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Why are girls so confusing? 1
#8048286 - 02/20/08 05:17 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Is it just me or can a guy never understand what they're supposed to do? I mean, everything I try is always the wrong thing, am I the only one out there that can very rarely do the right thing?
I mean get this ...
I try to talk to her too much, she needs her space. Okay, so i don't talk to her as often (i know you all see what's coming) now we don't talk enough and things aren't the same because we don't talk as much.
UGH!!
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8048293 - 02/20/08 05:20 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Her mind wants one thing and her DNA wants another. It makes for a confusing mess.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8048303 - 02/20/08 05:22 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Women flip flop and don't know what they want until you tell/show them (in other words, man up son!).
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: bradmassive]
#8048318 - 02/20/08 05:25 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I'm afraid to man up, she's a lot smaller then me but could still probably kill me. Girls are like that though, the tiniest of them are hulks! Every time i've tried to man up it causes more problems so i tend to just back down and ignore everything now.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108] 1
#8048331 - 02/20/08 05:28 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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we're not confusing, men are just easily confused in general.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8048349 - 02/20/08 05:33 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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lennon01108 said: I'm afraid to man up, she's a lot smaller then me but could still probably kill me. Girls are like that though, the tiniest of them are hulks! Every time i've tried to man up it causes more problems so i tend to just back down and ignore everything now.
If everything you say/do is wrong why waste energy trying to be right? Just do what you do with confidence and put her in her place when she needs it. She'll soon come round if you stop caring too much about her opinion and act like a confident man who doesn't take no shit. The alternative is her walking all over your ass.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8048364 - 02/20/08 05:37 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I would not stress so much on the need of trying to understand her. Some aspects of the female psyche will always remain mysterious to men. Just relate to her. This probably applies to women as well. What do I know though, I haven't been with another girl in a couple of years.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: AlteredAgain]
#8048389 - 02/20/08 05:43 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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yea, I guess you should leave some things to our imagination, but still ... if they're doing that they shouldn't look or finds reasons so become difficult when there are no reasons. I think girls just get a kick out of it sometimes, they just are bored and decide to fuck with us.
The opinions of females here would be great. Lets debunk the mystery that is the women!
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: AlteredAgain]
#8048393 - 02/20/08 05:44 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Stick it in her pooper!
...ahem.
Yeah I haven't figured girls out by a long shot. Actually, I think I have figured them out, I just haven't figured out how that relates to me
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8048394 - 02/20/08 05:44 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Yeah, lets start now!!! Not 2000 years ago or anytime up until now, but right now!
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8048402 - 02/20/08 05:47 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Yeah man you should act as you please with only a respectful consideration to what she wants. Doing everything she says and everything she wants is obviously not making you happy. She doesn't sound happy either; women tend to not like guys who do backflips for them all day long just so they stick around. Nobody really likes hanging with somebody who does that for them.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8048403 - 02/20/08 05:47 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Well... some girls are bitches. Lots of women don't actually know what they want, and when they're faced with something that makes them unhappy they don't actually know what would make them happier.
My advice to you would be, just try to make yourself happy, don't care too much about what she thinks she wants you to do, and try to take everything she says with a grain of salt. If she has legitimate concerns with reasons to back them up, then of course try to address them, but the situation you're describing sounds like she's just picking fights without actually trying to solve anything.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8048406 - 02/20/08 05:48 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Men are logical and women are more emotional. This kinda makes it easy for women to fuck with us cause their illogical emotionality doesn't compute and fucks with our logic. 
Luckily men have a secret weapon - a highly developed back hand and bicep. 
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: bradmassive]
#8048418 - 02/20/08 05:53 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Well see, we're in a shitty long distance relationship, not the best relationship set-up, so that doesn't help the situation. We just have phone calls and see eachother once a month so it's pretty hard that way. But I totally agree with Mayfly, girls say they want one thing then when they get it there opinion or wants/needs completely change.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8048446 - 02/20/08 06:02 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Now I don't want to pigeon hole, because I know plenty of confused men out there too... but from my experience, including open discussions with female partners and friends, I am inclined to believe that a large contributing factor to a woman's seeming irrationality stems from the chemicals - gender specific concentrations of various hormones - running around in their blood and brain.
Hell if I had to bleed from my no-no every month, I could see myself getting a little crazy too! 
