Home | Community | Message Board

Sporeworks
This site includes paid links. Please support our sponsors.


Welcome to the Shroomery Message Board! You are experiencing a small sample of what the site has to offer. Please login or register to post messages and view our exclusive members-only content. You'll gain access to additional forums, file attachments, board customizations, encrypted private messages, and much more!

Shop: PhytoExtractum Maeng Da Thai Kratom Leaf Powder   Original Sensible Seeds Feminized Cannabis Seeds

Jump to first unread post Pages: 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | Next >  [ show all ]
OfflineCptnGarden
fuck this site

Registered: 05/13/04
Posts: 11,945
Last seen: 14 years, 10 months
21yrs old and getting snipped - back from surgery!
    #8545138 - 06/20/08 04:54 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

before you all say its not possible,
im going in to get snipped in a week or two

i inquired about it and tried to set up an appointment...
i got referred to a psychiatrist to see if i was able to make these kinds of decisions yet. me and the psych had a very in depth discussion and he asked me a lot of cool questions that ide wish doctors would ask (what do you usually eat? how do you sleep?) etc.. and he said he would sign me off for the operation cause i was an organized, crisp, and mature individual.



what are your guys' thoughts on getting snipped? personally i dont want my own kid, cause it would probably pop up at a time that im not ready, and i want my kid to be wanted.
if i have a kid, im going to adopt and help solve a problem and turn an unwanted child into a wanted child.
i was adopted myself and know what its like to live a wanted life :smile:

Edited by CptnGarden (08/14/08 08:37 PM)

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisiblePrisoner#1
Even Dumber ThanAdvertized!
 User Gallery

Registered: 01/22/03
Posts: 193,665
Loc: Pvt. Pubfag NutSuck
Re: 21yrs old and getting snipped [Re: CptnGarden]
    #8545148 - 06/20/08 04:59 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

Quote:

CptnGarden said:
he said he would sign me off for the operation cause i was an organized, crisp, and mature individual.





were his exact words actually "I thought I'd met some really
messed up people before but... wow, just WOW"

just wondering because that's what he said to me

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Offlinewatchoutnow
mind'sonrecord/itsbeingviewed
 User Gallery


Registered: 04/13/07
Posts: 598
Last seen: 12 years, 5 months
Re: 21yrs old and getting snipped [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #8545155 - 06/20/08 05:01 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

to be honest with you my dad said no no dont do it. its ridiculous. And guess what. I found out its pretty ridiculous. Not necessary. Hope you have no regrets.


--------------------
I quit. Touch it.
"My views ain't changed to live humane wait" -Eminem
"Ya'll make me too rounded and I'm addicted, WTF I'm drunk. Wtf I'm high. Wtf I'm... Not sober... Sober block." -me crazily self.
"From that what, knowledge of self - determination!" -Blackstar
-----------------------------------------------------------------
Ever since I got braces shit gets stuck in my teeth.
Make me *** bitch!

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineCptnGarden
fuck this site

Registered: 05/13/04
Posts: 11,945
Last seen: 14 years, 10 months
Re: 21yrs old and getting snipped [Re: watchoutnow]
    #8545199 - 06/20/08 05:24 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

i dont see how its rediculous, and many things arent necessary.
but its a path ive been looking down for years and have never had the guts to walk.

i dont want my own children, my partner doesnt agree with taking birth control(it fucks up her body), and condoms were invented by a form of government so they could cheat on their wifes and not have a child to show for, plus they suck.

no regrets here.

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Offlinewatchoutnow
mind'sonrecord/itsbeingviewed
 User Gallery


Registered: 04/13/07
Posts: 598
Last seen: 12 years, 5 months
Re: 21yrs old and getting snipped [Re: CptnGarden]
    #8545212 - 06/20/08 05:30 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

whoops i read you wrong. I see. Dang big step. It's totally up to you. You marrying this girl?


--------------------
I quit. Touch it.
"My views ain't changed to live humane wait" -Eminem
"Ya'll make me too rounded and I'm addicted, WTF I'm drunk. Wtf I'm high. Wtf I'm... Not sober... Sober block." -me crazily self.
"From that what, knowledge of self - determination!" -Blackstar
-----------------------------------------------------------------
Ever since I got braces shit gets stuck in my teeth.
Make me *** bitch!

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Invisibletruffleupagus
Male User Gallery


Registered: 02/19/06
Posts: 3,103
Re: 21yrs old and getting snipped [Re: CptnGarden]
    #8545214 - 06/20/08 05:34 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

Condoms do suck.  Amen to that shit.

I guess that's kinda cool that you're willing to do that so your girl can stop the birth control.

You don't think there's any chance that you could change your mind about having one of your own though?

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisiblePrisoner#1
Even Dumber ThanAdvertized!
 User Gallery

Registered: 01/22/03
Posts: 193,665
Loc: Pvt. Pubfag NutSuck
Re: 21yrs old and getting snipped [Re: CptnGarden]
    #8545217 - 06/20/08 05:36 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

you wont know if you'll have regrets until later in life

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Offlinexdaveyx
Stranger

Registered: 05/13/08
Posts: 55
Last seen: 15 years, 8 months
Re: 21yrs old and getting snipped [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #8545248 - 06/20/08 05:49 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

idk...
best advice if you're really going through this is too save some of you sperm. That way if one day you do decide to have kids you can.

