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stoneage
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: imachavel]
#8054804 - 02/22/08 12:00 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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...sure...i have no idea what you just said, it may be the drugs, it may be the gender. i have mostly guy friends. some of them talk about girls, and the shit they do and, i just don't understand it. i want to give advice, but i just don't know what to tell them. i'm simple. it's easier that way. no bullshit. that's it. bullshit, wtf is that anyway??@?!one!!!!11ONE!!1! haha.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: stoneage]
#8054836 - 02/22/08 12:09 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Girls piss me off sometimes with their bullshit. I have no idea why they can't just be fucking rational. It's pretty funny though, my cynical side can see the humor it causes.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8054954 - 02/22/08 12:48 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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girls are tools thats why, they have no clue wtf they are doing. if they hurt guys in the process oh well, but god forbid a guy hurts a girls feelings.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8055005 - 02/22/08 01:10 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I've never found girls confusing. Ever.
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They date you, they try to change you. It works and they complain you aren't the guy they fell in love with.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: imachavel]
#8055471 - 02/22/08 08:24 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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once you start expressing your feelings you become TOO sensitive or TOO CLINGY or something along those lines. There seems to be a very VERY fine line between what a girl wants and what is too far.
"every time, they might seem down to earth as shit, but they're still girls dude, it'll come out sooner or later."
absolutely agree with 100% shit changes all the time no matter what the situation and it sucks, it's as if your conned into the relationship then it pulls a complete 180.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8055482 - 02/22/08 08:30 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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my girlfriend told me that every girl has this fantasy of what their perfect relationship is...and if you wanna know what that fantasy is, just watch disney movies. little mermaid, cinderella, etc. If any single detail isnt perfect they act weird.
theyre W A R P E D. Totally superficial, dependent creatures. but it's not their fault. o well.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8055486 - 02/22/08 08:30 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Its only confusing if you try to play their games. You have to get them on the defensive- constantly move, subtly manipulate, keep them guessing. If you play the doting lover, they will get bored quickly. The doting lover thing is for later, when the relationship is settled and games are at the minimum. As long as you're a skilled manipulator you shouldn't have any problems. When she's like, "we don't talk as much anymore, things aren't the same", one of the worst things you can respond with is "okay baby I'm sorry, I'll call you more often". Just be like "well, why don't you call me more? I DO have a phone afterall". Just let them know that their games aren't going to be played by you, without actually straight out telling them so. Create your own game.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: DragonChaser]
#8055596 - 02/22/08 09:15 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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a true partnership happens when a man and woman relate to each other without compromising their own individuality. therefore standing on your own ground is indeed important. stable relationships rarely ever last when they're based on co-dependence.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: AlteredAgain]
#8055628 - 02/22/08 09:29 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I've been shit on (figuratively) by two girls that I cared deeply for... After that, I just decided to have fun relationships, that I viewed more as swordfights than relationships (for a time anyway. Eventually I hope I will really care about someone again). While we might not actually be fighting, I am constantly trying to outmanuever the other person, block parry attack, whatever. Then, playing that game with two or three girls? It gets to be exhilerating. Some people might call me a douche for that, but the girls that I date are the type that would play games with you if you let them. The type that I like to keep at a "swords distance" emotionally anyway. Relationships can really be fun, especially in your late teens early 20s. I see all my friends trying to have these really serious relationships, and constantly fretting about something, or fighting, and it never stops. I say screw that, I'm going to dance with all of these girls, they're going to love it and I'm going to move on. I hear girls say that love is fleeting, and there's no such thing as love, based on their little 20 years of existence and several failed high school relationships. I'd love to get them to fall for me, show them that love is real, but then direct them to find it somewhere else. Or at least, I used to. I've toned it down some as not to be overly mean or heartless about it. But I guess my point is, why try to have serious relationships, unless you're older and emotionally capable of having a mature relationship with someone of an equal maturity level? Being a college student, I think my chances of finding "true love" right now are somewhat slim, so I just concentrate on trying to be a modern day Casanova.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: DragonChaser]
#8055734 - 02/22/08 10:02 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I have noticed that most arguments come from something she doesn't like or doesn't want to deal with. Something that I did a way she did not want or something I did that came out wrong.
