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leetdod
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fuck girls man....
#7998438 - 02/08/08 10:46 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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all i ever wanted was this girl to like me... and SHE DID... after talking to her for awhile i got to go out with her... i felt so good... only a week later she calls me and says its not working out... FUCK... i dont even know what i did wrong and i was to embarressed to even ask.... im sittin here just thinking about it all depressed... I feel like i should just give up on girls cause nothing ever works out.... that just makes me feel worse... like the 40 year old virgin or sumthin... fuck man i dont know what to do...
Shitty part is i had the most amazing trip off some shrooms today... i go by her house to tell her about it and i get dumped... so much for that... it was life changing.. i thought i was a much better person after it happened and now i dont care... i feel like a loser and no one cares...... im such an emo bitch... ((
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appleorange
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Re: fuck girls man.... [Re: leetdod]
#7998495 - 02/08/08 11:06 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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you sound pretty young and being young is especially tough.
i think you should really ask yourself this though. was it the companionship you wanted or the girl?
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leetdod
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Re: fuck girls man.... [Re: appleorange]
#7998526 - 02/08/08 11:17 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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i wanted to love her... it wasnt her looks or anything she isnt that special looking i just liked her... alot =/
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desertturtle
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Re: fuck girls man.... [Re: leetdod]
#7998529 - 02/08/08 11:19 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Life goes on man, at least u didnt waste more time and emotional energy on her. Get a little exercise everyday and focus on positive things(not drinking/drugs) in life that make u happy. Forget about girls for awhile . A good relationship will fall into place if you arent looking too hard for it. Hope I helped
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CMACD
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Re: fuck girls man.... [Re: leetdod]
#7998530 - 02/08/08 11:19 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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edit...
Edited by trendal (02/14/08 09:24 AM)
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leetdod
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thanks for the advice... its exactly what i need to do... i love the community here its great.. thanks bro
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appleorange
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Re: fuck girls man.... [Re: CMACD]
#7998541 - 02/08/08 11:27 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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don't listen to CMACD, he's just a bitter ol scrooge who listens to Shining.
from experience. when you are happy, content, and not actually looking for a girl, they tend to fall in your lap. just try to look on the brightside of life for right now.
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Re: fuck girls man.... [Re: leetdod]
#7998985 - 02/09/08 01:55 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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hey, it could have been worse, you could have stayed with her for 3 years only to find out that she fucked no less than 3 of your friends, one of them repeatedly for coke, ended up giving you an STD(luckily curable) all for what? 3 years of wasted paychecks, poorly invested emotion, and alot of loooooose pussy.
the grass looks greener on your side pal lol.
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Re: fuck girls man.... [Re: appleorange]
#7998990 - 02/09/08 01:58 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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appleorange said: don't listen to CMACD, he's just a bitter ol scrooge who listens to Shining.
from experience. when you are happy, content, and not actually looking for a girl, they tend to fall in your lap. just try to look on the brightside of life for right now.
pretty much. when i finally got over all the shit and started living life for myself and started to enjoy shit, i found my beautiful, intelligent fiancee 
youll find the right one one day lee, until then, enjoy life to the fullest. dont let the little things trip you up. also dont forget, women outnumber men by far on this planet. you are ahead of the game without trying
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CMACD
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Re: fuck girls man.... [Re: LeftyBurnz]
#8019346 - 02/13/08 08:09 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Sorry. I was being an asshole when I posted that...
and I am a bitter scrooge...
but I don't listen to Shining. I liked them for a bit. Isn't my avatar off some other depressanti-lifeblackmetalfag band??? I don't even remember who anymore. I just thought that the picture was pretty KVLTSKI, LOLSKI.
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Newbie
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Re: fuck girls man.... [Re: leetdod]
#8021493 - 02/14/08 09:02 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Everything has "....." after it. Do I really have to pause that long before starting the next sentence?
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Ginseng1
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Re: fuck girls man.... [Re: Newbie]
#8022003 - 02/14/08 11:24 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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The only reason she lost interest is because you let her know that she has you. I've made this bloody aweful mistake twice with girls that I was nuts about (and I know for a fact they were interested in me, you know, even after you have kissed them).
