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Well there's this girl
#8013577 - 02/12/08 03:34 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I work with her. Everyone is nice to each other at work, but this one girl talks to me more than anyone else at work. I'm not sure if she's just an overly nice person, or if she's into me.
I just seem to get a weird vibe from her.
One time she said she's always cold and then asked me to feel her hand.
Another time my shirt was messed up so she straightened it (coulda been because she didn't want to see my ass if i bent over )
she talks to me and tells me about herself, but i usually fail to return anything meaningful to say. Sometimes she will give me weird looks after i say something (like it didn't make sense) which i guess doesn't matter
one time at work she said "nobody notices her", im not sure exactly what she was reffering to but that was another weird vibe I got.
but then sometimes she talks about her boyfriend or ex boyfriend, its just very weird mixed vibes
So id prefer not to make a duesch of myself, but on the other hand my time is running out. Anyone have any insight based on the few details ive given?
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8013592 - 02/12/08 03:38 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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She has a boyfriend? Steer clear.
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well i was kinda under the impression all women have boyfriends, and tend to break up "after" they have found a new pad
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
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she prolly likes you.
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girls love a guy who listens, i wouldn't be surprised to find out that she does like you. if you like her, go for it man. life is short.
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i agree, steer clear. stop thinking about it right now. from what it sounds like, shes just one of those girls who likes to fuck with guys heads. as much as she doesnt think thats the type of girl she is, she is, and shes probably oblivious to it.
im tired of girls like that. cant fucking stand that shit.
wont take you anywhere but hell.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: PilzeEssen]
#8013628 - 02/12/08 03:44 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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i don't see how it is possible to let a girl fuck up your head. i let that happen one time, but i was years younger. if she turns out to be manipulative/messes with your head, stay away. if she doesn't, and she does like you, and you feel the same way, i don't see why you shouldn't go for it.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8013643 - 02/12/08 03:46 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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makaveli8x8 said: well i was kinda under the impression all women have boyfriends, and tend to break up "after" they have found a new pad
WHy would you want to get with a girl who got into a relationship with you that way? You already know how it'll probably end.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: bmiles]
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I did take her to lunch one time, I can't remember exactly how it happened but I think she asked me where I was going, and I was like you can tag along, then she started asking another worker if they wanted to come with also kind of in a quiet voice behind my back( i assume she wanted more converstation)
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makaveli8x8 said: well i was kinda under the impression all women have boyfriends, and tend to break up "after" they have found a new pad
WHy would you want to get with a girl who got into a relationship with you that way? You already know how it'll probably end.
Well I just kind of assume thats the way life works these days, single people can not afford to live on their own, so its prob the "only" way to change relationships, unless she wanted to life on teh street but then she wouldn't be very presentable lol
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8013676 - 02/12/08 03:56 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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She is trying to get you to notice her and pay attention to her cause she digs you IMO. If she has a boyfriend it might be too much trouble to do anything with her, but you can always be a dick in a jar if things fuck up in thier relationship. My advice is if she don't have a boyfriend and you like her flirt with her and see where it leads.
If she does have a boyfriend and you like her, flirt with her a little but don't be too friendly and box yourself into the 'friend zone' and just kick back and wait til her relationship is over, then be the shoulder to cry on (and the cock to sit on )
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: bmiles]
#8013686 - 02/12/08 03:59 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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bmiles said: i don't see how it is possible to let a girl fuck up your head. i let that happen one time, but i was years younger. if she turns out to be manipulative/messes with your head, stay away. if she doesn't, and she does like you, and you feel the same way, i don't see why you shouldn't go for it.
Sorry to be cynical but they all fuck with your head in the end, that has just been my experience. They are a whole lot of fun though when the going is good.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8013696 - 02/12/08 04:00 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Why are you guys telling him to steer clear? 