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineCulland
Stranger
 User Gallery


Registered: 09/12/07
Posts: 324
Last seen: 2 months, 15 days
Re: 21yrs old and getting snipped [Re: CptnGarden]
    #8545252 - 06/20/08 05:52 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

Here are my thoughts on the issue:

1) As someone in his mid 30's I can say what I thought I wanted and what I thought I knew at 20 turned out to be very different as time played out.

2) I think few folks are every 'really' ready for being a parent. There is always something pressing in life, money issues, etc and had I left it up to planning me and my GF would never have had kids, but eventually after over a decade of trying I managed to slip one past the goalie.

3) Having a kid changes so much, sometimes I feel my head exploding and yet I wouldnt ever want it otherwise.

On the bright side you can often reverse the procedure, provided your doctor doesn't botch it the first time.

Cul

Edited by Culland (06/20/08 05:52 PM)

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisibleDepthToTheCore
JeeBuzz
Male User Gallery

Registered: 05/05/04
Posts: 3,649
Loc: Australia brah Flag
Re: 21yrs old and getting snipped [Re: CptnGarden]
    #8545267 - 06/20/08 06:05 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

Power to you.In regards to my situation, I cant wait til the day i have kids. I know there are kids that i can adopt and help the worlds problems etc, but im one of those people who really wants a kid, i think it'd improve my life tenfold and i think i'd be a really good father.

In saying that, i think you have to be pretty headstrong to go down the path you are going so props to you.

:thumbup:


--------------------


"Those who dance are considered insane by those who cannot hear the music." - George Carlin

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisibleDickhead
2 Times
Female User Gallery

Registered: 01/24/05
Posts: 28,769
Loc: groin
Re: 21yrs old and getting snipped [Re: DepthToTheCore]
    #8545379 - 06/20/08 06:58 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

I've thought about it myself. 

Enough People on earth anyhow.


--------------------
Multiplied

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineCptnGarden
fuck this site

Registered: 05/13/04
Posts: 11,945
Last seen: 14 years, 10 months
Re: 21yrs old and getting snipped [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #8545514 - 06/20/08 07:52 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

Quote:

Prisoner#1 said:
you wont know if you'll have regrets until later in life




i dont think like that, i know that if i made a decision like this, thats it, theres no turning back, and im ok with that.

i fuckin hate kids anyways.
:smile:

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisibleTheFakeSunRa
Bitch Splitter
 User Gallery


Registered: 03/01/05
Posts: 16,449
Loc: Dirdy SOUF Flag
Re: 21yrs old and getting snipped [Re: CptnGarden]
    #8545534 - 06/20/08 07:58 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

Quote:

i fuckin hate kids anyways




That says it all man, thanks for doing right by society by taking the bull by the horns. As a person nearly twice your age I just want to say my position on kids never changed. Never wanted 'em, never will. And if I have to hear another person say, oh having a kid changes everything blah blah I'm going to barf on them.


--------------------
[quote]Asante said:
You constantly make posts thatr fling middle school insults at people you don't like mixed in with maladjusted psychopathic comments about wanting to beat up the other poster with a crowbar.

You know how shit you are, you just don't give a fuck for precisely that reason.

I disendorse you.[/quote]

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisibleDNKYD
Turtle!

Registered: 09/23/04
Posts: 12,326
Re: 21yrs old and getting snipped [Re: CptnGarden]
    #8545535 - 06/20/08 07:59 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Cat/0/Number/8456452/an/0/page/0


I'm having mine done at the end of next month. There was no psychiatric evaluation necessary for me. I am mature and know what I want out of life and the doc saw just that.

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisibleWhiskeyClone
Not here
Male User Gallery


Registered: 06/25/01
Posts: 16,509
Loc: Longitudinal Center of Canada ...
Re: 21yrs old and getting snipped [Re: CptnGarden]
    #8545783 - 06/20/08 09:51 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

I will always support anyone for deciding to never have children.  Particularly if they don't want children.  You are doing the responsible thing. :thumbup:


--------------------
Welcome evermore to gods and men is the self-helping man.  For him all doors are flung wide: him all tongues greet, all honors crown, all eyes follow with desire.  Our love goes out to him and embraces him, because he did not need it.

~ R.W. Emerson, "Self-Reliance"

:heartpump:

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Invisiblemalfunction556
Twitterpated Bum
 User Gallery


Registered: 05/04/08
Posts: 253
Loc: Villa Straylight
Re: 21yrs old and getting snipped [Re: WhiskeyClone]
    #8545853 - 06/20/08 10:34 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

Right on man.  I had mine snipped a few years ago.  I went in, they gave me a shot of vallium, 20 mins later they were done.  Went home, iced my balls, and that's it.
The only downer is that ya have to wait for a few weeks afterwards before sex.  Then you have to jack off into a little container, rush that to the doc so they can check it for live sperm.  If none are there, then you are good to go.
Ya gotta do that again every few yrs, to make sure.