Make it clear that you are interesting in being "cool" with them and hanging out with them. But next time, never let them know how you truly feel (they can sense it if you do things like blowing up their phones). Take it slow. And when the price is right you may kiss her, but even then do not confess your true feelings.
I know us guys sometimes have this thing where we go crazy for a girl. You gotta keep it cool and let something flourish slowly before you go and opening up your heart. Girls generally aren't into that unless you're both on the exact same page which is very very rare. They are strange creatures and don't ever let them tell you otherwise. Because we are just as strange to them as they are to us. The whole sex & gender thing is extremely complicated. That's why you can't be an animal you gotta pay your dues if you want to succeed in almost anything in life.
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Re: fuck girls man.... [Re: Ginseng1]
#8023946 - 02/14/08 06:59 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Ginseng1 said: The only reason she lost interest is because you let her know that she has you. I've made this bloody aweful mistake twice with girls that I was nuts about (and I know for a fact they were interested in me, you know, even after you have kissed them).
Make it clear that you are interesting in being "cool" with them and hanging out with them. But next time, never let them know how you truly feel (they can sense it if you do things like blowing up their phones). Take it slow. And when the price is right you may kiss her, but even then do not confess your true feelings.
I know us guys sometimes have this thing where we go crazy for a girl. You gotta keep it cool and let something flourish slowly before you go and opening up your heart. Girls generally aren't into that unless you're both on the exact same page which is very very rare. They are strange creatures and don't ever let them tell you otherwise. Because we are just as strange to them as they are to us. The whole sex & gender thing is extremely complicated. That's why you can't be an animal you gotta pay your dues if you want to succeed in almost anything in life.
in my opinion this is good advice, lol I just had this happen to me actually. Met a wicked girl, I slipped up and opened myself to her, you know just cause she was amazing I felt really comfortable, and then all of sudden wham!!!! It all ends I dun even know why... and also I think this advice goes for the ladies as well, you may be an awesome chick but if you come on too strong and too fast the guy will get freaked out.
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Re: fuck girls man.... [Re: chodamunky]
#8025794 - 02/15/08 02:38 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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chodamunky said:
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Ginseng1 said: The only reason she lost interest is because you let her know that she has you. I've made this bloody aweful mistake twice with girls that I was nuts about (and I know for a fact they were interested in me, you know, even after you have kissed them).
Make it clear that you are interesting in being "cool" with them and hanging out with them. But next time, never let them know how you truly feel (they can sense it if you do things like blowing up their phones). Take it slow. And when the price is right you may kiss her, but even then do not confess your true feelings.
I know us guys sometimes have this thing where we go crazy for a girl. You gotta keep it cool and let something flourish slowly before you go and opening up your heart. Girls generally aren't into that unless you're both on the exact same page which is very very rare. They are strange creatures and don't ever let them tell you otherwise. Because we are just as strange to them as they are to us. The whole sex & gender thing is extremely complicated. That's why you can't be an animal you gotta pay your dues if you want to succeed in almost anything in life.
in my opinion this is good advice, lol I just had this happen to me actually. Met a wicked girl, I slipped up and opened myself to her, you know just cause she was amazing I felt really comfortable, and then all of sudden wham!!!! It all ends I dun even know why... and also I think this advice goes for the ladies as well, you may be an awesome chick but if you come on too strong and too fast the guy will get freaked out.
i totally agree with all of this. infact, i have first hand experience loving a girl too much AND from the other perspective, having a girl love me too much. it gets boring/annoying and you really start to despise this person. i even tried to tell her that i wanted her to NOT like me so i could like her more.
i was head over heels in love with one girl too.. after a long ass time of dating, we cut it off. not a bad way though. but it was totally because i was way too into her.
what you really need to learn is that you're the fuckin man. live life and experience it because its coming and going fast. girls are just a bonus and love is like a surprise. you'll like it a lot more if you arnt waiting for it.
just relax man. girls are girls and tthey're kinda tricky, they'll even tell you that. just be cool, everythings gravy.
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