Are you looking to establish a relationship with this girl or just to fuck her and enjoy her company? If so, who cares if she has a borefriend? Whenever she mentions him, just act like you don't care, change the subject, and continue hitting on her. Give her the attention she wants and then you'll get what you want. Just be aggressive but not needy.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: bradmassive]
#8013719 - 02/12/08 04:07 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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bmiles said: i don't see how it is possible to let a girl fuck up your head. i let that happen one time, but i was years younger. if she turns out to be manipulative/messes with your head, stay away. if she doesn't, and she does like you, and you feel the same way, i don't see why you shouldn't go for it.
Sorry to be cynical but they all fuck with your head in the end, that has just been my experience. They are a whole lot of fun though when the going is good.
not if you know how to handle them they don't.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: bradmassive]
#8013720 - 02/12/08 04:07 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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well im pretty sure she has a boyfriend, unless she's just saying that.
Im not sure how to approach her however, in regards to, leaving it open to being both friend and more (and weither or not to let her know im interested)
I was thinking just hand her my number and say "if you ever wanna hang out or w/e"
or another option i thought of was saying " i been getting some weird vibes & not really sure where your coming from" and then see what she says...however that could set me up for alot of questions that i won't have quick answers for
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: bradmassive]
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If a girl is hot she will always have a "boyfriend" as that is her defense mechanism for the hundreds of guys who want her attention daily.
It sounds like this girl might like you. I'd say do what you can to turn up the sexual tension between you two like being funny and slightly cocky. Too much cockiness however will have a negative effect. Trick her into hanging out with you but don't wait for her if she doesn't want to. If she wants you she will follow. Also, be spontaneous. Don't ask her what day is best for her. Tell her you are going to do something and ask her if she would like to go. If she says yes, then tell her what and when. If she says no, then it's her loss and that's how you should act. There is a fine line between cocky/funny and being a jerk though so pay attention to her body language. Whatever you do, don't be a pussy and tell her you like her as you will become instantly unattractive.
For better or worse, attraction is a game. If you want to win, you have to play and nice guys NEVER win so don't be one.
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ha! you are all wrong!
girls just want attention. she really doesnt like you, OP. she merely needs you to find her interesting in some way so taht she feels better about herself. that is all. but there is hope.. you can make her like you if you really want.
just ignore her. make some very friend-esque plans with her, and then say you forgot about a prior engagement and cant do it. beat her to the punch with the line about "how we are such good friends"...
but the #1 best way to tell if a girl really likes you, is when you tell them that you are going on a date with some girl, or how you are talking to another girl. depending on how they act, and how intently they hang on it will give you perfect example of how much panty pudding you give her. even when a girl doesnt want something, if they think that they arent the center of the universe, they have to remedy the situation.
no shit? srsly dude.... just try it out... make up a semi-elaborate story about how you met this awesome girl the other day and go on and on about her and what you like about her, but make those things rather vague, but honest.
just see how she smiles through her teeth and says "thats great".
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8013740 - 02/12/08 04:11 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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makaveli8x8 said: well im pretty sure she has a boyfriend, unless she's just saying that.
Im not sure how to approach her however, in regards to, leaving it open to being both friend and more (and weither or not to let her know im interested)
I was thinking just hand her my number and say "if you ever wanna hang out or w/e"
or another option i thought of was saying " i been getting some weird vibes & not really sure where your coming from" and then see what she says...however that could set me up for alot of questions that i won't have quick answers for
Don't ever choose the second option! The first option sounds OK cause your not letting her know what your intentions are. Never let a woman know that. Being honest at this stage only puts women off, trust me on this. Play it cool and keep your options open and hers will be too.
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wickedscepter said: If a girl is hot she will always have a "boyfriend" as that is her defense mechanism for the hundreds of guys who want her attention daily.
It sounds like this girl might like you. I'd say do what you can to turn up the sexual tension between you two like being funny and slightly cocky. Too much cockiness however will have a negative effect. Trick her into hanging out with you but don't wait for her if she doesn't want to. If she wants you she will follow. Also, be spontaneous. Don't ask her what day is best for her. Tell her you are going to do something and ask her if she would like to go. If she says yes, then tell her what and when. If she says no, then it's her loss and that's how you should act. There is a fine line between cocky/funny and being a jerk though so pay attention to her body language. Whatever you do, don't be a pussy and tell her you like her as you will become instantly unattractive.
