simisu]
#8787768 - 08/17/08 06:32 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Is it love or is it the lack of vagina
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Re: i miss my girl friend! [Re: MarioTrip]
#8788026 - 08/17/08 07:31 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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I met a girl online, couple years later came and met her, etc, got married.
Long distance relationships work if you want them to.
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