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Cannabischarlie
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any males been victims of domestic violence?
#8761045 - 08/12/08 12:32 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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has anyone on this forum who is male ever been a victim of domestic violence by a female partner?
I know it happens more than we think, just wondering if anyone has had first hand experience.
whether reported or not reported.
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Re: any males been victims of domestic violence? [Re: Cannabischarlie]
#8761064 - 08/12/08 12:38 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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I haven't or never knew anyone personally that has, But I've seen a huge black woman pounding the crap out of a wirey white guy. It attracted quite a crowd and when the cops showed up she was so crazy that they strapped her to a board until the paramedics came and put her on a stretcher. Next day I seen them holding hands and his face was so bruised.
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Re: any males been victims of domestic violence? [Re: pmb]
#8761077 - 08/12/08 12:41 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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lol
i am sure she doesnt have to be bigger than you to hurt you though
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Re: any males been victims of domestic violence? [Re: Cannabischarlie]
#8761085 - 08/12/08 12:43 AM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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HAHAHAHAH
fatass black woman on PCP.
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Re: any males been victims of domestic violence? [Re: PsilocybinLuvin]
#8762706 - 08/12/08 12:36 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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i heart that miss piggy had a domestic violence charge for hitting kermit
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Re: any males been victims of domestic violence? [Re: Cannabischarlie]
#8762737 - 08/12/08 12:45 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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When my wife had post partum depression, she would try to hit me all the time. She kicked me once. My mom used to hit me all the time when she was drunk and scream "your just like your real father!". She wonders why i went to court for me step dad so he could get full custody of their son(my brother).
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Re: any males been victims of domestic violence? [Re: Kada]
#8762744 - 08/12/08 12:47 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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My dad had a friend who's wife beat him with a frying pan one day after an argument over income taxes, he had a concussion and broken jaw and had to stay in the hospital for a couple weeks. She went to jail I guess.
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Re: any males been victims of domestic violence? [Re: Cannabischarlie]
#8763311 - 08/12/08 03:21 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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My ex-wife would freak out every day for a while and start cussing out our 2 year old daughter for everything/anything, several times a day. Whenever I asked her to stop, she'd jump up and start kicking and swinging/scratching as hard as she could and screaming/cussing at us both at the top of her lungs.
She did this for several months after I took her back from leaving me and cheating on me. She blamed it on her new b/c pills, but there is no excuse for it. She tried her best to hurt me. I would try my best to either hold (in a hugging type fashion) her or talk her down. I did yell back a few times but I never lifted a hand toward her.
One time I actually couldn't take her shit anymore and threw her out of the way and she slammed into the window. She took off and called the cops and I got arrested for DV. She took my daughter, half my money and moved across country 3.000 miles away a few days later and there was nothing I could do about it legally.
I just received some inheritance to buy our first home right before this happened. She actually took more than half, the brand new car I had payed for and my little girl.
You can't imagine the pain/rage I was going through. She did get it back though, but not good enough. She wasted all of the money, got remarried within a month after our official divorce. She spent all of my money trying to impress this guy and he fell for it.
After they got married, I guess they realized that life wasn't as exciting if you couldn't spend well over $10K a month having fun. She inherited all of his debt and they divorced several months later and she had to file bankruptcy. I still LOL when I think of that part.
Much more to the story buy I'm rambling.
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Re: any males been victims of domestic violence? [Re: Cannabischarlie]
#8763321 - 08/12/08 03:24 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Man, I would never be a victim of domestic violence. Treat a woman like a woman until she wants to be treated like a man. I don't care what the law is, I would never let a bitch beat up on me.
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Re: any males been victims of domestic violence? [Re: Cannabischarlie]
#8763404 - 08/12/08 03:55 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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My best friend was shot twice by his girlfriend while he was unarmed and had not struck her but had said something nasty during an argument (according to the state attorney the attack was verbally provoked, and was a mitigating factor for the defendant), she shot him once in the groin and once through his left bicep into his chest.