For better or worse, attraction is a game. If you want to win, you have to play and nice guys NEVER win so don't be one.
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I was thinking just hand her my number and say "if you ever wanna hang out or w/e"
or another option i thought of was saying " i been getting some weird vibes & not really sure where your coming from" and then see what she says...however that could set me up for alot of questions that i won't have quick answers for
Don't do that as it makes you sound unconfident and weak.
Remember that you are a badass dude with a lot going on in your life and tons of other chicks you have to hang with. That is how you should act.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: bmiles]
#8013772 - 02/12/08 04:20 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Heres what up i've fig women out. She finds you non threating and needs to vent to someone thats not going to give her "it ok " because your her close friend. And your right most women need to "have" someone there as a back up plan your not it.Sorry man.If she says need to see other people she's already banging some other dude.
Here's the test to see if she's into you. Does she paw at you when you say something witty or funny? Do you catch her looking at you at odd moments? Does she find a reason to bump into all the time? If you said something weird and she gave you a funny look like what the hell she s not into you. Most likely she s having problems with here new boyfriend and is trying to get your opinion on it. If shes a touchy feely nice person and you make a move at the wrong time you will scare her off. Your going to have to play the friend i'm there for you.Wait someday if shes in a pissy mood about her boyfriend take her out as a "friend" get her drunk and bang her. other then that she s damgage goods and not worth keeping. If she s just an outgoing person then your reading it all wrong. Women that are out going just tell you what they want. Case in point last sat with me. At an art show with my fellow art friends. 2 chick i kind of know come up and say"come with us bitch going to the bar." Now if i tried to make move on them i'd blow it. I waited after the 4 th round they bought me then i got the next one. Talked art, caught her friend MILF eyeing me up she looks away real quick. Long stroy short; the after show party they where all grinding on me trying shom me to hula hoop in this trippy lcd light hoops.(man wish had shrooms that would been great) I end up in the back seat with her friend on top of me rubbing a snail trail on my leg.
My advice she s not worth it unless you want a one nighter. Other then that talk to her be friends but she s messed up in the head stay away.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8013775 - 02/12/08 04:22 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Ok, time for girl's opinion.  I think she likes you. Pretty obvious. 
A question: do you really know she has a boyfriend, or do you just assume?
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Remember that you are a badass dude with a lot going on in your life and tons of other chicks you have to hang with
lol i def couldn't play that card at this point, i come across as a very quite person with zero happening in my life
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8013796 - 02/12/08 04:28 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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question: do you really know she has a boyfriend, or do you just assume?
well she will sometimes say "her boyfriend" forgot to do something
and i seen someone pick her up for lunch one day, so im pretty sure she does have one, im just not sure how happy she is with him
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8013829 - 02/12/08 04:37 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Well if she was unhappy she would probably break up.  I don't know, if I were you I would be straight with her. Tell her that her behavior is confusing to you and you felt the need to set things clear. I don't think there's anything to lose, regardless of her response. At least you'll know where you're standing.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8013833 - 02/12/08 04:38 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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im telling you guys... my plan is fool proof.
now, i dont know how much game you have, but this is fuckin freshman stuff. do it.... watch the magic.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8013840 - 02/12/08 04:39 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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>>lol i def couldn't play that card at this point, i come across as a very quite person with zero happening in my life<<
Thats why shes finds you non threating. I'm the devil with the angels face.21 to 29 these women are looking for that "big score".Guy give them everything.30-40 they just want guy get them off. Thats all you need to know. Like with me i was that guy do everything for a girl until my "almost" wife was banging some other dude while i was working over spiring break.(back in college)I even had the ring! glad that happend then dodge that one. I'm still a nice guy but i have bad boy image. Thats what they want a stable bad boy? I know Crazy. Ok heres the plan make you over from what i ve learned. 1.your not a bad boy dont try to be. 2.be thier guy friend. 3. can you dance? Learn enough to be fun to dance with.4. good guy with no guilty thoughts = keep your mouth shut with women. 5. don t get attached act like you don t care. Thats what i have learned. now go and wounder the earth jocking the bitches and slapping them ho s
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YawningAnus said: im telling you guys... my plan is fool proof.
now, i dont know how much game you have, but this is fuckin freshman stuff. do it.... watch the magic.
