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InvisibleMOTH
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Re: how does The Pub feel about Infidelity? [Re: RasJeph]
    #8585169 - 07/01/08 06:50 PM (15 years, 7 months ago)

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I think the concept of one person essentially owning another just because theyre in a relationship is fairly obselete.




Right...but its sad to think that you are not fulfilling the other persons needs...




How can a single partner fulfill every one of someone's needs at all times?  It seems impossible, but maybe I'm missing something.  That sounds like dependency.

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Re: how does The Pub feel about Infidelity? [Re: drok]
    #8585196 - 07/01/08 06:56 PM (15 years, 7 months ago)

I think we have all done it but it is like trying to push for world peace. I haven't really read thru this all. But I would write off someone who cheats Yes I have always been faithful to one thing in life and that is not cheating on yer gal and if she does fuck it. But I guess I'm just weird or old fashioned.

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Re: how does The Pub feel about Infidelity? [Re: MOTH]
    #8585201 - 07/01/08 06:58 PM (15 years, 7 months ago)

By the way, I'm not meaning to sound cynical of relationships; I'm just curious mostly.

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Re: how does The Pub feel about Infidelity? [Re: MOTH]
    #8585345 - 07/01/08 07:46 PM (15 years, 7 months ago)

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MOTH said:
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RasJeph said:
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I think the concept of one person essentially owning another just because theyre in a relationship is fairly obselete.




Right...but its sad to think that you are not fulfilling the other persons needs...




How can a single partner fulfill every one of someone's needs at all times?  It seems impossible, but maybe I'm missing something.  That sounds like dependency.




I don't think its about fulfilling all of someone's needs at all times. I think fulfillment comes from various sources. within oneself...from friends and family...and then the relationship stuff.
I take what he meant by fulfilling the persons' needs as fulfilling that portion of needs specific to what a relationship can offer, not in general.


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Re: how does The Pub feel about Infidelity? [Re: KingOftheThing]
    #8585373 - 07/01/08 07:54 PM (15 years, 7 months ago)

Its about the balance of personal investment. I think people want to feel like they are receiving from another what they've given.  Some people expect more for monogamy and others expect less. 

Either way if you are expecting another's monogamy for your own and are not being monogamous thats pretty much cheating the other person.  If there is some kind of monogamous understanding between two people anyway.


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Re: how does The Pub feel about Infidelity? [Re: sublime40oz]
    #8585377 - 07/01/08 07:54 PM (15 years, 7 months ago)

Most notably, the need for honesty. :wink:

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Re: how does The Pub feel about Infidelity? [Re: sublime40oz]
    #8585405 - 07/01/08 08:01 PM (15 years, 7 months ago)

If you feel the need to fuck another person. . . . break up with the one you're with and then fuck the other person! Why risk hurting the one you're with for curiousity not love or them being "the one"? I mean if you don't care enough about the person you are with then do it! but have them balls to deal with your situation! fuckin confess bitches dont hide it like they wouldn't know! Fuckin come clean! If you don't, it will be worse drama right? Although the obviously lack of care for the person you are with suggest than you dont give a fuck hows they find out, just kinda opps you found out sorry! Just IMO!



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Re: how does The Pub feel about Infidelity? [Re: Lndrydusting]
    #8585414 - 07/01/08 08:03 PM (15 years, 7 months ago)

You're forgiven.  Your post was quite emphatic.

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Re: how does The Pub feel about Infidelity? [Re: supra]
    #8585773 - 07/01/08 09:15 PM (15 years, 7 months ago)

I feel that if you're getting enjoyment out of it, that's really all that matters. Who cares about a meaningful relationship when sex is involved?

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Re: how does The Pub feel about Infidelity? [Re: Boots]
    #8586023 - 07/01/08 10:23 PM (15 years, 7 months ago)

You can't turn a hoe into a housewife, ESPECIALLY IF SHE HAS DADDY ISSUES.


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