While similar, the sexes are a bit different. Learn to live with it, learn to love it! Don't stress yourself out so much over what other people think about you, worry more about your own personal focus and acting in a manner that you desire for yourself. Not every woman is going to be right for you (and vice versa), so if it feels wrong, move on.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: geokills]
#8053171 - 02/21/08 06:37 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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man, if this topic couldn't just go on for damn ever. have you ever noticed, no matter who you meet, how much of a damn perfect girl they seem to be, they always end up being a fuckin girl?
every time, they might seem down to earth as shit, but they're still girls dude, it'll come out sooner or later.
i don't think men are logical, and girls are emotional, i think men have no logic, and girls are emotional? get what i mean, there's still a difference.
i mean, geez, think of the fuckin bullshit.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: imachavel]
#8053187 - 02/21/08 06:40 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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i don't understand girls either... and i am one.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8053189 - 02/21/08 06:41 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Obviously, the solution is to get in touch with your feminine side and start expressing your feelings more.
Or tell her to shut the hell up and think logically.
Either way, you're screwed.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: Shroomism]
#8053209 - 02/21/08 06:47 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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They have no clue what they want either. When they think they do, they change their minds then cry. My wife is just like that, thus it is the only advice i have. She wants me to make all the decisions, but wants to get her way when she wants somthing. She wants me to take care of her, but she doesn't want to admit im in charge at home. She says she loves me, but she never wants to do it. I mean wtf. To quote Bill engvall "If it wasnt for the sex, I could be gay. Shoot then you are just hanging out with your buddies."
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: stoneage]
#8053325 - 02/21/08 07:11 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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stoneage, interesting response. can you explain a little more, you don't understand yourself? then why are you so confusing? is it sort of like... why do we do stupid things, don't know, sort of thing?
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: imachavel]
#8054804 - 02/22/08 12:00 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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...sure...i have no idea what you just said, it may be the drugs, it may be the gender. i have mostly guy friends. some of them talk about girls, and the shit they do and, i just don't understand it. i want to give advice, but i just don't know what to tell them. i'm simple. it's easier that way. no bullshit. that's it. bullshit, wtf is that anyway??@?!one!!!!11ONE!!1! haha.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: stoneage]
#8054836 - 02/22/08 12:09 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Girls piss me off sometimes with their bullshit. I have no idea why they can't just be fucking rational. It's pretty funny though, my cynical side can see the humor it causes.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8054954 - 02/22/08 12:48 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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girls are tools thats why, they have no clue wtf they are doing. if they hurt guys in the process oh well, but god forbid a guy hurts a girls feelings.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8055005 - 02/22/08 01:10 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I've never found girls confusing. Ever.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: imachavel]
#8055471 - 02/22/08 08:24 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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once you start expressing your feelings you become TOO sensitive or TOO CLINGY or something along those lines. There seems to be a very VERY fine line between what a girl wants and what is too far.
"every time, they might seem down to earth as shit, but they're still girls dude, it'll come out sooner or later."
absolutely agree with 100% shit changes all the time no matter what the situation and it sucks, it's as if your conned into the relationship then it pulls a complete 180.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8055482 - 02/22/08 08:30 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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my girlfriend told me that every girl has this fantasy of what their perfect relationship is...and if you wanna know what that fantasy is, just watch disney movies. little mermaid, cinderella, etc. If any single detail isnt perfect they act weird.
theyre W A R P E D. Totally superficial, dependent creatures. but it's not their fault. o well.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8055486 - 02/22/08 08:30 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Its only confusing if you try to play their games. You have to get them on the defensive- constantly move, subtly manipulate, keep them guessing. If you play the doting lover, they will get bored quickly. The doting lover thing is for later, when the relationship is settled and games are at the minimum. As long as you're a skilled manipulator you shouldn't have any problems. When she's like, "we don't talk as much anymore, things aren't the same", one of the worst things you can respond with is "okay baby I'm sorry, I'll call you more often". Just be like "well, why don't you call me more? I DO have a phone afterall". Just let them know that their games aren't going to be played by you, without actually straight out telling them so. Create your own game.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: DragonChaser]
#8055596 - 02/22/08 09:15 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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a true partnership happens when a man and woman relate to each other without compromising their own individuality. therefore standing on your own ground is indeed important. stable relationships rarely ever last when they're based on co-dependence.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: AlteredAgain]
#8055628 - 02/22/08 09:29 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I've been shit on (figuratively) by two girls that I cared deeply for... After that, I just decided to have fun relationships, that I viewed more as swordfights than relationships (for a time anyway. Eventually I hope I will really care about someone again). While we might not actually be fighting, I am constantly trying to outmanuever the other person, block parry attack, whatever. Then, playing that game with two or three girls? It gets to be exhilerating. Some people might call me a douche for that, but the girls that I date are the type that would play games with you if you let them. The type that I like to keep at a "swords distance" emotionally anyway. Relationships can really be fun, especially in your late teens early 20s. I see all my friends trying to have these really serious relationships, and constantly fretting about something, or fighting, and it never stops. I say screw that, I'm going to dance with all of these girls, they're going to love it and I'm going to move on. I hear girls say that love is fleeting, and there's no such thing as love, based on their little 20 years of existence and several failed high school relationships. I'd love to get them to fall for me, show them that love is real, but then direct them to find it somewhere else. Or at least, I used to. I've toned it down some as not to be overly mean or heartless about it. But I guess my point is, why try to have serious relationships, unless you're older and emotionally capable of having a mature relationship with someone of an equal maturity level? Being a college student, I think my chances of finding "true love" right now are somewhat slim, so I just concentrate on trying to be a modern day Casanova.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: DragonChaser]
#8055734 - 02/22/08 10:02 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I have noticed that most arguments come from something she doesn't like or doesn't want to deal with. Something that I did a way she did not want or something I did that came out wrong.