I reread what you wrote and im not 100% sure it would work in my situation. See if she wanted attention theirs plenty of other guys she could talk to at work, (they claim they have gf's thow). And these other guys are much more talkative than me, ( i have seen her talk a few times to another guy).
For w/e reason im appealing for her to talk to me, and be nice towards.
Two other possible reasons come to mind for this:
1. she feels sorry for me 2. and then i agree that this could be an option "girls just want attention. she really doesnt like you, OP. she merely needs you to find her interesting in some way so taht she feels better about herself."
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
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Anus is right. You can't be straight with a girl either (unless your in a relationship) because they say one thing and do another. Of course all girls will tell you that you should be nice, straight forward and all that other bullshit. If you right away start doing what they tell you then they know that you don't have your shit together. If you don't believe me then go ahead and watch every guy but yourself have sex with her AND you'll get to here about it because you two are "so close".
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lol i def couldn't play that card at this point, i come across as a very quite person with zero happening in my life
Don't worry about that shit because you aren't playing cards . You need to have that attitude because that's what girls want. It doesn't matter if you really do or not because they will never know unless you tell them!
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
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ok i think im just going to take mushroomstrips advice, im just going to come out and say "why are you so nice to me?" lol it seems simple enough
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
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YawningAnus said: im telling you guys... my plan is fool proof.
now, i dont know how much game you have, but this is fuckin freshman stuff. do it.... watch the magic.
I reread what you wrote and im not 100% sure it would work in my situation. See if she wanted attention theirs plenty of other guys she could talk to at work, (they claim they have gf's thow). And these other guys are much more talkative than me, ( i have seen her talk a few times to another guy).
For w/e reason im appealing for her to talk to me, and be nice towards.
Two other possible reasons come to mind for this:
1. she feels sorry for me 2. and then i agree that this could be an option "girls just want attention. she really doesnt like you, OP. she merely needs you to find her interesting in some way so taht she feels better about herself."
she talks to you because you are the sure thing. just the way you described yourself compared to every other guy there is reason enough why you are the fish in a barrel. it is like being really horny and going for the lonely fat girl in the corner for a blowjob... its the path of least resistance. I think it reinforces my "plan" to talk about another girl... the reason she doesnt talk to the other guys is because they have girlfriends and it would be more effort to get attention from you than them.
if you want the seriously easy version of my plan, then buy a gift that you think she would really like, and ask her opinion about it.... like, "hey I need your opinion on this, there is this girl I have been hanging out with and im not sure if she would like it...".
for example... if there is a band you know she likes (scope the bumper sticker or stereotype her), then buy the CD and say "I really like these guys, but do you think she will like it?".
just anything that takes the focus off of her, and onto you and your progressive libido. it is all a game... and in any game, it is usually unwise to sit and wait for your opponent to make all the moves. put her on the listening side. make her the friend who's opinion "you really trust".
oh... and start acting goofier. for some reason, girls love goofy acting guys.
even if you dont take my advice, just slip something in there, like a mumble about another girl and she will either perk up, or act like she didnt hear it... but those really mean the same thing.
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i dont know what the fuck to think anymore...
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YawningAnus said: it is like being really horny and going for the lonely fat girl in the corner for a blowjob... its the path of least resistance.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8014365 - 02/12/08 06:44 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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makaveli8x8 said: well i was kinda under the impression all women have boyfriends, and tend to break up "after" they have found a new pad
WHy would you want to get with a girl who got into a relationship with you that way? You already know how it'll probably end.
Well I just kind of assume thats the way life works these days, single people can not afford to live on their own, so its prob the "only" way to change relationships, unless she wanted to life on teh street but then she wouldn't be very presentable lol
What are you looking for? To be in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship?
