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OfflineDrewwyann
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flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice
    #8374323 - 05/07/08 06:39 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

I found out that my girlfriend is flirty.

She isn't flirty on purpose and I know that, but she is a really touchy person. But she touches guys not in sexual ways, but the way that a girl would touch another friend of hers that is a female.

I suck at dealing with stuff like this, and thought you guys would have some advice. I know it's harmless, but she is leading guys on sort of. I talked to her about it, and it hasn't changed and I don't wanna really say anything more because it is harmless. She would not act on anything.

Advice would be appreciated. :thumbup:


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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: Drewwyann]
    #8374341 - 05/07/08 06:41 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

Give her a dicking so good she will never want to walk away from you.

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Re: I'm not gonna drag this out but... [Re: Drewwyann]
    #8374342 - 05/07/08 06:41 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

Its just her personality, some people are that way, if you care for her you won't really care about it. Plus, if she actually cares for you, then nothing will ever come from any of it. If she does cheat on you, then she doesn't really care for you and you would be best off finding a new chick.

So, it boils down to if you care for her and she cares for you, it is harmless and won't affect anyone. Just don't let guys flirt back, not that it is bad for you or your chick, it is just shameful if they know she is taken.

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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: Drewwyann]
    #8374347 - 05/07/08 06:42 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

Beat her every night until she's too scared to leave your side or look at another man.

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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: Drewwyann]
    #8374355 - 05/07/08 06:44 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

This probably isn't what you want to hear, but my response would be "get over it". She's being a sensitive person, you're being jealous. Frankly I think you're in the wrong here, and if you want to stay with her, I'd suggest that you work out any insecurities you may have and come to terms with who she is (and maybe aspire to be as sensitive / loving towards people in general yourself!)

I hope that helps. She sounds like a fine catch, don't fuck it up ;p


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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: Drewwyann]
    #8374360 - 05/07/08 06:45 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

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Drewwyann said:
I found out that my girlfriend is flirty.

She isn't flirty on purpose and I know that, but she is a really touchy person. But she touches guys not in sexual ways, but the way that a girl would touch another friend of hers that is a female.

I suck at dealing with stuff like this, and thought you guys would have some advice. I know it's harmless, but she is leading guys on sort of. I talked to her about it, and it hasn't changed and I don't wanna really say anything more because it is harmless. She would not act on anything.

Advice would be appreciated. :thumbup:



Try to look in yourself and understand why you would get jealous because your gf touched a man in a friendly platonic way.

She sounds nice I would try to remind myself that she is just a nice person and control the emotions.


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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: Drewwyann]
    #8374392 - 05/07/08 06:54 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

Sounds like a ho to me.


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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: Drewwyann]
    #8374407 - 05/07/08 06:58 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

Don't let it bother you. Ignore it, and flirt with other girls constantly.

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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: ChiefThunderbong]
    #8374408 - 05/07/08 06:58 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

Put it in her butt!  :ass:


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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: Drewwyann]
    #8374413 - 05/07/08 07:00 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

leave her and find a girl that is not a slut.


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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: aDoS]
    #8374417 - 05/07/08 07:01 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

or just cut one of her ears off, that way no guy will take a second look at her?


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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: 2FiNiTe]
    #8374426 - 05/07/08 07:02 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

I heard that some people in the middle east do not allow their wives to bathe so that they are not appealing to other men...because they smell worst than shit. Would you rather have a flirty girlfriend or a smelly girlfriend?


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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: aDoS]
    #8374526 - 05/07/08 07:26 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

sss
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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: Ego Death]
    #8374647 - 05/07/08 07:49 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

what's her number?

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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: antiPock]
    #8374685 - 05/07/08 07:58 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

I realize that I have to get over this, yes. But she is getting guys to like her through it, which is what bothers me. If she was touching them in a friendly way and they took it as just that it wouldn't bother me at all. She leads boys on :tongue:. I am terrible at the whole getting over it thing, but I'm trying.

I dunno.

If I could change how I feel about it easily I would, but I'm a jealous person, and it kind sucks. :shrug:

Sooo, I know I have to get over it.


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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: Drewwyann]
    #8374707 - 05/07/08 08:02 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

Drewwyann said:
I realize that I have to get over this, yes. But she is getting guys to like her through it, which is what bothers me. If she was touching them in a friendly way and they took it as just that it wouldn't bother me at all. She leads boys on :tongue:. I am terrible at the whole getting over it thing, but I'm trying.

I dunno.

If I could change how I feel about it easily I would, but I'm a jealous person, and it kind sucks. :shrug:

Sooo, I know I have to get over it.



That sucks, there are no easy answers. Either accept it or move on.


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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: Drewwyann]
    #8374730 - 05/07/08 08:06 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

Drewwyann said:
I realize that I have to get over this, yes. But she is getting guys to like her through it, which is what bothers me. If she was touching them in a friendly way and they took it as just that it wouldn't bother me at all. She leads boys on :tongue:. I am terrible at the whole getting over it thing, but I'm trying.