I rarely find a reason to start a debate that could cause an argument. But her starting conversations with me have lead to arguments.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: imachavel]
#8055786 - 02/22/08 10:16 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Women are the NIgger of the world...
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: AlteredAgain]
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Very few voices of reason in this thread, you're one of them. I can't believe how jaded and/or pissed off so many guys are. Unbelievable! Even in my own group of male friends that I've known for a decade or longer, a few of them seem to harbor some weird hostility toward the opposite sex that I just can't for the life of me understand. I do realize we all get hurt, and there is seldom a pain more confusing and visceral than that spawned from a failing relationship (particularly the first ones). But with a persistently negative attitude and little tolerance for differences, it's a wonder some people even have a hope for a healthy relationship in the future. In short, get positive and come to terms with your own insecurities. Always complaining will get you no where.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: geokills]
#8056056 - 02/22/08 11:30 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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No reason to be jaded or pissed... Women are the most beautiful, wonderful thing on the planet. You just have to learn how to play with them right.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: geokills]
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geokills said: Very few voices of reason in this thread, you're one of them. I can't believe how jaded and/or pissed off so many guys are. Unbelievable! Even in my own group of male friends that I've known for a decade or longer, a few of them seem to harbor some weird hostility toward the opposite sex that I just can't for the life of me understand. I do realize we all get hurt, and there is seldom a pain more confusing and visceral than that spawned from a failing relationship (particularly the first ones). But with a persistently negative attitude and little tolerance for differences, it's a wonder some people even have a hope for a healthy relationship in the future. In short, get positive and come to terms with your own insecurities. Always complaining will get you no where.
..... shit, we already got one being a bitch dude, i've never dealt with more messed up confusing shit from people before, never fuckin makes sense, from my mom, to every girl i liked, i mean fuckin geez. you're going to tell me chicks aren't confusing?
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: imachavel]
#8056796 - 02/22/08 02:44 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Of course not. Simply being human puts us at a huge risk of being confused. 
All I was addressing in my above post is that many of the participants in this thread are using it to bitch and moan about women (which is fine), and I'm just suggesting they take a step back and instead of trying to place blame outside of themselves, realize that there's a good chance someone else finds them just as confusing and/or asinine. Lighten up my man, most things in this world don't make a lot of sense, you just have to do what you can do for yourself, and nuts to worrying about the things that are beyond your control!
Just trying to inject something a little less misogynous to this thread is all.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: imachavel]
#8056797 - 02/22/08 02:44 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I think Geo is saying that holding grudges about the way women may make you feel will not do anything of favor.
Yes, they can be confusing. Yes, they can even be crazy. But so can men.
I've heard of women wanting to pull their hair out over their spouse's straight logical rational ways. There are women who cannot understand why guys mostly think everything needs to be approached with a fix-it solve-it attitude.
It's really all in the eye of the beholder.
I'm telling you the best way to approach dilemmas of the opposite sex is to take a good look at yourself and your values and beliefs. And talk. Talk with your woman. It's less about what you say than how you say it.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: AlteredAgain]
#8056807 - 02/22/08 02:47 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Yea man, you feel me!.. and I don't mean in my special place!
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: geokills]
#8056808 - 02/22/08 02:47 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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geokills said: Of course not. Simply being human puts us at a huge risk of being confused. 
All I was addressing in my above post is that many of the participants in this thread are using it to bitch and moan about women (which is fine), and I'm just suggesting they take a step back and instead of trying to place blame outside of themselves, realize that there's a good chance someone else finds them just as confusing and/or asinine. Lighten up my man, most things in this world don't make a lot of sense, you just have to do what you can do for yourself, and nuts to worrying about the things that are beyond your control!