She received 10 years probation, not one day in jail (after bail), anger management classes and had to pay restitution (hospital bills).
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Re: any males been victims of domestic violence? [Re: Cannabischarlie]
#8763409 - 08/12/08 03:57 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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There was a girl I was dating for a while who used to toy with me emotionally and shit. Really manipulative, would cheat on me, etc. A couple times, she hit me. I guess she grew up with it, when I took her to a dance once she had to wear heavy eye makeup because her air force pilot father had given her a shiner the day before. She bruised extremely easily. Once, while driving, she tried to hit me in the face. I caught her arm by the wrist, and she tried to hit me with her other hand. I caught that one too, and then she struggled, still trying to get free and beat on me. I was steering with my knees and bent her wrist until she agreed to stop and not hit me. Sean Connery is right, some women are just looking for a smack.
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Re: any males been victims of domestic violence? [Re: Cannabischarlie]
#8763419 - 08/12/08 04:00 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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my ex-wife had shitty aim when it came to throwing things, she's hit me a few times with her fist, even called the cops on me after she did it, cops came saw me with a few red marks and asked if I wanted her locked up, they crawled her ass for about 30 minutes and she told them she called so they needed to lock me up, that set one of them off, he had her in cuffs and in the car, they talked with me a little longer and decided to cut her lose because of the kids and me needing to work
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Re: any males been victims of domestic violence? [Re: DragonChaser]
#8763445 - 08/12/08 04:07 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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DragonChaser said: Sean Connery is right, some women are just looking for a smack.
I've hit 2 women, one was choking a cop, a decent guy that was trying to subdue her boyfriend who was beating her in a parking lot, I knocked her out cold... and the other hit me when I was driving, I nailed her and hit the brakes, so she got a double shot, the windshield was the second... it was reflex
I put the bitch out, she walked back to my house, got her stuff and I havent seen her since
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Re: any males been victims of domestic violence? [Re: Prisoner#1]
#8763500 - 08/12/08 04:18 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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tehe bitches are crazy .
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Re: any males been victims of domestic violence? [Re: Cannabischarlie]
#8763510 - 08/12/08 04:20 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Not personally, but my mom was arrested a few times for domestic violence. Nothing ever came of it (shows how biased the courts are).
I'm currently screening her calls, so I don't really feel like going further into it.
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Re: any males been victims of domestic violence? [Re: Ferris]
#8763538 - 08/12/08 04:25 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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What do you tell a woman with two black eyes?
NOTHING! You already told her, TWICE.
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Re: any males been victims of domestic violence? [Re: Ferris]
#8763572 - 08/12/08 04:31 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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Ferris said: Not personally, but my mom was arrested a few times for domestic violence. Nothing ever came of it (shows how biased the courts are).
I'm currently screening her calls, so I don't really feel like going further into it.
yeah, it also depends on the nature of the matter, its generally not acceptable to hit a woman under 99% of chances, even if she hits you first.
i do think that if you get a female DA prosecuting a woman they have a better chance, but in general a lot less men are willing to report DV, and then they feel like they might be arrested instead if the woman lies.
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Re: any males been victims of domestic violence? [Re: PsilocybinLuvin]
#8763585 - 08/12/08 04:33 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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PsilocybinLuvin said: tehe bitches are crazy .
I can deal with the crazy ones, it's the drama queens I cant stand
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Re: any males been victims of domestic violence? [Re: Cannabischarlie]
#8763594 - 08/12/08 04:35 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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I'm 99% sure that my stepdad wasn't the one to call the police in any of the cases.
Oh, and the police are simply obligated to bring someone in overnight in any case of reported domestic battery.
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Re: any males been victims of domestic violence? [Re: Prisoner#1]
#8763609 - 08/12/08 04:36 PM (15 years, 7 months ago) |
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I can deal with the crazy ones, it's the drama queens I cant stand
yeah i know, we all get upset at times, i think drama queens are just asking for shit though. then they are also less respected by their female peers.
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