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ZippoZ
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so i love my girlfriend,
#8070633 - 02/25/08 10:48 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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i mean, yeah I love my girl! she;'s Great.
but i really hate actually saying "i love you"
i mean, its kind of like some weird game where neither of us wants to say it first.
its even funnier that she wrote in her online journal about it, which she knows i read, about how its soo odd that after 6 months (anniversary tomorrow!) i havent said it.
i was thinking maybee that ill go down to her school, and find an empty un-plowed parking lot, or field, next to one of the taller dorms, and carve our names in it inside of a big heart.
i think that would be damn romantic, dontcha think?
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Re: so i love my girlfriend, [Re: ZippoZ]
#8070662 - 02/25/08 10:53 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I bet on the truth i know that both of you would not completley agree on what "I Love you" means. If at all.
Find out by asking her what it means and talk to her about it.
Awkward things, call for straight for-ward things to become natural again.
peace to you and ease to your strenous moments.
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Re: so i love my girlfriend, [Re: ZippoZ]
#8070676 - 02/25/08 10:56 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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that would definitely get you some pussy.
i love my girl too, but we're goin through a tough time right now..
every relationship has it's ups and downs..
especially when we both go to school and work at different times which keeps us from seeing each other as much as we would like..
with homework at night and studying for tests..
gah it's stressful..
college relationships suck ass sometimes.
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Re: so i love my girlfriend, [Re: im_on_a_boat]
#8070701 - 02/25/08 11:00 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Fuck traditional relationships, just hire a prostitute.
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word.. that would be cheaper.
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Re: so i love my girlfriend, [Re: ZippoZ]
#8071098 - 02/26/08 01:00 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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You really have to feel,breathe and KNOW for a absolute fact you love her before you say it. Don't toss it around like some people do with their friends and people they know.
"OH I LOVE DANNY. HE'S SO FUNNY."
Before you say it to her, you heart should be beating faster than it ever has....not because you are scared she won't say it back....but because you know how just how much this person means to you and you'd do anything for them, and taking all of your memories, feelings, tears, and smiles and boiling it all down to three little words.
I recently just said I love you for the first time to my girlfriend three months ago or so. Before that, I never knew what love was....and neither did she. Though she thought she did with her previous boyfriend.
But man, after saying it. It felt like I could die happy at that very moment. That connection....man.
Well, good luck with your girl. I would get some of that paint for car windows and write all over her car before she uses it in the morning. With a HUGE heart in her back window with both of your names in it.
Or do a pizza with a big heart made out of pepperonis. I did that on valentines day 
Good luck my friend.
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Re: so i love my girlfriend, [Re: Chazzersize]
#8071294 - 02/26/08 02:40 AM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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Aww love is a great thing isn't it the things ya do for it I love the good times but man The bad times sure do suck.
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Re: so i love my girlfriend, [Re: Dobie]
#8072097 - 02/26/08 11:16 AM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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Tell me about it, dobbie.
I thought I knew what pain was before love. I could probably tell you it felt like getting punched right in the mouth. Maybe getting a tooth knocked out or so.
But now I know what it really feels like. A deep piercing pain in the chest that only seems to cave in your whole chest.
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Re: so i love my girlfriend, [Re: ZippoZ]
#8072225 - 02/26/08 11:47 AM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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Zippoz, I LOVE YOU! 

Hatta and I waited awhile before throwing out the L word too. And that's a good thing, it takes away a lot of the pressure of a super serious relationship in the beginning. But if she's posting about it on her blog, which she knows you read, she's obviously dropping hints. If you love her, just say it. It won't kill you. And obviously she loves you too!
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Re: so i love my girlfriend, [Re: adrug]
#8072570 - 02/26/08 01:33 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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im sure she would like that a lot
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Re: so i love my girlfriend, [Re: ZippoZ]
#8072586 - 02/26/08 01:36 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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Yeah most people say they lov each other after 3 days. Keep going! If she leaves you because you 'won't commit' then she is just another whore ready to settle down. Don't say it, bro!
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Re: so i love my girlfriend, [Re: SixCee]
#8072694 - 02/26/08 02:03 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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I don't understand, what is it? A contest for long you can go without saying "I love you"?  That's a really shitty advice you gave here. People should be able to say I love you whenever they feel like saying it.
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Re: so i love my girlfriend, [Re: MushroomTrip]
#8072876 - 02/26/08 02:45 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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From my personal experience, saying "I Love You" only felt awkward when I never meant it. When I actually loved the person it came pretty naturally. 
Maybe you don't really love her?
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Re: so i love my girlfriend, [Re: ZippoZ]
#8072940 - 02/26/08 02:55 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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if you really love her it should feel quite natural to be able to tell her how you feel. i hope you can spit it out and i wish you the best...
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Re: so i love my girlfriend, [Re: cateyes]
#8073326 - 02/26/08 04:38 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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You have to remember though, some people aren't comfortable expressing their love so openly. I can count on one hand the number of times my dad told me he loved me. And its not because he didn't, he just couldn't really say it. I'm guessing the OP might have a similar problem.
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Re: so i love my girlfriend, [Re: cateyes]
#8073348 - 02/26/08 04:43 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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What is love to all of you? Because we all talk about it here, so lets get the thing as clear for communication as we can.
The prpose of my question is to show that there is a problem telling someone that you love them, when you are not sure if they see love the same way. I think this is why mairrages break up so soon. People tend to say things that they 'agree' with, in the wrong way. As in, one person says something about themselves and the other says "Great i like that" only to find out later on that it wasnt what they meant.
Another one would be telling someone - i want to raise children with you or i want to be your husband and wife. The meanings differ between people, so lets try and commnicate with one meaning to make it simpler.
What is LOVE? ^.^;
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Re: so i love my girlfriend, [Re: JoseLibrado]
#8073349 - 02/26/08 04:44 PM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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If ya really love her then what's the problem?
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ZippoZ
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i told her that night afte we talked on the phone for like an hour, dropped it at the end.
it was nice, i think it really supprised her.
i mean, i dont really have a problem saying it, its just i have only said it to one other girl, who ended up fucking me over so royally that no one on here really knows what happened.
but its nice that its out there. im going to go see her tomorrow, im sure well have a good time.
-------------------- PEACE
zippoz "in times of widespread chaos and confusion, it has been the duty of more advanced human beings - artists, scientists, clowns, and philosophers - to create order. In such times as ours however, when there is too much order, too much m management, too much programming and control, it becomes the duty of superior men and women and women to fling their favorite monkey wrenches into the machinery. To relieve the repression of the human spirit, they must sow doubt and disruption" "People do it every day, they talk to themselves ... they see themselves as they'd like to be, they don't have the courage you have, to just run with it."
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Re: so i love my girlfriend, [Re: ZippoZ]
#8075692 - 02/27/08 01:10 AM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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hells yeah son.
i remember the first time i told my girl..
good times.
took a long time, but you gotta be sure before you go bustin that shit out.. cuz that's like.. a commitment and shit..
like, bitch.. i might marry you..
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Re: so i love my girlfriend, [Re: im_on_a_boat]
#8080868 - 02/28/08 10:13 AM (15 years, 10 months ago) |
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good luck man.
i'm on the otherside of the bridge, i auppose. i'll tell anyone i love them when i don't mean to. it's deff. just fell out of my mouth before and i usually regret it. i haven't love 3/4 of the people i have told i did.
well, sorry for the stupid story, i wish you and your lady the best
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