I rarely find a reason to start a debate that could cause an argument. But her starting conversations with me have lead to arguments.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: imachavel]
#8055786 - 02/22/08 10:16 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Women are the NIgger of the world...
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: AlteredAgain]
#8055823 - 02/22/08 10:24 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Very few voices of reason in this thread, you're one of them. I can't believe how jaded and/or pissed off so many guys are. Unbelievable! Even in my own group of male friends that I've known for a decade or longer, a few of them seem to harbor some weird hostility toward the opposite sex that I just can't for the life of me understand. I do realize we all get hurt, and there is seldom a pain more confusing and visceral than that spawned from a failing relationship (particularly the first ones). But with a persistently negative attitude and little tolerance for differences, it's a wonder some people even have a hope for a healthy relationship in the future. In short, get positive and come to terms with your own insecurities. Always complaining will get you no where.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: geokills]
#8056056 - 02/22/08 11:30 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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No reason to be jaded or pissed... Women are the most beautiful, wonderful thing on the planet. You just have to learn how to play with them right.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: geokills]
#8056733 - 02/22/08 02:29 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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geokills said: Very few voices of reason in this thread, you're one of them. I can't believe how jaded and/or pissed off so many guys are. Unbelievable! Even in my own group of male friends that I've known for a decade or longer, a few of them seem to harbor some weird hostility toward the opposite sex that I just can't for the life of me understand. I do realize we all get hurt, and there is seldom a pain more confusing and visceral than that spawned from a failing relationship (particularly the first ones). But with a persistently negative attitude and little tolerance for differences, it's a wonder some people even have a hope for a healthy relationship in the future. In short, get positive and come to terms with your own insecurities. Always complaining will get you no where.
..... shit, we already got one being a bitch dude, i've never dealt with more messed up confusing shit from people before, never fuckin makes sense, from my mom, to every girl i liked, i mean fuckin geez. you're going to tell me chicks aren't confusing?
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: imachavel]
#8056796 - 02/22/08 02:44 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Of course not. Simply being human puts us at a huge risk of being confused. 
All I was addressing in my above post is that many of the participants in this thread are using it to bitch and moan about women (which is fine), and I'm just suggesting they take a step back and instead of trying to place blame outside of themselves, realize that there's a good chance someone else finds them just as confusing and/or asinine. Lighten up my man, most things in this world don't make a lot of sense, you just have to do what you can do for yourself, and nuts to worrying about the things that are beyond your control!
Just trying to inject something a little less misogynous to this thread is all.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: imachavel]
#8056797 - 02/22/08 02:44 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I think Geo is saying that holding grudges about the way women may make you feel will not do anything of favor.
Yes, they can be confusing. Yes, they can even be crazy. But so can men.
I've heard of women wanting to pull their hair out over their spouse's straight logical rational ways. There are women who cannot understand why guys mostly think everything needs to be approached with a fix-it solve-it attitude.
It's really all in the eye of the beholder.
I'm telling you the best way to approach dilemmas of the opposite sex is to take a good look at yourself and your values and beliefs. And talk. Talk with your woman. It's less about what you say than how you say it.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: AlteredAgain]
#8056807 - 02/22/08 02:47 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Yea man, you feel me!.. and I don't mean in my special place!
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: geokills]
#8056808 - 02/22/08 02:47 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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geokills said: Of course not. Simply being human puts us at a huge risk of being confused. 
All I was addressing in my above post is that many of the participants in this thread are using it to bitch and moan about women (which is fine), and I'm just suggesting they take a step back and instead of trying to place blame outside of themselves, realize that there's a good chance someone else finds them just as confusing and/or asinine. Lighten up my man, most things in this world don't make a lot of sense, you just have to do what you can do for yourself, and nuts to worrying about the things that are beyond your control!
Just trying to inject something a little less misogynous to this thread is all.
shit, here we go... it's about that time of the month again, god damn grab a plug we got a leak (just kidding)
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: imachavel]
#8056870 - 02/22/08 03:01 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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You sound like the voice of reason...except girls really are crazy. Alot of em anyways.
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