I dunno.

If I could change how I feel about it easily I would, but I'm a jealous person, and it kind sucks. :shrug:

Sooo, I know I have to get over it.




She's obviously shit testing you man.  Don't jump through her hoops by responding to her behavior and getting jealous and confronting her about it.  That is obviously her intention, to make you jealous.  But if you remain cool and confident, she will gain so much respect for you, you'll be thanking me.

Control your emotions.

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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: Drewwyann]
    #8374754 - 05/07/08 08:13 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

I don't know man, I had a similar situation. It didn't turn out well. She said she didn't know that she was flirting or whatever. She probably liked the attention and knew exactly what she was doing. Who knows if the situation is similar but I'm not going to fall into that trap again. I gave her the benefit of the doubt and tried to tell myself it was harmless and just her nature, apparently so was being a slut. Its hard to say don't be so touchy with other guys, or flirtatious, without seeming like a jealous boyfriend, but because of my experience thats exactly what I would do.

If you *know* its harmless I would try to get over it, if it bothers you and you doubt if she is all yours then maybe its worth pursuing.


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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: Drewwyann]
    #8374771 - 05/07/08 08:17 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

Drewwyann said:
She leads boys on :tongue:




If she's just being herself, then it's not her fault guys get easily attached to her, and assume that more will follow.  She sounds like a normal social butterfly to me. 

I don't understand the "leading a guy on" thing too well.  Guys have to take responsibility for their own feelings.  If they fall for her, then folly on them, and too bad!  And lucky you, because you're the one she's chosen to be her partner. 

No need to feel protective or fear loss.

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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: it stars saddam]
    #8374799 - 05/07/08 08:21 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

Yea shes testing you but shes also using the excuse that shes a touchy girly girl and if she wants to get away with it she will.
If she doesnt respect you enough to stop this little shit that irritates you then fuck that bitch.

If you bash some fuckers head in for flirting with her,your the bad guy.So go do some touchy feely shit with another chick in front of her.

Actually,everything she does to you ,you are entitled to do it back to her to show her how it feels if she doesn't quite get it.

I`m alot older though if my girlfriend did that shit to me I would grab the nearest skank and pound my dick up her ass right in front of her.

All this is little irritating shit that will add up if you dont fix it now.Speaking your mind and communication is the only way.


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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: Drewwyann]
    #8374973 - 05/07/08 09:04 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

I bet shes not that hot anyway.

I dunno, I've been in positions where I could swear a girl I'm chatting up at a party is about to jump my bones. Then some guy comes up and gives her a kiss, and when he walks away she continues giving me eyes and flirtatious conversation. I dunno what the deal is but the boyfriend is usually some meat head who's probably dumb as rocks and not half as handsome as I.

When I do have a steady girlfriend I find myself in the upside-down of your situation. She'll get pissed at me for "flirting" with other girls. Its never something I initiate though.

I'd say do the same thing she's doing, but it would probably be obvious to her that you're trying to fight fire with fire. So do your best to ignore it I guess. Rock on.

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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: 667]
    #8375030 - 05/07/08 09:19 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

If she starts talking to other dudes just walk away from her. She'll either get the point and stop being stupid or you two won't work out. Hold her hand while you two are together and if she starts flirting immediately stop relating to her, break eye contact, drop her hand and walk away. It's not being social. It's about letting your body control you and allowing it to be pulled (magnetically? so to speak) to other bodies. Trifling ho's try to pass this off as being friendly and social. HAVE SOME FUCKING BALLS.

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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: BoneMan]
    #8375032 - 05/07/08 09:19 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

it'll never work. just ride it out till you can't take it anymore.

jealous people need to be with other jealous people


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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: badlydrawnboy]
    #8375100 - 05/07/08 09:36 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

I've dated a flirt whore, and as a result have a HORRIBLE history with them.

I don't trust 'em for a second and won't give one the time of day (other than to hop on my cawk). I'd never date another one though - not trustworthy.

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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: memes]
    #8375397 - 05/07/08 10:49 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

I've been in a similar situation, and I was always jealous of her doing exactly what you're talking about...then she cheated on me with some scumbag (a serious fucking scumbag).

It's definitely not good to be jealous, that doesn't help, but I think think you have a right to be.

My experience is only one and the circumstances were probably a lot different than yours in many ways. Your girlfriend sounds nice and sociable, my ex was just super sexual.

It's so hard to give relationship advice online, you can't really know the circumstances of someone elses relationship on here.


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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: Drewwyann]
    #8375507 - 05/07/08 11:19 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

Some girls just have that kind of personality some guys to I guess, but if yall are really into each other you shouldn't have anything to worry about. If she ever does cheat on you though fuck dat hoe there are many others out there.


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Re: flirty girlfriend, advice would be nice [Re: Gainer]
    #8375519 - 05/07/08 11:24 PM (15 years, 10 months ago)

Be a major dick about it. Let her know it isn't right, if your not comfortable with it she shouldn't continue it. If she keeps it up decide whether it bugs you enough to can her or not.


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