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lennon01108
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Why are girls so confusing? 1
#8048286 - 02/20/08 05:17 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Is it just me or can a guy never understand what they're supposed to do? I mean, everything I try is always the wrong thing, am I the only one out there that can very rarely do the right thing?
I mean get this ...
I try to talk to her too much, she needs her space. Okay, so i don't talk to her as often (i know you all see what's coming) now we don't talk enough and things aren't the same because we don't talk as much.
UGH!!
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8048293 - 02/20/08 05:20 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Her mind wants one thing and her DNA wants another. It makes for a confusing mess.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8048303 - 02/20/08 05:22 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Women flip flop and don't know what they want until you tell/show them (in other words, man up son!).
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: bradmassive]
#8048318 - 02/20/08 05:25 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I'm afraid to man up, she's a lot smaller then me but could still probably kill me. Girls are like that though, the tiniest of them are hulks! Every time i've tried to man up it causes more problems so i tend to just back down and ignore everything now.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108] 1
#8048331 - 02/20/08 05:28 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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we're not confusing, men are just easily confused in general.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8048349 - 02/20/08 05:33 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Quote:
lennon01108 said: I'm afraid to man up, she's a lot smaller then me but could still probably kill me. Girls are like that though, the tiniest of them are hulks! Every time i've tried to man up it causes more problems so i tend to just back down and ignore everything now.
If everything you say/do is wrong why waste energy trying to be right? Just do what you do with confidence and put her in her place when she needs it. She'll soon come round if you stop caring too much about her opinion and act like a confident man who doesn't take no shit. The alternative is her walking all over your ass.
Edited by bradmassive (02/20/08 05:54 PM)
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8048364 - 02/20/08 05:37 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I would not stress so much on the need of trying to understand her. Some aspects of the female psyche will always remain mysterious to men. Just relate to her. This probably applies to women as well. What do I know though, I haven't been with another girl in a couple of years.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: AlteredAgain]
#8048389 - 02/20/08 05:43 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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yea, I guess you should leave some things to our imagination, but still ... if they're doing that they shouldn't look or finds reasons so become difficult when there are no reasons. I think girls just get a kick out of it sometimes, they just are bored and decide to fuck with us.
The opinions of females here would be great. Lets debunk the mystery that is the women!
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: AlteredAgain]
#8048393 - 02/20/08 05:44 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Stick it in her pooper!
...ahem.
Yeah I haven't figured girls out by a long shot. Actually, I think I have figured them out, I just haven't figured out how that relates to me
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8048394 - 02/20/08 05:44 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Yeah, lets start now!!! Not 2000 years ago or anytime up until now, but right now!
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8048402 - 02/20/08 05:47 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Yeah man you should act as you please with only a respectful consideration to what she wants. Doing everything she says and everything she wants is obviously not making you happy. She doesn't sound happy either; women tend to not like guys who do backflips for them all day long just so they stick around. Nobody really likes hanging with somebody who does that for them.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8048403 - 02/20/08 05:47 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Well... some girls are bitches. Lots of women don't actually know what they want, and when they're faced with something that makes them unhappy they don't actually know what would make them happier.
My advice to you would be, just try to make yourself happy, don't care too much about what she thinks she wants you to do, and try to take everything she says with a grain of salt. If she has legitimate concerns with reasons to back them up, then of course try to address them, but the situation you're describing sounds like she's just picking fights without actually trying to solve anything.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8048406 - 02/20/08 05:48 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Men are logical and women are more emotional. This kinda makes it easy for women to fuck with us cause their illogical emotionality doesn't compute and fucks with our logic. 
Luckily men have a secret weapon - a highly developed back hand and bicep. 
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: bradmassive]
#8048418 - 02/20/08 05:53 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Well see, we're in a shitty long distance relationship, not the best relationship set-up, so that doesn't help the situation. We just have phone calls and see eachother once a month so it's pretty hard that way. But I totally agree with Mayfly, girls say they want one thing then when they get it there opinion or wants/needs completely change.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8048446 - 02/20/08 06:02 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Now I don't want to pigeon hole, because I know plenty of confused men out there too... but from my experience, including open discussions with female partners and friends, I am inclined to believe that a large contributing factor to a woman's seeming irrationality stems from the chemicals - gender specific concentrations of various hormones - running around in their blood and brain.
Hell if I had to bleed from my no-no every month, I could see myself getting a little crazy too! 
While similar, the sexes are a bit different. Learn to live with it, learn to love it! Don't stress yourself out so much over what other people think about you, worry more about your own personal focus and acting in a manner that you desire for yourself. Not every woman is going to be right for you (and vice versa), so if it feels wrong, move on.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: geokills]
#8053171 - 02/21/08 06:37 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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man, if this topic couldn't just go on for damn ever. have you ever noticed, no matter who you meet, how much of a damn perfect girl they seem to be, they always end up being a fuckin girl?
every time, they might seem down to earth as shit, but they're still girls dude, it'll come out sooner or later.
i don't think men are logical, and girls are emotional, i think men have no logic, and girls are emotional? get what i mean, there's still a difference.
i mean, geez, think of the fuckin bullshit.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: imachavel]
#8053187 - 02/21/08 06:40 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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i don't understand girls either... and i am one.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: lennon01108]
#8053189 - 02/21/08 06:41 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Obviously, the solution is to get in touch with your feminine side and start expressing your feelings more.
Or tell her to shut the hell up and think logically.
Either way, you're screwed.
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: Shroomism]
#8053209 - 02/21/08 06:47 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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They have no clue what they want either. When they think they do, they change their minds then cry. My wife is just like that, thus it is the only advice i have. She wants me to make all the decisions, but wants to get her way when she wants somthing. She wants me to take care of her, but she doesn't want to admit im in charge at home. She says she loves me, but she never wants to do it. I mean wtf. To quote Bill engvall "If it wasnt for the sex, I could be gay. Shoot then you are just hanging out with your buddies."
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Re: Why are girls so confusing? [Re: stoneage]
#8053325 - 02/21/08 07:11 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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stoneage, interesting response. can you explain a little more, you don't understand yourself? then why are you so confusing? is it sort of like... why do we do stupid things, don't know, sort of thing?
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