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makaveli8x8
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Well there's this girl
#8013577 - 02/12/08 03:34 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I work with her. Everyone is nice to each other at work, but this one girl talks to me more than anyone else at work. I'm not sure if she's just an overly nice person, or if she's into me.
I just seem to get a weird vibe from her.
One time she said she's always cold and then asked me to feel her hand.
Another time my shirt was messed up so she straightened it (coulda been because she didn't want to see my ass if i bent over )
she talks to me and tells me about herself, but i usually fail to return anything meaningful to say. Sometimes she will give me weird looks after i say something (like it didn't make sense) which i guess doesn't matter
one time at work she said "nobody notices her", im not sure exactly what she was reffering to but that was another weird vibe I got.
but then sometimes she talks about her boyfriend or ex boyfriend, its just very weird mixed vibes
So id prefer not to make a duesch of myself, but on the other hand my time is running out. Anyone have any insight based on the few details ive given?
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8013592 - 02/12/08 03:38 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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She has a boyfriend? Steer clear.
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makaveli8x8
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well i was kinda under the impression all women have boyfriends, and tend to break up "after" they have found a new pad
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8013612 - 02/12/08 03:41 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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she prolly likes you.
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girls love a guy who listens, i wouldn't be surprised to find out that she does like you. if you like her, go for it man. life is short.
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i agree, steer clear. stop thinking about it right now. from what it sounds like, shes just one of those girls who likes to fuck with guys heads. as much as she doesnt think thats the type of girl she is, she is, and shes probably oblivious to it.
im tired of girls like that. cant fucking stand that shit.
wont take you anywhere but hell.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: PilzeEssen]
#8013628 - 02/12/08 03:44 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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i don't see how it is possible to let a girl fuck up your head. i let that happen one time, but i was years younger. if she turns out to be manipulative/messes with your head, stay away. if she doesn't, and she does like you, and you feel the same way, i don't see why you shouldn't go for it.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8013643 - 02/12/08 03:46 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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makaveli8x8 said: well i was kinda under the impression all women have boyfriends, and tend to break up "after" they have found a new pad
WHy would you want to get with a girl who got into a relationship with you that way? You already know how it'll probably end.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: bmiles]
#8013661 - 02/12/08 03:51 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I did take her to lunch one time, I can't remember exactly how it happened but I think she asked me where I was going, and I was like you can tag along, then she started asking another worker if they wanted to come with also kind of in a quiet voice behind my back( i assume she wanted more converstation)
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makaveli8x8 said: well i was kinda under the impression all women have boyfriends, and tend to break up "after" they have found a new pad
WHy would you want to get with a girl who got into a relationship with you that way? You already know how it'll probably end.
Well I just kind of assume thats the way life works these days, single people can not afford to live on their own, so its prob the "only" way to change relationships, unless she wanted to life on teh street but then she wouldn't be very presentable lol
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8013676 - 02/12/08 03:56 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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She is trying to get you to notice her and pay attention to her cause she digs you IMO. If she has a boyfriend it might be too much trouble to do anything with her, but you can always be a dick in a jar if things fuck up in thier relationship. My advice is if she don't have a boyfriend and you like her flirt with her and see where it leads.
If she does have a boyfriend and you like her, flirt with her a little but don't be too friendly and box yourself into the 'friend zone' and just kick back and wait til her relationship is over, then be the shoulder to cry on (and the cock to sit on )
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: bmiles]
#8013686 - 02/12/08 03:59 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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bmiles said: i don't see how it is possible to let a girl fuck up your head. i let that happen one time, but i was years younger. if she turns out to be manipulative/messes with your head, stay away. if she doesn't, and she does like you, and you feel the same way, i don't see why you shouldn't go for it.
Sorry to be cynical but they all fuck with your head in the end, that has just been my experience. They are a whole lot of fun though when the going is good.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8013696 - 02/12/08 04:00 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Why are you guys telling him to steer clear? 
Are you looking to establish a relationship with this girl or just to fuck her and enjoy her company? If so, who cares if she has a borefriend? Whenever she mentions him, just act like you don't care, change the subject, and continue hitting on her. Give her the attention she wants and then you'll get what you want. Just be aggressive but not needy.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: bradmassive]
#8013719 - 02/12/08 04:07 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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bradmassive said:
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bmiles said: i don't see how it is possible to let a girl fuck up your head. i let that happen one time, but i was years younger. if she turns out to be manipulative/messes with your head, stay away. if she doesn't, and she does like you, and you feel the same way, i don't see why you shouldn't go for it.