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im just lonely, i feel alot better around her, its nice when you think someone likes/cares for you.
and now i think i crashed to the floor with realizations
1. for some reason I feel like i could date her but not be her friend...i don't think its her fault just the way i am. i really don't like being just friends with women. this has happened many times to me before. Its ok chilling at work and listening to them talk...i would just be lost outside work i think. Its hard to explain it proper, I guess its just im a loner, i don't really enjoy things much with other people...or maybe theirs just so many expectations and i know i won't fullfill them, well i could but they or me would tire before it would happen.
2. my second realization, theirs a 3rd option as to why she's been so nice to me, and its nagging at me because the pieces are kinda falling together. Theirs still a chance she likes me but now i have serious daubts, its related to her feeling sorry for me. Ill prob just forget everything and go back into zombie mode and ignore everyone
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8014676 - 02/12/08 07:45 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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makaveli8x8 said: ok i think im just going to take mushroomstrips advice, im just going to come out and say "why are you so nice to me?" lol it seems simple enough
Yes! MT, an intelligent and insightful woman, has given you some real advice. You are wise to take her advice over some of the questionable, manipulative game playing that's been suggested.
Uh, why are most of the dudes here so macho and clueless? Do I live in some kind of strange bubble of superhumans who have real social skills and respect for the opposite gender while the rest of the world lacks these basic human qualities? I am coming closer and closer to this conclusion every day.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: NiamhNyx]
#8017208 - 02/13/08 11:32 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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isnt that cute... i didnt really read what you said... I was just imagining what your tits look like.
just like every man has a little bit of the stereotype in him, so does every woman. sure what I said might be harsh, but it is abundantly true.
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im not sure if you were talking to naim or me, either way i don't really get what your saying sorry.
but basicly i have an update, i played zombie and she only talked to me like once and it was bisness but with a smile, however as I observed, I realized she's a loner, pretty much whenever i seen her she wasn't talking to anyone maybe she's on the shroomery because i didn't get any vibes today, or maybe she gave up on me
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8017909 - 02/13/08 02:20 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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she may very well much still like you. she could just be losing hope.
a dog can only chase it's own tail for so long, eventually it's gonna say fuck it.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: appleorange]
#8017955 - 02/13/08 02:34 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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dont play zombie... play goofy.
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makaveli8x8, Hey take YawningAnus advice play goofy. How much you talk to her? See if she wants to get lunch or like something like that. That's the easy way to find out.then it will be beers at the bar and your on your own there. Don t play zombie she ll think your seiral killer. And that crap be up front with women thats bs.LIE LIE LIE. cause they do it better.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: NiamhNyx]
#8018441 - 02/13/08 04:43 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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not mucho clueless?? just after 2 long trem relasoships one 3 years (had the ring) and one 2 years. "Both cheated on me" I know how to play the game. I ride sport bikes, am a professional artist. So i can carry the nice soft thoughtful art guy who cares. but the wheelie pass the cop down the freeway; knock your teeth in bad ass if you mess with me too. And the last "married" chick i was with wanted that "fun" factor. Cause i'm the nice guy who can lie to your face and everyone believes me.Gets easyer more you do it. cause "he never do that" . And she knows i keep my mouth shut.And i had two other "married" women hitting on me hard core, while there hubys where at home. But they got little pissed there friend was on top of me in the back seat of the car. Don t hate the player hate the game. My game is let them think your clueless. (lie) let them think that your thier play toy. And enjoy the ride. Stable bad boy.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: deadmeat986]
#8018460 - 02/13/08 04:47 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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how do you know how to play the game if both girls cheated on you?
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: bmiles]
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
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makaveli8x8 said: im not sure if you were talking to naim or me, either way i don't really get what your saying sorry.
but basicly i have an update, i played zombie and she only talked to me like once and it was bisness but with a smile, however as I observed, I realized she's a loner, pretty much whenever i seen her she wasn't talking to anyone maybe she's on the shroomery because i didn't get any vibes today, or maybe she gave up on me
If she's a quiet loner type too, and she's been trying and trying to get your attention but you ignore her, she's gonna stop trying because it's embarrassing to try too hard. She's probably interpreting your zombie act as a message to leave you alone.
