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CherryBom
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I just got in a bitch fight
#8581535 - 06/30/08 07:25 PM (15 years, 8 months ago) |
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Me and this girl at work can't seem to get along very well. She seems to want some kind of superiority or control over me. She has none and I think it gets to her that she can't control me, boss me around, bully me etc.
There are about 5 girls who work at this restaurant, and we all get along pretty well expect this one bitch who always is bossing everyone around, delegating her responsibilities to the younger girls and generally being a giant cunt about getting all the good shifts all the time. The reason that she gets away with it is because she's really good at her job and she puts on a really sweet face for our boss who has a serious weakness for cute girls who work hard.
So anyways, she doesn't like me because I'm just as wicked as she is, if not more so and she doesn't like the compitition. They way I see it, there really is no compitition, and I think that is where the problem is. I dont' really acknowledge her as some kind of rival or anything at all, really other then some girl that happens to work at the same restaurant that I do. I think that gets to her. She wants to be on top, in control of the people around her, I view her as equal and it drives her batty.
So anyways, she's got her panties in a knot about some stupid bullshit work drama and calls me spewing these nasty names and I have to hang up on her 3 times in a row because she's shreiking into the phone like a hyena in heat calling me a bitch and god knows what else. I told her to catch her breath and call me back when she calms down, and that made her even MADDER.
So I keep hanging up on her and she keeps calling me back, should I report her or something? This chick is fucking psycho. I've never had to deal with anything like this before. It's like her main perogative is to take me down, but I barely give a fuck about her, and it just enrages her more that I don't give a fuck and now she's going off the deep end leaving abusive messages on my voice mail.
I don't get it. I'm the easiest person in the world to get along with. I can make friends with anybody. But not this one...
I don't know what to do. This is a bad situation right now, I thought about leaving and getting a new job, which would not be a problem except I feel like I would be giving up and letting her have exactly what she wants. Why should I be the one to leave? So I have to stay and put up with this stupid shit? What am I, a teenager? Jesus fuck.
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Prisoner#1
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Re: I just got in a bitch fight [Re: CherryBom]
#8581540 - 06/30/08 07:28 PM (15 years, 8 months ago) |
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CherryBom said: I told her to catch her breath and call me back when she calms down
you are the devil!
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Cameron
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Re: I just got in a bitch fight [Re: CherryBom]
#8581545 - 06/30/08 07:29 PM (15 years, 8 months ago) |
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What kind of work drama is she so worked up over?
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Crasher
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Re: I just got in a bitch fight [Re: CherryBom]
#8581546 - 06/30/08 07:29 PM (15 years, 8 months ago) |
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Cover her tampons with pepper spray and hire some gypsies to rough her up after a shift.
Really shady gypsies.
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Re: I just got in a bitch fight [Re: CherryBom]
#8581548 - 06/30/08 07:30 PM (15 years, 8 months ago) |
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In the darkness of night, creep into her room.
..and slaughter the cunt =]
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CherryBom
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Re: I just got in a bitch fight [Re: Cameron]
#8581567 - 06/30/08 07:36 PM (15 years, 8 months ago) |
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Cameron said: What kind of work drama is she so worked up over?
It's the stupidist thing! She wants to switch a shift with me, and I can't do it because I'm going to Michigan next week. It's not my problem, I booked it off in January. She thinks I should change my plans to cater to her personal schedule.
Fuck that.
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Cameron
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Re: I just got in a bitch fight [Re: CherryBom]
#8581569 - 06/30/08 07:37 PM (15 years, 8 months ago) |
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That's hilariously petty. She sounds like the type who rarely dissapoints!
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Re: I just got in a bitch fight [Re: Cameron]
#8581576 - 06/30/08 07:40 PM (15 years, 8 months ago) |
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OP change your phone number. and of COURSE dont tell her.
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Re: I just got in a bitch fight [Re: PilzeEssen]
#8581589 - 06/30/08 07:44 PM (15 years, 8 months ago) |
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ugh... just ignore the bitch... or stick her for not respecting your choice to not be irritated.
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Re: I just got in a bitch fight [Re: CherryBom]
#8581595 - 06/30/08 07:45 PM (15 years, 8 months ago) |
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change the greeting on your phone to a recording of you laughing. she'll love that. haha.
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watchoutnow
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Re: I just got in a bitch fight [Re: watchoutnow]
#8581596 - 06/30/08 07:45 PM (15 years, 8 months ago) |
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but then again this bitch seems like the aggresive cunts that come with a lot of velocity, like a lawsuit... You need to hit her where it hurts... Vandalism works.
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Re: I just got in a bitch fight [Re: watchoutnow]
#8581623 - 06/30/08 08:23 PM (15 years, 8 months ago) |
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Two girls fighting...?
I'm in!
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CherryBom
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Re: I just got in a bitch fight [Re: watchoutnow]
#8581627 - 06/30/08 08:24 PM (15 years, 8 months ago) |
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It's not very often that I meet people I can't get along with. Me and this girl are never going to be friends, and the funny thing is that we actually have a ton of shit in common. I see so many similarites beween us, and I just know that we will never be friends and we will never trust each other. Ever.
It's like she's bad juju. A stupid obnoxious lesson for me to learn about dealing with assholes.
Also:
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Scratcher said: change the greeting on your phone to a recording of you laughing. she'll love that. haha.
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Or by the way break her nose the next time you see her to establish dominates. A swift open palm hand works, or you could go all cartoonish and hit her in the face with a rake baseball swing style. Trust me this is the best and only way.
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Re: I just got in a bitch fight [Re: CherryBom]
#8581662 - 06/30/08 08:35 PM (15 years, 8 months ago) |
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Is she threatening you at all with violence? Even slightly? If you got a restraining order I wonder how that would work with you both working in the same place... She might be forced to quit.
If she is just calling you names you could record the messages and give them to her boss to listen to. If he does nothing then you might have luck going over his head to the owner. Document the calls though. Even if she doesn't threaten you with violence it is still harassment.
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Re: I just got in a bitch fight [Re: Chronicss]
#8581670 - 06/30/08 08:37 PM (15 years, 8 months ago) |
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Admit it, you're enjoying it.
Come on...
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Edited by Penguarky Tunguin (06/30/08 08:37 PM)
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Prisoner#1
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Re: I just got in a bitch fight [Re: CherryBom]
#8581673 - 06/30/08 08:38 PM (15 years, 8 months ago) |
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CherryBom said:
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Scratcher said: change the greeting on your phone to a recording of you laughing. she'll love that. haha.
actually you should change your ring tone to one of her having her melt down and have your friends call you at work occasionaly
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Re: I just got in a bitch fight [Re: CherryBom]
#8581677 - 06/30/08 08:38 PM (15 years, 8 months ago) |
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Whoa, holy shit, you can take her, Cherrybom! Sounds like she needs to be knocked down a peg.
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CherryBom
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Re: I just got in a bitch fight [Re: MOTH]
#8581703 - 06/30/08 08:43 PM (15 years, 8 months ago) |
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MOTH said: Whoa, holy shit, you can take her, Cherrybom! Sounds like she needs to be knocked down a peg.
See, I have zero interest in dominating her for any reason. I don't want to knock her down or anything like that. I just want to co-exist with her. That's it. But it's like there's only room for one of us in any given amount of space.
We are the opposite of friends.
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Re: I just got in a bitch fight [Re: CherryBom]
#8581709 - 06/30/08 08:45 PM (15 years, 8 months ago) |
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Seriously? You don't want to dominate another woman? That just killed so many reasons why I liked this thread
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