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pj dawg99
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looking for some actual life advice!
#8393790 - 05/12/08 06:37 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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Ok so a couple months ago i was arrested for possession half a gram.. blew my parents away that there son was using such a "dangerous" drug and how I was throwing my life away for something so dumb. Now just yesterday my parents told me they were testing me so i honestly said I would fail cause I smoked "2weeks ago" blazed a blunt earlier that day. As I go on the computer I see all this history on christian drug rehabilitation centers drove me crazy.. I'm so sick of listening to people tell me that I'm killing myself by smoking pot alittle. I have never used hard drugsbut have been around them , and I dont even drink. Why is everyones perspective about marajuana so bad. while i was smoking life was so much better in all sense family friends people ddnt even know I was smoking. All my parents do is rant on how its the devils drug and I will for sure be doing coke in a year. Is there anything I can do to change their perspective or nething. Just looking for some life advice from someone maybe on what to do idk right now I'm just pissed confused and lost.
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Coaster
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Re: looking for some actual life advice! [Re: pj dawg99]
#8393807 - 05/12/08 06:43 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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weed is bad mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmkay
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TheShroomJew23
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Re: looking for some actual life advice! [Re: pj dawg99]
#8393817 - 05/12/08 06:46 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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My mom has been and will all ways be that way sorry. My dad on the other hand doesnt give a fuck anymore. I dont drink, smoke squares, and I only do shrooms and LSA( Morning Glory ). Im sorry man but you are going to have to live with it. No matter what you do your moms mind will never change. Your dad on the other hand will get beter as you get older. Once your in college you wont even think bout ur parents. Until then you are F U C K Fucked
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Re: looking for some actual life advice! [Re: pj dawg99]
#8393821 - 05/12/08 06:47 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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You're most likely NOT going to be able to change your parents' perspective... all arguing will do is cement in their position that it's a dangerous drug and that you must be addicted to it--for why else would you be defending it so passionately? Best advice I can give is to do whatever they say and make it look like you've sincerely changed your ways: this will rebuild their trust in you. This is not to say that you should stop smoking, but just hide it better from both authorities and the parents next time. Getting arrested for anything, including possession, is a bad thing--and your parents are rightly concerned for this. Use this as incentive to wisen up in street smarts and learn to play the system. It sucks, but that's life.
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andrewss
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Re: looking for some actual life advice! [Re: Coaster]
#8393822 - 05/12/08 06:47 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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That sucks, arrested for a half of a gram?! Thats pretty crazy, such a small amount.
So you dont smoke much? Why did you get arrested? Being wreckless? Just curious... but yeah people can smoke marijuana and not move on to other "hard" drugs, and be good citizens and good students, etc etc etc
Just have to prove in other areas that you have you head on straight and that you dont use it all that much. However, if you are young and live in their house they do still kinda own you... I doubt you will ever change their minds about it if they are going that far with it. But in the end they want the best for you, but perhaps they are a bit ignorant, sucks but its the truth. Good luck.
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boxcarguy07
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Re: looking for some actual life advice! [Re: andrewss]
#8393831 - 05/12/08 06:49 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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Sounds like they are pretty hardcore Christians... use that to your advantage.
"God made all the seed-bearing plants for us to use" "Jesus said we're not defiled by what enters our bodies, but by what comes from our hearts... and I'm a loving person"
etc...
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pj dawg99
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Re: looking for some actual life advice! [Re: andrewss]
#8393843 - 05/12/08 06:51 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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well we had to many kids in the car and were driooping someone off could see his house from the squad car,, but I do fine in school not much of an agrumentitive kid just like to smoke and chill open my mind for 2 hours idk this blows if i go to rehabd for pot im jnust guna keep smoking I honestly dont care ne more
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pj dawg99
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Re: looking for some actual life advice! [Re: pj dawg99]
#8393852 - 05/12/08 06:53 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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O man i tried that and they said i was ment for food not smoking then I said what about eating it and all she said was that thats mans way of turning it into something evil according to her god gave it to us to cherish not turn into something bad. According to her all pot is laced and evil.
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geedorah
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Re: looking for some actual life advice! [Re: pj dawg99]
#8393858 - 05/12/08 06:54 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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Be nicer to your parents you little prick. They don't want to put up with your shit for a reason that one day you'll understand. Soon enough you'll be a lot older and allowed to do whatever you want with your life so try and be a little patient.
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boxcarguy07
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Re: looking for some actual life advice! [Re: pj dawg99]
#8393861 - 05/12/08 06:55 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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lol what bullshit.
Bill Hicks as God "Oh no... I left all that pot lying around! That might give man the impression that he's actually supposed to... USE IT."
cherish it? but not use it?
ugh i hate Christians. and I am one!
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Re: looking for some actual life advice! [Re: pj dawg99]
#8393864 - 05/12/08 06:56 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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how old are you?
get your class 3 or 1 and gtfo out of there, don't want that shit warping your mind
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pj dawg99
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Re: looking for some actual life advice! [Re: geedorah]
#8393868 - 05/12/08 06:57 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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Listen dude you dont know nething about my life so please dont call me a prick about my parents you dont know nething about me and thats fine. And when you say throw ur life away do you do crack or heroin.. cock meth. because I'm arround it alot and yet once have i done it or even wanted to do it my mind is made on drugs and I dont even want to expirement with nething other then pot.
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TheShroomJew23
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Re: looking for some actual life advice! [Re: boxcarguy07]
#8393870 - 05/12/08 06:57 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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I LOVE BEING JEWISH
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oxalic32
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Re: looking for some actual life advice! [Re: deranger]
#8393873 - 05/12/08 06:58 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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Somethings to consider: -You'll never change their mind, accepting that is part of growing up. -If you live in their house you should respect their rules. -Once you are a true adult living on your own you can live by your own accord. -They're just concerned thats their job. From your perspective you might not understand, but consider how they grew up and the information/misinformation that has been in them so long. Its also a moral issue at hand.
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pj dawg99
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Re: looking for some actual life advice! [Re: pj dawg99]
#8393878 - 05/12/08 06:59 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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I completely agree its not something to be abused but cherished nething used in exess is potentialy harmful
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oxalic32
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Re: looking for some actual life advice! [Re: pj dawg99]
#8393898 - 05/12/08 07:05 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
pj dawg99 said: I completely agree its not something to be abused but cherished nething used in exess is potentialy harmful
You can really smoke all the time and live life fine.
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pj dawg99
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Re: looking for some actual life advice! [Re: oxalic32]
#8393918 - 05/12/08 07:09 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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I know that but im just putting that out there
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Coaster
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Re: looking for some actual life advice! [Re: TheShroomJew23]
#8393945 - 05/12/08 07:13 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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Quote:
TheShroomJew23 said: I LOVE BEING JEWISH
wuts so good about it?
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Viciousend
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Re: looking for some actual life advice! [Re: pj dawg99]
#8393965 - 05/12/08 07:16 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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Its unfortunate but you had a bad day and things are going to be a little harder from now on most likely. I believe most people who don't smoke have a common approach to something they know very little about and when used responsibly it can do alot for you but basically what oxalic32 said is the bottom line.
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oxalic32
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Re: looking for some actual life advice! [Re: Viciousend]
#8394028 - 05/12/08 07:30 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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Yea i've basically gone through the same thing. I didn't want to believe or accept it, but in reality i had to.
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