If you enjoy her company, than show it! Just be honest.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: bmiles]
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Umm lets see i was the nice guy who did all the right things that everyone says you got to do to keep a woman.I started to play the game after beening f over.Really bad when her family is planning the wedding and she bails on you. I know little something. first thing a woman does; they don t want to be touched.be it whatever small way. might be the other guy touchs her the same way. 2. a habit with you changes. like asking how our day went or not picking you up something to eat. Cause the little things is how she tells herself i don t want this. so if those are not there she does not care. I'm a product of my surroundings. you know how i got game? I can go to a party; drink a beer and talk to her husband with a stright face. by the way when the last time you had 3 women only on you? Or a hotty working the room getting you free drinks and you go home with her?
You just show them a little fun let them run the show a little and then take over. That whole i did not know what i was doing she say.i'm just confused messed up in the head. o it was the beer. Ya right.
look if this guy want to date this chick at work. do the lunch thing at a place she knows. make her feel in control and comfy.let her talk ask question about her then act like you lost intrest. let her stoo for a couple of days. then give her a call. my mistake was being too good to a woman. be an ahole and they love you cause its a test for them. plus they have less time looking for someone else if their worried about keeping you.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: deadmeat986]
#8021916 - 02/14/08 11:00 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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stop giving bad advice....
women love being touched. not groped. women respond to touch more than anything else. when you are at an impasse like our OP here, one good trick is to always make some sort of contact everytime you give her a compliment or something exciting/good happens. that way they relate your touch to good things/feeling good.
I know it sounds stupid, but it works.
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Bad advice?
Ok heres how it would go. In the work place where ever he work. This is after i ve talk to her couple times. Make it almost lunch or little before. Bump into her or drop work off.
"hey heres that paper work." look at my watch."man got go get some for lunch and get back here. forgot mine". where you guys go?" Bam theres my in. If she say well i go down such and such. Then i'd be like "Any good?" She be like "yea going down there today at lunch". Do i need say more. Theirs his in and he will know from that if she s into him or not. Cause its lunch 20 min and if she does not like him she knows its only 20 min. If she into him. they will hit lunch again and i know he will be going out on a "real date" next weekend.
And who said anything about groping??? i don t know the women you meet for one nighter or fun but its not about make me feel good its about getting off and having fun. I karoke and dance with them. make a fool of myself ok? But when i sang "hungery like a wolf" and everyone in the bar was singing with me it was real easy to hit on the chicks. And get a number or 2. And they will remember that not"ya i bump into at that bar."she s got to think who. Where i'm like "you know hungery like a wolf".
Yea women do respond to touch, theres a time and place for that.Not on the dance floor. Thats why two married chicks where trying to out do each other? trying teach me to hula hoop with trippy lcd lights in a rave part of the bar. Each tried so hard too! but damm its kind of hard doing that with two people in one of those.
And the control thing? its easyer to approach women in a group cause safety in numbers thing. 1. its girls night out no boyfriend. 2. one of them is single (ring does not matter to me anyways .)3.if the married friends ok you she's going to the ladies room to "freshen up" and your leaving before last call.4. shows your bold and not afraid. How can this go wrong. talking to 3 fine ladies going to grad school; about to get the one and my dumb ass cuz come over and trys to get in on the action. Not only he looks like an ass your guilty by association.
And as far as touch i'm not doing the cave man thing here. Everyone here is forgetten that I was "nice guy" and almost married.So i know to hold and support her and make her feel safe. please Thats the warm up touching. make her feel safe then she jumps on top of you and tears into ya like a wild sex starved woman.lol
I'm trying to show the guy the mistakes i made so he does not have too. Remember "fun" factor. That near death or a close call "danger guy" gets them going. But still hold 9 5 job and help out.If your get lazy dont get too wild she will lose intrest and be with someone else in 3 months.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8023305 - 02/14/08 05:08 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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she likes you its obvious
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