And down the road, there is adoption.  Enough kids in this world already that would love a good home!


--------------------
"When the government fears the people, we have democracy.  When the people fear the government, we have tyranny." -- Thomas Jefferson

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineFunGuyFan
Stranger


Registered: 02/28/03
Posts: 1,171
Loc: Hack Hack Cough Cough
Last seen: 13 years, 4 months
Re: 21yrs old and getting snipped [Re: malfunction556]
    #8545901 - 06/20/08 10:53 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

I have said since childhood that I never wanted kids and if I ever did decide to have children I would adopt
Well I am now into my 30's and nothing has changed; sure I have been tempted at times but honestly when it comes down to it there is absolutely no desire to carry a another human around for nine months. Many women act as if there is something wrong with another female feeling this way, but it is my opinion that there are way to many other people in the world procreating that it almost seems selfish at times
Don't get me wrong I admire and respect people who are willing to commit themselves to children but I don't  agree with talking down to a person who has made a choice not to have children
CptnGarden if you are indeed only 21 please wait a few more years.
I have had numerous birth control issues but I have never thought they were worth having my husband snip himself. You are still pretty young at least wait until you are 25-30

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisibleDNKYD
Turtle!

Registered: 09/23/04
Posts: 12,326
Re: 21yrs old and getting snipped [Re: FunGuyFan]
    #8545930 - 06/20/08 11:03 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

Why wait?

I have a feeling that CptnGarden is just like me, minus the adoption part. He has probably had this feeling for as long as he can remember, and his reasoning is sane and logical.

I don't understand all of you people that say it should be put off, or not done at all, or that sperm should be frozen. It seems like you aren't even paying attention to what he is saying. If he feels like having a child he will adopt one. How will putting off the vasectomy possibly benefit that end?

This is a decision that CptnGarden probably came to by himself, and not something his significant other told him to do. That is the case with my SO and myself. She never said "I have a problem with BC so I think you should get your balls snipped." I came to her and said this is a very sensible option, and I am going through with it.

Yes, he is young. So am I. Some opinions change over time while others do not. Some people make foolish decisions in their young adulthood only to regret and bitch about them later in life. I have a feeling these are the people that did not have very strong feelings about what they were doing, otherwise they wouldn't have any problems with it later in life.

That's my 2 cents for tonight.

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineThe_Red_Crayon
Exposer of Truth
Male User Gallery

Registered: 08/13/03
Posts: 13,673
Loc: Smokey Mtns. TN Flag
Last seen: 6 years, 10 months
Re: 21yrs old and getting snipped [Re: CptnGarden]
    #8546022 - 06/20/08 11:38 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

I think its great, theirs already enough humans.

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
InvisibleLe_Canard
The Duk Abides


Registered: 05/16/03
Posts: 94,392
Loc: Earthfarm 1 Flag
Re: 21yrs old and getting snipped [Re: CptnGarden]
    #8546026 - 06/20/08 11:40 PM (15 years, 9 months ago)

My psychiatrist tasered me the first time. :frown:

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Jump to top Pages: 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | Next >  [ show all ]

Shop: PhytoExtractum Maeng Da Thai Kratom Leaf Powder   Original Sensible Seeds Feminized Cannabis Seeds


Similar ThreadsPosterViewsRepliesLast post
* The over-medication of our children takes a victim.
( 1 2 all )
OneMoreRobot3021 4,844 34 03/26/07 01:15 AM
by Hallucophetamine
* is it a danger to have a homosexual couple adopt.....
( 1 2 3 all )
5150 6,765 51 04/28/11 05:25 AM
by Fungal-one
* Man imprisons daughter for 24 years and fathers 7 children with her
( 1 2 3 4 5 6 all )
sam420 8,112 104 04/29/08 01:36 PM
by Ferris
* Feral Children
( 1 2 all )
weiliiiiiii 2,492 22 11/08/08 10:54 PM
by Le_Canard
* Circumcision - would you do this to your children?
( 1 2 3 4 ... 12 13 )
ShroomismM 11,946 250 08/16/13 08:17 PM
by The Vapor
* Gettin' the old snip-snip. *Update*
( 1 2 all )
Crasher 1,404 22 08/31/08 04:28 PM
by danlennon3
* Fuck psychiatrists
( 1 2 3 4 all )
RipVanWinkle 6,542 72 07/25/12 05:54 PM
by ManianFH
* Im going to see a psychiatrist....opinions please? phishytrip 2,510 17 02/23/05 12:15 PM
by niteowl

Extra information
You cannot start new topics / You cannot reply to topics
HTML is disabled / BBCode is enabled
Moderator: Entire Staff
5,136 topic views. 4 members, 32 guests and 91 web crawlers are browsing this forum.
[ Show Images Only | Sort by Score | Print Topic ]
Search this thread:

Copyright 1997-2024 Mind Media. Some rights reserved.

Generated in 0.029 seconds spending 0.008 seconds on 16 queries.