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growing shrooms when wife will disapprove
    #8384732 - 05/10/08 09:37 AM (15 years, 9 months ago)

My friend has decided he is going to grow some mushrooms. The problem is his wife. She doesnt know yet, but she wont approve of it. They also have a young son and another on the way.

He doesnt intend on selling them. He just wants to have them for those summer evenings when they sky is clear and the stars are sparkling overhead.

He has already ordered the spores and equipment he needs and he has been reading these very forums for over a year now. The spores and equipment were ordered through proxies who he plans to tell his grow attempt was a failure. It sucks to be that way, but he felt this was necessary for his safety. He instructed them that if the feds came knocking to tell them they thought about growing but changed their minds. Those people don't have anything illegal at their homes.

He only has one friend that he likes to trip with and his friend is very trustworthy, but he doesnt even plan on telling HIM that he grew them himself.

He feels trapped and frustrated sometimes and the shrooms help him feel free. He thinks growing them would add to the feeling of liberation. He also quit smoking a few months ago after a shroom trip his wife didnt know about. They seem to make him not want to smoke for weeks afterwards.

He gave up drinking, smoking pot, and other drugs after his son was born because he didnt want his son to see that side of him but he doesnt feel that shrooms are comparable.

He wanted me to ask everyone here what they thought. Is this just him being selfish? Has anyone else gone though this?


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Re: growing shrooms when wife will disapprove [Re: FunkBuddha]
    #8384751 - 05/10/08 09:52 AM (15 years, 9 months ago)

Well it sounds like your bro isn't really in a good frame of mind to get into this. Sneaking around really sux, makes me paranoid (which it sounds like he is a little) and well, it's being dishonest. I was in the same kind of deal a few years ago with my now ex-wife. I hid shit from her all the time, but it made me a nervous wreck. Now she's gone I don't have to be all sneaky. It's great. Should've left her ages ago.
that's my 2 cents anyway. Don't take it personal or anything.


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Re: growing shrooms when wife will disapprove [Re: FunkBuddha]
    #8384752 - 05/10/08 09:53 AM (15 years, 9 months ago)

Whoa brother!If you value your relationship Dont hide it from her.Growing shrooms takes up time and room,and in my experiance very hard to hide.Not only are you putting your relationship on the line but also your whole family.You dont have anything to worry about lawwise unless you tell people.which is kinda hard to do,cause once you get successful you get proud of your work.And to add if peoiple do find out,theyll want to buy,and theres some good money in it.thats very hard to turn down.On the other hand you shouldnt be tied down and feel trapped.Im a very free person and tend to only grow illegals(moonshine,shrooms)But it comes at a price.My wife doesnt approve but she understands.Its something that makes me very happy.And I dont put our safety at risk.You should talk it over with her,make some sorta agrement with her,cause women are smarter than we think.


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Re: growing shrooms when wife will disapprove [Re: JazzCatCF]
    #8384766 - 05/10/08 09:59 AM (15 years, 9 months ago)

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JazzCatCF said:
Whoa brother!If you value your relationship Dont hide it from her.Growing shrooms takes up time and room,and in my experiance very hard to hide.Not only are you putting your relationship on the line but also your whole family.You dont have anything to worry about lawwise unless you tell people.which is kinda hard to do,cause once you get successful you get proud of your work.And to add if peoiple do find out,theyll want to buy,and theres some good money in it.thats very hard to turn down.On the other hand you shouldnt be tied down and feel trapped.Im a very free person and tend to only grow illegals(moonshine,shrooms)But it comes at a price.My wife doesnt approve but she understands.Its something that makes me very happy.And I dont put our safety at risk.You should talk it over with her,make some sorta agrement wi
th her,cause women are smarter than we think.




