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Re: A questions for males... [Re: Yoschie99]
#8025042 - 02/14/08 10:50 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Yoschie99 said: I think that when the time is right, I'll make a good father.. and that i'll have awesome kid(s).
time wasnt right but things are working out just fine for me, I have 2 a boy and a girl, they are the most important part of my life, my intention is to raise them like I was raised, less the abusive alcoholic stepfather. my wife and I divorced, unfortunately it's joint custody with a neglectful control freak, the silver lining is that they're right next door so I can worry less.
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DoltishVirtuoso said: I don't think anyone is ever full prepared to have a child
I'm 40, have 2 kids, 3 and 4. I'm still not prepared
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Re: A questions for males... [Re: Prisoner#1]
#8025082 - 02/14/08 10:55 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I'm only 19, and as the dude from knocked up said I'm just getting used to the idea that any woman would even sleep with me, but honestly having kids is something that I know for a fact I'm gonna do. I miss my childhood, and the only way I can ever see it again is to have kids of my own. Not yet though 
And I'm not ashamed to admit that when I say I want kids, I mean I want a male baby. It's not a sexist impulse, I'd really just prefer to have a boy.
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Re: A questions for males... [Re: g00ru]
#8025094 - 02/14/08 10:58 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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What I'm looking forward to also is how it will change my outlook. I know enough right now to know that I don't know shit, and that applies to kids as well. I simply have no idea what the experience of creating a human being would be like. I have a feeling that it shifts priorities in a way that I can't really imagine, and that I will see my own parents and what they did for me in a completely different light.
Kind of like before you trip you have no way of knowing what it's like, and all of a sudden you remember what people told you about tripping and it's like "oooooooh THAT'S what they meant!"
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Kids would fuck up my retirement plan, which is:
no kids = more money for me = more time to not have to do the 9 to 5
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Re: A question for males... [Re: LayYouIn]
#8025120 - 02/14/08 11:04 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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of course. to both questions.
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Re: A question for males... [Re: LayYouIn]
#8025136 - 02/14/08 11:07 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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i do not want kids. later on down the road when i am old and gray, with no one to take care of me i may regret not having kids. and i may change my mind somewhere along the way. but at the moment, hell no. i could only imagine what kind of demonic hell spawn my offspring would be.
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Re: A question for males... [Re: wrestler_az]
#8025149 - 02/14/08 11:10 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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i have some friends (girls) who were absolutely dying to have kids as soon as possible and managed to get knocked up around the age of 18. their lives are an absolute mess now because of their kids.
i don't know how people can be so fucking dumb about having children. people think that having a baby will be like getting a puppy or something.
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Re: A question for males... [Re: LayYouIn]
#8025152 - 02/14/08 11:11 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I want kids. Just from being an uncle I've remembered what it was like to be young. How certain characteristics never go away. I feel like I'll be missing out on a big part of life If I don't see the growing up process from a different perspective.
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Re: A question for males... [Re: LayYouIn]
#8025803 - 02/15/08 02:53 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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no i don't want children... thank god me and my girl are on the same page on this issue
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Re: A question for males... [Re: LayYouIn]
#8025844 - 02/15/08 03:34 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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sometimes i think about it, but i never want to because i'd be a terrible father i think. i don't want to fuck up a kid like i was fucked up. plus this world is just to shitty to bring more children into. at least i won't anyways.
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Re: A questions for males... [Re: appleorange]
#8025849 - 02/15/08 03:42 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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appleorange said:
i do not want to have kids until I have my philosophies/outlooks on life fine-tuned though. i don't see how anybody could have a child when they themselves are still confused and asking questions.
if you think that one day you won't be confused and asking questions, then it sounds you're still a kid yourself.
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Re: A question for males... [Re: LayYouIn]
#8025850 - 02/15/08 03:44 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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fuck yeah i want kids man, i just gotta find a girl that has the same views as me and wouldn't be to hard on are kids, i had a fucking shitty abusive childhood and i would rather my kids be spoiled brats then to have to live thru one day of the hell i was put thru
i would like to be married and have two kids by the time im 30 (i turned 24 a month and a half ago)
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I have a son who's almost one - becoming a father is one of the best things to ever happen in my life.
For years my wife and I really didn't want children, but something changed in us once we reached thirty - wanting to have a child hit us really strongly and voila we made a person.
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Re: A question for males... [Re: LayYouIn]
#8026210 - 02/15/08 08:23 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Yes. Absolutely I want kids. It's one of the few things I am completely sure about.
This thread is fascinating; people seem headstrong one way or the other.
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Re: A question for males... [Re: WhiskeyClone]
#8026221 - 02/15/08 08:32 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I've been wanting to have a kid lately, but hopefully an older one. The baby thing seems EXTREMELY difficult, especially if you are a single father.
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Re: A question for males... [Re: LayYouIn]
#8026271 - 02/15/08 08:46 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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No desire. I love my freedom, money, time, and flexibility too much. I would only even consider the idea under the most ideal conditions possible, and that's probably never going to happen.
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dumbfounded1600 said: I just want pussy...Yes it'd be great if she could be on the pill so I can cum inside her...That's the best
hahaha damn right. thats the way to go! 
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In(di)go said: no i don't want children... thank god me and my girl are on the same page on this issue
haha good shit. youre gf's smart. for YOURE sake. so her body doesnt get all fuck up. you can enjoy her figure for as long as youre alive lol.
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Re: A question for males... [Re: LayYouIn]
#8027565 - 02/15/08 02:20 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I'll probably raise children in my life time, but most if not all of them will be adopted. I can't feel right about bringing my own kids into the world just for a genetic link when there's so many unwanted children.
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Re: A question for males... [Re: EllisDSox]
#8027652 - 02/15/08 02:41 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I've always been told that I would make a good father, and I kind of thought that raising a family would be cool, but I'm pretty undecided. I have definite goals that would make having a family difficult. I want to travel extensively, I want to eventually leave the workforce and live sustainably. Also I would have serious issues with bringing a kid into this world, and despite what others say, I would be afraid of messing the kid up. If anything I would probably adopt like the poster above. That way, maybe if/when I get into a good situation I could improve an unwanted baby's life. I'm still undecided though, and at age 21 I've got plenty of time to decide. Just being careful in the meantime!
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