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I've Become An Escort To Support Myself...
#7996824 - 02/08/08 03:52 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I need the money so bad and this seems to be the only job I can find right now that is able to support me. It is so fucking degrading...
Should I be feeling bad about doing this? Is there anything wrong with selling your body for money? It feels wrong, but I'm not sure why...
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Re: I've Become An Escort To Support Myself... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7996865 - 02/08/08 04:03 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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The only time it's really wrong is when you feel like it is.
Personally, I've always felt if someone enjoys sex enough to make money from it, let them.
If you really feel that bad about it, it's just not for you. I'm sure you can find some good work if you try hard enough.
If you continue doing it, please be safe about it. All kinds of bad things can happen, diseases being pretty low on the spectrum. Just remember there are sick fucks who like to mutilate people they think nobody will miss.
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Re: I've Become An Escort To Support Myself... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7996931 - 02/08/08 04:18 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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only you would know... I never saw an escort before, but I have gone to AMP's. I'd like to think that what I do is not wrong. Though, I have asked myself that maybe I am part of the problem by encouraging these women to engage in this kind of activity. I had a discussions with some of these women. Most are in debt, or need to make some money in which working at Walmart or something will just not provide.
The AMP girls are not college educated. I see some escorts advertise that they are. I don't know how much escorts make but an AMP girl depending on much of the year she decideds to work make 80K-100K and these aren't anybody special.
My Advice to you is, yes stay safe!!! Nothing uncovered. The hot ones normally follow this. But in the AMP's the hottest girls don't make the most money, the nastiest ones do. Be smart, save your money and start an investment portfolio. You want to retire early.
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Re: I've Become An Escort To Support Myself... [Re: Anonymous #2]
#7996933 - 02/08/08 04:18 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I'm doing it to pay the bills, rent, get through school, etc, etc..
Only drugs I do are pot and shrooms really. So I'm not a druggie by any means.
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Re: I've Become An Escort To Support Myself... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7997065 - 02/08/08 04:53 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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I've have a freind that's an escort. She lives in hotels and bonces around the greater chicagoland area.
Once you start its hard to stop. At least if you get used to it. Fast money.
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Re: I've Become An Escort To Support Myself... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7997225 - 02/08/08 05:33 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: I need the money so bad and this seems to be the only job I can find right now that is able to support me. It is so fucking degrading...
Should I be feeling bad about doing this? Is there anything wrong with selling your body for money? It feels wrong, but I'm not sure why...
It's only wrong if you decide it is. We all sell ourselves in one way or another and maybe selling ones body is the most honest. You don't have to listen to what the culture says about it if you don't agree. The culture is very hypocritical on such issues.
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Re: I've Become An Escort To Support Myself... [Re: Icelander]
#7997890 - 02/08/08 08:05 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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honestly if i were a woman, i would probably be an escort. i would now if it werent for the fact that clients of male escorts are 90% gay men and 10% old/fat/gnarly women. i guess for the right money i could get over the latter, but i couldnt do a guy, or let a guy do me.
but in all honesty, its only bad if you think it is. dont let others decide what is right and wrong for you. if youre ok with it then its ok. you have a good/service and there are men willing to pay good money for it. if its what you have to do, then its what you have to do.
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Re: I've Become An Escort To Support Myself... [Re: LeftyBurnz]
#7998103 - 02/08/08 09:16 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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> honestly if i were a woman, i would probably be an escort.
Have you ever seen the average escort's clientele?
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Re: I've Become An Escort To Support Myself... [Re: Icelander]
#7998142 - 02/08/08 09:25 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Icelander said:
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Anonymous said: I need the money so bad and this seems to be the only job I can find right now that is able to support me. It is so fucking degrading...
Should I be feeling bad about doing this? Is there anything wrong with selling your body for money? It feels wrong, but I'm not sure why...
It's only wrong if you decide it is. We all sell ourselves in one way or another and maybe selling ones body is the most honest. You don't have to listen to what the culture says about it if you don't agree. The culture is very hypocritical on such issues.
Yeah, I have a lot more respect for the ladies of the night vs. some of the corrupt people I've worked with as a govt. employee. The difference is just how society views them.
I'd like to hear more of what females think on the subject matter? Here's a video of prostitution in Dubai, it is a necessary service for the benefit of society. Or I'm just a male that rationalizes that it is? http://www.pbs.org/frontlineworld/rough/2007/09/flwrc59.html
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Re: I've Become An Escort To Support Myself... [Re: Seuss] 1
#7998163 - 02/08/08 09:29 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Seuss said: > honestly if i were a woman, i would probably be an escort.
Have you ever seen the average escort's clientele?
i wouldnt be an AVERAGE escort
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Re: I've Become An Escort To Support Myself... [Re: LeftyBurnz]
#7998717 - 02/09/08 12:17 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Has anyone ever hired an escort just to hang out with?
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Re: I've Become An Escort To Support Myself... [Re: learningtofly]
#7998992 - 02/09/08 01:59 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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learningtofly said: Has anyone ever hired an escort just to hang out with?
ive never felt that i had enough money to throw down for one. whether it be for sex or temporary companionship.
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Re: I've Become An Escort To Support Myself... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7999322 - 02/09/08 07:37 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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OP, I find it extremely hard to believe that you have no other skills that can get you a job.
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Re: I've Become An Escort To Support Myself... [Re: adrug]
#7999344 - 02/09/08 08:02 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Well, since it sounds like you are not happy with your choice maybe you should look for other options.
Waiting tables and bartending can both bring in decent money. They require good people skills but so does what you are doing.
Good luck.
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Re: I've Become An Escort To Support Myself... [Re: LeftyBurnz]
#7999833 - 02/09/08 11:56 AM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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learningtofly said: Has anyone ever hired an escort just to hang out with?
ive never felt that i had enough money to throw down for one. whether it be for sex or temporary companionship.
I think it'd be kinda interesting to just hang with one to see if they have any depth.
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Re: I've Become An Escort To Support Myself... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#8000661 - 02/09/08 03:39 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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It's definitly not morally wrong to do escort work. What's wrong is that most of us are obligated by the capitalist system to sell ourselves to others to get by. Selling labour and selling sex are exactly the same thing. We all have to make hard choices as to what kind of compromises we are willing to make and the notion that women who choose sex work over low wage service industry work are somehow less morally scrupled is a total fucking joke. Selling labour in any form is degrading, so I think it's totally hypocritical to look down on women who stand to gain a better living in the sex industry than they do in other industries that are open to them. It's not you who is dirty, it's the system.
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Re: I've Become An Escort To Support Myself... [Re: learningtofly]
#8001111 - 02/09/08 05:00 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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learningtofly said:
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leftysurprise said:
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learningtofly said: Has anyone ever hired an escort just to hang out with?
ive never felt that i had enough money to throw down for one. whether it be for sex or temporary companionship.
I think it'd be kinda interesting to just hang with one to see if they have any depth.
that would be the only reason i would pay for one. just to see what they are like. what got them where they are, curiosity really.
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Re: I've Become An Escort To Support Myself... [Re: learningtofly]
#26985471 - 10/14/20 04:13 PM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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I met one in Atlanta once and we just hung out and had some drinks, we ended up both being from Ohio, we talked about our kids, we actually became pretty good friends. I still talk to her once or twice a month.
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Re: I've Become An Escort To Support Myself... [Re: Bmajors80]
#26988050 - 10/16/20 08:00 AM (3 years, 3 months ago) |
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Do what you gotta do to survive. We're all wage slaves under capitalism, as long as you're not hurting anyone you shouldn't feel bad about making a living
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