He and you sound a lot alike. He isn't going to hide it from her. He thought


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Re: growing shrooms when wife will disapprove [Re: FunkBuddha]
    #8384767 - 05/10/08 10:00 AM (15 years, 9 months ago)

He and you sound a lot alike. He isn't going to hide it from her. He thought




sorry, the post got cut off. I meant to say that he thought about hiding it, but determined that would be foolish.


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Re: growing shrooms when wife will disapprove [Re: FunkBuddha]
    #8384797 - 05/10/08 10:15 AM (15 years, 9 months ago)

Yea,I knew she wouldnt like it,I did alot of reading and realized I had to tell her what I wanted to do.She was so against it.It almost ruined our marriage.For 1, I became very obsessed with trying to perfect it.and b,I opened my big mouth,to people,Just young and dumb.What changed it all was I told everyone I quit,that I almost got busted,(which was a lie)and that fateful day when she tried them for her first time.she realized why I did it.Since then she doesnt do them any more,I guess it ran its course with her,But she doesnt mind if I do them.But if it came down to it,I would give them up for her:heart:But I know she would never ask me to do that.Dude, just explain to your wife or"your freind"that this is something you want to do it will be small,and dont break her trust like selling or converting your basement to a lab.I can get a little outa controll. or do a little white lying.Like you growing shrooms but not drugs,Just say there some other type.I wouldnt recomend doing that though cause unless shes tottaly grossed out by mushrooms shell want to try them eventually.


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The Mazatec Wise Woman, Maria Sabina (1894-1985)


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Re: growing shrooms when wife will disapprove [Re: JazzCatCF]
    #8384819 - 05/10/08 10:27 AM (15 years, 9 months ago)

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Yea,I knew she wouldnt like it,I did alot of reading and realized I had to tell her what I wanted to do.She was so against it.It almost ruined our marriage.For 1, I became very obsessed with trying to perfect it.and b,I opened my big mouth,to people,Just young and dumb.What changed it all was I told everyone I quit,that I almost got busted,(which was a lie)and that fateful day when she tried them for her first time.she realized why I did it.Since then she doesnt do them any more,I guess it ran its course with her,But she doesnt mind if I do them.But if it came down to it,I would give them up for her:heart:But I know she would never ask me to do that.Dude, just explain to your wife or"your freind"that this is something you want to do it will be small,and dont break her trust like selling or converting your basement to a lab.I can get a little outa controll. or do a little white lying.Like you growing shrooms but not drugs,Just say there some other type.I wouldnt recomend doing that though cause unless shes tottaly grossed out by mushrooms shell want to try them eventually.




Good advice, he says "Thanks!". :wink:

And his wife LOVES regular mushrooms. He however, does not.


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Re: growing shrooms when wife will disapprove [Re: FunkBuddha]
    #8384966 - 05/10/08 11:34 AM (15 years, 9 months ago)

if it was me I would at least tell her, even if whe would disapprove?

would it be so bad that she would dismantle it or call the cops on you? if not, why not just get yourself a garage or shed and nice lock and keep everything out there. that might help her accept it a bit more


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Re: growing shrooms when wife will disapprove [Re: nonlinear]
    #8384989 - 05/10/08 11:41 AM (15 years, 9 months ago)

Well. I'm still young and dumb and have been through three engagements so that'll tell ya what this advice is worth. But anyway, I would of course tell her everything you just told us and if she doesn't understand. Well tell her you're just gonna grow some edibles. She won't know the differance. Fill a couple laundry baskets with oysters and a couple of monotubs with pan cyans. It's not like she can ever enter the grow area anyway (wouldn't want her coodies in your room). Sounds like a terribly sneaky bad good plan to me.


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Re: growing shrooms when wife will disapprove [Re: FunkBuddha]
    #8385019 - 05/10/08 11:51 AM (15 years, 9 months ago)

Whatever you do, keep in mind that that BOTH adults are legally responsible for what goes on in their home. In other words, if the police come a'knockin' the wife can be charged with a crime whether she knows about the grow or not.

It's really unfair to put someone at legal risk without their knowledge.


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