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Anonymous #14
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It's ok I had horrible abusive parents and I turned out ok.
Fungi_x
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Anonymous #15
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Anonymous #16
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Hey, at least you aren't like my father when I was a kid. He'd spank me, then he'd feel really bad about it and he'd go buy me a fucking candy bar. A FUCKING CANDY BAR!!
Needless to say I had some fucked up dental problems, and general distrust for my dad.
It's a beautiful thing that you don't hit your kid as so many parents do.
On the other hand, that probably wasn't a good way to go about it (breaking the stick over your thigh). As one of the posters said, communicating to him thoroughly about is important.
Good luck, I wish the best for you and your son!
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Anonymous #7
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I have a spanking fetish, I like being spanked erotically.
The messed up thing about it is that I know it was in part brought on by getting spanked when I was a child, a shroom trip pointed that one out to me.
So here's the weirdest reason to not spank your child: she may like it and develop strange tastes later in life.
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Anonymous #11
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You too! God I love being spanked! Smack my ass and my pussy clenches tight!
But I was almost never spanked as a child. Maybe two or three times max.
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Anonymous #17
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Anonymous said: i think you should have just smacked him and skipped the getting angry and acting mean part. physical pain can be extremely useful for learning, and very quickly. I don't see anything wrong with it. There may be more lasting damage associated with acting like an asshole to your kids, than there would have been if you would have just kicked their ass every once in a while.
So true.
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Anonymous #18
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Anonymous said:
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Anonymous said: i think you should have just smacked him and skipped the getting angry and acting mean part. physical pain can be extremely useful for learning, and very quickly. I don't see anything wrong with it. There may be more lasting damage associated with acting like an asshole to your kids, than there would have been if you would have just kicked their ass every once in a while.
So true.
when i grew up i ran with 4 other cousins and we were beat with belts and wooden sticks in front of everyone else.. bare assed. it was double humiliation. after a few good ass kickings with that stick... just the sight of it could stop rowdiness. lesson learned
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Anonymous #19
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Hey, how many of you anti-spankers actually have kids?
I was spanked and yelled at as a child and didn't turn out all fucked up. I discipline my son with measured physical force if necessary.
I'd like to see you idiots 'reason' and communicate the dangers of the street with a four year old.
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Anonymous #15
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As a child I got the switch.Bare butt, and told to keep my legs held up.Not very easy do as your getting hit.
Damn, my father a asshole.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said: Hey, how many of you anti-spankers actually have kids?
I was spanked and yelled at as a child and didn't turn out all fucked up. I discipline my son with measured physical force if necessary.
I'd like to see you idiots 'reason' and communicate the dangers of the street with a four year old.
Word....
A kid with his feelings hurt for a few minutes... or A dead kid in the street.....
You do the math.
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Anonymous #20
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My mother spanked me when I was a teenager, just because she was mad and wanted to humiliate me.
I'm still pissed.
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Anonymous #19
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I bet you have black fingernail polish and shop at hot topic because no one understands you, huh?
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Anonymous #1
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My mother used to beat me... She actually knocked me out once by hitting me in the head with a flash light.... I've gotten 'spankings' with wiffle ball bat, brooms, belts, shoes, extension cords, fly swawtters, switches, fishing poles, etc.. Whatever was near.. She hardly hit me with her hand because she didnt want to hurt herself... Once, at breakfast, she was pouring me some orange juice, and only gave me like, an 8th of a glass, and I said "Can I have more than that?" and she picked my glass up and chunked my orange juice in my face and said "All you ever worry about is what YOU want!"
If you ask her today, she will tell you I was a stubborn child, and was very mean to her, so I got every spanking I ever deserved...
The fact of the matter is that she was just too stupid to understand me. She didnt deserve to have me as a child. I think her father used to molest her and her sisters. She took all her issues out on me... And when I was old enough to move out of her house, I did, and never looked back... I'm okay today, but I have spent thousands in therapy over the years...
People. Please dont be abusive to your children.
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Anonymous #11
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I'm sorry these things happened to you.
But that is on such a larger scale than what this is.
I think at 4 a talk would work though. They are very capable of understanding danger. My experience is that loss of privileges (fav toys, tv off) or "time-outs" work pretty well. But in the heat of the moment, when you are scared for their safety, you work with what you have. Since this person obviously is not physically abusive, the shock to the kid of being spanked would help remind them how important it is to be careful around traffic.
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Anonymous #19
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There is a huge line between abuse and measured physical discipline. Being a responsible, loving parent means not crossing that line.
sorry if you guys were abused, but i'll spank my child if necessary, in conjunction with time-outs and item refusals.
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Anonymous #21
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breaking the stick like that was a little over the top but I am not a "spanking is never OK" person either. I got spanked a number of times and I deserved it! I think when it comes to safety issues like 4yr olds an streets it is more important that they clearly understand that there is an absolute rule that is never to be broken. That is out of fear for the safety of your child not anger.
As for all the "I hate my daddy cause he spanked me" , I don't know your situation but I'm tempted to say "buck up cry baby" One the other hand if he was a fucker who took his anger out on you then sorry cause that is abuse.
There is a difference between discipline and abuse so don't confuse them.
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Anonymous #22
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i know someone else here who used to get whipped with these
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Anonymous #22
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please sir can i have some more MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORRRRRRRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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Anonymous #23
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Anonymous said: your kid will be gay if you touch his ass too much
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Anonymous #23
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Anonymous said: breaking the stick like that was a little over the top but I am not a "spanking is never OK" person either. I got spanked a number of times and I deserved it! I think when it comes to safety issues like 4yr olds an streets it is more important that they clearly understand that there is an absolute rule that is never to be broken. That is out of fear for the safety of your child not anger.
As for all the "I hate my daddy cause he spanked me" , I don't know your situation but I'm tempted to say "buck up cry baby" One the other hand if he was a fucker who took his anger out on you then sorry cause that is abuse.
There is a difference between discipline and abuse so don't confuse them.
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