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OfflineRainman420
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Need some advice
    #8046755 - 02/20/08 11:03 AM (15 years, 11 months ago)

Well, there is this girl I work with that I used to not really be attracted to(I probably smoked too much weed). But in the past month I have started to understand some things about life and I find myself coming to terms with my own failures, romantically. I have started to get the feeling that she's into me because every time we talk at work we just laugh and have a great time talking about stuff, it just seems to click. But I can't tell if she's just being nice or if thats just her personality. I am more the nice guy type. But I had a dream last night where I was in my room. I got up like any other day and walked into my bathroom, my brother's room is on the other side of the bathroom, our rooms are connected by the bathrooms. then she walks into the bathroom and I'm like hey. Feeling surprised that I saw her in my house. But it turns out she was living with me. I have been more and more interested now with her. The dream i guess just signifies that I really like her. But would it be strange to ask her out after knowing her for almost a year and doing nothing romantic with her? I really like this girl, she is just filled with energy and life. She doesn't do drugs too, which is probly the type of girl i need. I need to get straight.


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From bondage to spiritual faith;
From spiritual faith to great courage;
From courage to liberty;
From liberty to abundance;
From abundance to selfishness;
From selfishness to complacency;
From complacency to apathy;
From apathy to dependence;
From dependence back into bondage.


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Re: Need some advice [Re: Rainman420]
    #8046809 - 02/20/08 11:17 AM (15 years, 11 months ago)

Give it a shot man,
you never know till you try.
good luck.
Peace


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Re: Need some advice [Re: Rainman420]
    #8046814 - 02/20/08 11:17 AM (15 years, 11 months ago)

Find out what she's interested in, then talk to her about it.
If she likes you, she'll be happy to carry on a conversation.
Be willing to volunteer information about yourself - this aids in them being able to trust you more.
Trust is very important to a woman - if she doesn't feel it, she won't open up to you.


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Re: Need some advice [Re: Rainman420]
    #8046822 - 02/20/08 11:18 AM (15 years, 11 months ago)

I would say definitely go for it. You don't have to make it a big thing, just casually ask her if she would like to do something sometime.
Or, if she likes the kind of guys who take charge, go up and demand her to let you buy her dinner.
If she laughs and talks with you at work, then she definitely isn't disgusted or repelled by you, and she's probably thought about the prospect of you two dating before as well.
Probably the most important reason to do it though, is if you don't you'll just wonder. And the dreams might get more frequent and worse.
I support your decision to mack on this chick.


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Re: Need some advice [Re: Rainman420]
    #8046875 - 02/20/08 11:31 AM (15 years, 11 months ago)

Nothing strange.

You built the foundations.

Now for the test.

Ask her over for something regular that wouldn't seem romantic but has the possibility.  After work drink or something.

If she makes her excuses then forget it.

If she can arrange a time to come then game on.  If she comes round just let the night progress naturally and turn it into something good
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Re: Need some advice [Re: Humble lurker]
    #8047056 - 02/20/08 12:20 PM (15 years, 11 months ago)

thanks, i think next time we work im just going to ask her if she wants to go out to dinner. Would that be a step in the right direction?


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The average age of the world's greatest civilizations from the beginning of history has been about 200 years. During those 200 years, these nations always progressed through the following sequence:

From bondage to spiritual faith;
From spiritual faith to great courage;
From courage to liberty;
From liberty to abundance;
From abundance to selfishness;
From selfishness to complacency;
From complacency to apathy;
From apathy to dependence;
From dependence back into bondage.


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Re: Need some advice [Re: Rainman420]
    #8047088 - 02/20/08 12:28 PM (15 years, 11 months ago)

When i met my wife, i was the biggest druggie ever. My wife on the other hand had never even thought about doing anything further than drinking 2 beers.
I think that was a real turn on to me, because she didn't need anything to have a good time. At first i asked her out for some ice cream at the local shop, we hit it off faster than i thought.
I needed someone to settle me down, and she needed someone to make her more adventurous. We are really different from each other, but we have been married for 6 years now and are doing great.
You have to take that first step, ask her out man! Even tho you are different does not mean a thing. Be honest with her about things and just have a good time. It might work out and it might not. But at least then you will have tried.


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"I am free, no matter what rules surround me. If I find them tolerable, I tolerate them; if I find them too obnoxious, I break them.
I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do." -Robert A. Heinlein

"There is no need for temples, no need for complicated philosophies.
My brain and my heart are my temples; my philosophy is kindness."-Dalai Lama

Live long and prosper.



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