Just trying to inject something a little less misogynous to this thread is all.
shit, here we go... it's about that time of the month again, god damn grab a plug we got a leak (just kidding)
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: imachavel]
#8056870 - 02/22/08 03:01 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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You sound like the voice of reason...except girls really are crazy. Alot of em anyways.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: g00ru]
#8056889 - 02/22/08 03:04 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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There are more crazy ones then sane ones, The perfect girl would probably be the one who means what she says and says what she means, no tricks. Someone that lays out everything truthfully with no strings attached or trap doors to fall through.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: AlteredAgain]
#8056897 - 02/22/08 03:05 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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AlteredAgain said: Talk with your woman. It's less about what you say than how you say it.
Fuck that pussy-whipped bullshit. So now I gotta sugar-coat everything I say to a woman because it might 'hurt her feelings' or' make her all 'emotional'? I'm sick and tired of how emasculated this god damn generation of men has become.
Its the reason why emoism is now the fashion, its the reason the gay's own the fashion industry and its the reason women are become more bitchy, demanding and indecisive. Its simply because men are no longer acting like men anymore, they're acting like little pussies. Man-Up America!
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8056910 - 02/22/08 03:09 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Well yes, that's what everyone would be like in an ideal world. There are a lot of crazies though...
The whole "oh woe is me, girls are all just crazy and that's why I'm incapable of having a healthy relationship with them" attitude that's been going through this thread is pretty pathetic though. Maybe try taking some responsibility?
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: AlteredAgain]
#8056911 - 02/22/08 03:09 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Confusing seems to be a subjective term.
If you don't try to figure it out, you have nothing to be confused about.
If you do try to figure it out, why the heck are you wondering why you're confused? It's obvious.
I think a great example of how we confuse ourselves is the general love of drugs here. Why do we do them? If it is for insight, why do we need to drugs to find out about ourselves? Is it because we are confusing? If it's for escape, why do we need to escape? Is it because we're confused as to why we're in our current situation and can't figure our way out of it?
I could continue on, but my point is, no matter how much we know, we will never know everything. This leads to confusion if we think we can know everything.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: bradmassive]
#8056940 - 02/22/08 03:15 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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bradmassive said:
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AlteredAgain said: Talk with your woman. It's less about what you say than how you say it.
Fuck that pussy-whipped bullshit. So now I gotta sugar-coat everything I say to a woman because it might 'hurt her feelings' or' make her all 'emotional'? I'm sick and tired of how emasculated this god damn generation of men has become.
Its the reason why emoism is now the fashion, its the reason the gay's own the fashion industry and its the reason women are become more bitchy, demanding and indecisive. Its simply because men are no longer acting like men anymore, they're acting like little pussies. Man-Up America!
/end rant
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: g00ru]
#8056951 - 02/22/08 03:17 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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guruu said:
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bradmassive said:
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AlteredAgain said: Talk with your woman. It's less about what you say than how you say it.
Fuck that pussy-whipped bullshit. So now I gotta sugar-coat everything I say to a woman because it might 'hurt her feelings' or' make her all 'emotional'? I'm sick and tired of how emasculated this god damn generation of men has become.
Its the reason why emoism is now the fashion, its the reason the gay's own the fashion industry and its the reason women are become more bitchy, demanding and indecisive. Its simply because men are no longer acting like men anymore, they're acting like little pussies. Man-Up America!
/end rant
Get that bitch in line!
Damn right! With the back of your hand if necessary!
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: bradmassive]
#8057012 - 02/22/08 03:31 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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sounds like you just need to fuck your girl really good. its mother nature that all girls love to fuck. all that other bullshit wont matter if you are good in the sack. women need dick just like you need pussy. remember the dick runs things, if you lay pipe right your girl will put up with almost any bullshit on your part.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: rickpsfuckyou]
#8057044 - 02/22/08 03:36 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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This thread is pretty much both parties spitting out sweeping generalizations.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: frisky_]
#8057054 - 02/22/08 03:38 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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It's also a thread in a forum consisting for the most part of
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: AlteredAgain]
#8057072 - 02/22/08 03:41 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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AlteredAgain said: It's also a thread in a forum consisting for the most part of
Oh yes, I see that as well.
A bunch of men bitching about women.
Its kind of funny to me.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: rickpsfuckyou]
#8057196 - 02/22/08 04:09 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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rickpsfuckyou said: its mother nature that all girls love to fuck. all that other bullshit wont matter if you are good in the sack. women need dick just like you need pussy. remember the dick runs things, if you lay pipe right your girl will put up with almost any bullshit on your part.