Sorry to be cynical but they all fuck with your head in the end, that has just been my experience. They are a whole lot of fun though when the going is good.
not if you know how to handle them they don't.
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: bradmassive]
#8013720 - 02/12/08 04:07 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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well im pretty sure she has a boyfriend, unless she's just saying that.
Im not sure how to approach her however, in regards to, leaving it open to being both friend and more (and weither or not to let her know im interested)
I was thinking just hand her my number and say "if you ever wanna hang out or w/e"
or another option i thought of was saying " i been getting some weird vibes & not really sure where your coming from" and then see what she says...however that could set me up for alot of questions that i won't have quick answers for
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: bradmassive]
#8013737 - 02/12/08 04:11 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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If a girl is hot she will always have a "boyfriend" as that is her defense mechanism for the hundreds of guys who want her attention daily.
It sounds like this girl might like you. I'd say do what you can to turn up the sexual tension between you two like being funny and slightly cocky. Too much cockiness however will have a negative effect. Trick her into hanging out with you but don't wait for her if she doesn't want to. If she wants you she will follow. Also, be spontaneous. Don't ask her what day is best for her. Tell her you are going to do something and ask her if she would like to go. If she says yes, then tell her what and when. If she says no, then it's her loss and that's how you should act. There is a fine line between cocky/funny and being a jerk though so pay attention to her body language. Whatever you do, don't be a pussy and tell her you like her as you will become instantly unattractive.
For better or worse, attraction is a game. If you want to win, you have to play and nice guys NEVER win so don't be one.
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ha! you are all wrong!
girls just want attention. she really doesnt like you, OP. she merely needs you to find her interesting in some way so taht she feels better about herself. that is all. but there is hope.. you can make her like you if you really want.
just ignore her. make some very friend-esque plans with her, and then say you forgot about a prior engagement and cant do it. beat her to the punch with the line about "how we are such good friends"...
but the #1 best way to tell if a girl really likes you, is when you tell them that you are going on a date with some girl, or how you are talking to another girl. depending on how they act, and how intently they hang on it will give you perfect example of how much panty pudding you give her. even when a girl doesnt want something, if they think that they arent the center of the universe, they have to remedy the situation.
no shit? srsly dude.... just try it out... make up a semi-elaborate story about how you met this awesome girl the other day and go on and on about her and what you like about her, but make those things rather vague, but honest.
just see how she smiles through her teeth and says "thats great".
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Re: Well there's this girl [Re: makaveli8x8]
#8013740 - 02/12/08 04:11 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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makaveli8x8 said: well im pretty sure she has a boyfriend, unless she's just saying that.
Im not sure how to approach her however, in regards to, leaving it open to being both friend and more (and weither or not to let her know im interested)
I was thinking just hand her my number and say "if you ever wanna hang out or w/e"
or another option i thought of was saying " i been getting some weird vibes & not really sure where your coming from" and then see what she says...however that could set me up for alot of questions that i won't have quick answers for
Don't ever choose the second option! The first option sounds OK cause your not letting her know what your intentions are. Never let a woman know that. Being honest at this stage only puts women off, trust me on this. Play it cool and keep your options open and hers will be too.
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wickedscepter said: If a girl is hot she will always have a "boyfriend" as that is her defense mechanism for the hundreds of guys who want her attention daily.
It sounds like this girl might like you. I'd say do what you can to turn up the sexual tension between you two like being funny and slightly cocky. Too much cockiness however will have a negative effect. Trick her into hanging out with you but don't wait for her if she doesn't want to. If she wants you she will follow. Also, be spontaneous. Don't ask her what day is best for her. Tell her you are going to do something and ask her if she would like to go. If she says yes, then tell her what and when. If she says no, then it's her loss and that's how you should act. There is a fine line between cocky/funny and being a jerk though so pay attention to her body language. Whatever you do, don't be a pussy and tell her you like her as you will become instantly unattractive.
For better or worse, attraction is a game. If you want to win, you have to play and nice guys NEVER win so don't be one.
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I was thinking just hand her my number and say "if you ever wanna hang out or w/e"
or another option i thought of was saying " i been getting some weird vibes & not really sure where your coming from" and then see what she says...however that could set me up for alot of questions that i won't have quick answers for
Don't do that as it makes you sound unconfident and weak.
Remember that you are a badass dude with a lot going on in your life and tons of other chicks you have to hang with. That is how you should act.
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