Thats what I've bin suggestin all the time dude!
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: frisky_]
#8057200 - 02/22/08 04:10 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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frisky_ said: This thread is pretty much both parties spitting out sweeping generalizations.
There are two 'general' sides to every coin and its the same with humanity. I welcome any woman to give there opinion here.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: rexmundi]
#8058795 - 02/22/08 11:23 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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rexmundi said: They date you, they try to change you. It works and they complain you aren't the guy they fell in love with.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: trscstghst]
#8058830 - 02/22/08 11:45 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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errr fuck em you yup \
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8058847 - 02/22/08 11:50 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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dont take them seriously.
best advice you could get the vast majority of women.and no your girl isnt in the coveted minority because you made this thread.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: buckwheat]
#8058936 - 02/23/08 12:26 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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you are right, guys nowadays act like total puppets of pussy. i sure as hell aint, ive learned my lessons.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8058943 - 02/23/08 12:28 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Spit your game son, treat her like any other bitch, don't give her that shitty/creepy way 'cos she's "different". Works every time.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: bradmassive]
#8058962 - 02/23/08 12:39 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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bradmassive said:
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AlteredAgain said: Talk with your woman. It's less about what you say than how you say it.
Fuck that pussy-whipped bullshit. So now I gotta sugar-coat everything I say to a woman because it might 'hurt her feelings' or' make her all 'emotional'? I'm sick and tired of how emasculated this god damn generation of men has become.
Its the reason why emoism is now the fashion, its the reason the gay's own the fashion industry and its the reason women are become more bitchy, demanding and indecisive. Its simply because men are no longer acting like men anymore, they're acting like little pussies. Man-Up America!
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8059066 - 02/23/08 01:30 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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here's a question. so what do you do if youre in a long distance relationship and your girl starts to feel that you dont need her anymore and talking it out didnt work cause she wouldnt accept any understanding on your part? youre graduating univ in two months and planning to move in with her afterwards, but then you realize that all of her negativity is making you aware that you really dont need her in any sort of dependency setting but only because you love her and enjoy her company.
is that not enough for women? or do i still misunderstand her problem?
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8059072 - 02/23/08 01:34 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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lennon01108 said: Is it just me or can a guy never understand what they're supposed to do?
i haven't been in a relationship in a while...but i remember that i almost always knew what to do. it was pretty easy keeping them happy...but it sure was fun sometimes acting like i didn't know what to do just to piss them off, lol.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: LayYouIn]
#8060443 - 02/23/08 01:25 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108] 1
#27042996 - 11/16/20 09:22 PM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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maybe don't phrase questions about your relationships in the fictitious paradigm of gender binary. nobody owes anyone anything. like, you're on this site. lol creativity evades some
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: Learyfan]
#27042998 - 11/16/20 09:24 PM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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pls die
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#27043000 - 11/16/20 09:25 PM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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yu are filth
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: bradmassive]
#27043006 - 11/16/20 09:28 PM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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men logic - make pesticides and war, die bein a big ol boy
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: mdiar] 5
#27043059 - 11/16/20 09:57 PM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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Lmao what just happened in this thread
Is this a weird puppet or did some really register JUST bc they were so pissed about OP saying girls are confusing TWELVE YEARS AGO that they NEEDED to say "die" ??
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: morrowasted]
#27043157 - 11/17/20 12:34 AM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: Northerner]
#27043200 - 11/17/20 01:33 AM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: mdiar] 3
#27043344 - 11/17/20 06:38 AM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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mdiar said: men logic - make pesticides and war, die bein a big ol boy
Oops, there's that fictitious gender binary again.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: mdiar]
#27043518 - 11/17/20 09:20 AM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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mdiar said: maybe don't phrase questions about your relationships in the fictitious paradigm of gender binary. nobody owes anyone anything. like, you're on this site. lol creativity evades some
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mdiar said: men logic - make pesticides and war, die bein a big ol boy
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: yeah]
#27044026 - 11/17/20 03:07 PM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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Women aren't confusing. They're stupid and I'm an asshole.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: mdiar] 1
#27044081 - 11/17/20 03:45 PM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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mdiar said: maybe don't phrase questions about your relationships in the fictitious paradigm of gender binary. nobody owes anyone anything. like, you're on this site. lol creativity evades some
Solid first post
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: mongo lloyd]
#27044223 - 11/17/20 04:49 PM (3 years, 2 months ago) |
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Already banned though
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