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HeadTripVertigo
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so....
#7979916 - 02/04/08 08:50 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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This girl came into my work on christmas eve. One of those girls you run into once a year or so that are just flat out amazing. Talked for a bit, she cheered me up about working that day, left. Caught her another time leaving my store, she waved and smiled. Been pretty smitten since.
Ran into her last monday on a pretty bad day (got laid off) at her work...didn't know she worked there...bookstore. so I bought a book and talked to her a bit, left, came back, asked her out for a drink later that night. She said her boyfriend was coming to pick her up. I ignored that.
went back again a few days later, talked to her, she took down my number. went back again with my friend and tried to get her to go out. I guess she was sick or something, I may have fucked up.
I found her myspace, and on top of her being absolutely gorgeous and sweeter than anything, turns out she is into just about everything I am, games, books, movies, music, whatever... she was going to some jam band show at the electric factory friday night, theres some pics of her on myspace presumably at a festie of some sort. so I can only assume she also delves into the fields of consciousness expansion from time to time as well.
but she has a boyfriend and I may or may not have acted like a deer in headlights last time I saw her. the whole retail scene with the counter and her having to deal with customers is not very conducive to any kind of introductory conversation...much less anything deeper. so I either just catch her at bad times where she cant go out...or she doesnt want to. I figure she asked me to come back, so she must be interested somewhat... but.... what the fuck?
I'm pretty confused as to a next move. I usually do well for myself...but she seems just above anything I could do or say that would normally work. just...
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Kickle
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If she said she has a boyfriend, you should respect that. She took down your number, that's more than enough. If things don't work out with her guy, maybe she'll give you a call.
Other than that, your next move should be to go about your life. If you happen to need a book, maybe stop by her place of work for it. Other than that, don't get stupid over a girl who's in a relationship.
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im_on_a_boat
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sounds kinda obsessive-compulsive-stalker-y to me
but i mean however you work your game, bro.. however you work your game...
as far as next move, leave her alone and find someone else who doesn't have a boyfriend..
either that or show her that you have more to offer than her boyfriend.. if you dont.. then move on because she's not going to leave him for you then.
there are so many women out there just keep looking..
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Sell Your Soul
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It's always that even though she has a boyfriend, maybe she's looking for something more her style. Maybe you're the one she really wants, but she doesn't know it yet. Don't give up just yet.
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you know i hear women say that "i have a boyfriend" stuff alot...sometimes i think they are trying to gloat, sometimes they might be trying to tell you their not interested.....but here recently im starting to wounder if they jsut say that so you keep your dick in your pants and act normal around them...or maybe they just wanna see how you react when they do mention it
i think you should go buy a book tomorrow, wear some loose fitting pants and when you get to the counter do a shake and have them drop to the floor, if that doesn't get you laid then you know she doesn't like you
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Re: so.... [Re: Kickle]
#7980022 - 02/04/08 09:06 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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Kickle said: If she said she has a boyfriend, you should respect that. She took down your number, that's more than enough. If things don't work out with her guy, maybe she'll give you a call.
Other than that, your next move should be to go about your life. If you happen to need a book, maybe stop by her place of work for it. Other than that, don't get stupid over a girl who's in a relationship.
Fuck that noise, holmes.
If you want her, win her.
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HeadTripVertigo
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it's not really about the boyfriend. they all have boyfriends. that's never been an issue. it's just difficult to do anything when i have maybe 2 minutes to talk to her inbetween customers or whatever...and even then she's still working, so it's just a difficult thing to approach.
I know there's tons of girls out there, but you all are full of it if you say you haven't very rarely run into one of those amazing ones that just eat away at you even if you aren't thinking about it. that's what I'm digging. I could go out and get any girl most of the time, but some girls just have an air to them that you don't get...
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im_on_a_boat
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werd well if that's the case tell her how you feel and you want to pursue it..
that's all you can do.. if she doesn't take the bait then leave her alone..
i dont see the obsession, there are plenty of bitches around but i gues she aint no ordinary bitch..
this is wifey, dawg?
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Kickle
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*shrug* I threw my advice in and it's solid. Generally those girls have that air about them because you can't get them. I'm trying to help you get her.
Trying harder isn't the way, but, if you think it is, perhaps I'm wrong. It's my experience that those kind of girls are in a similar kind of situation. They can get any guy they want, just as you claim you can get any girl you want. They don't want just another guy they can get. And, as far as she can tell, she already has you.
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Re: so.... [Re: Kickle]
#7980293 - 02/04/08 09:47 PM (15 years, 11 months ago) |
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get that fanny mang
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circularvortex
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I'd probably just whip it out and show it to her.
Really, though. Go in to the bookstore and buy a book. Check out at the lane next to her's and just look at her in the eyes once and then look away, sideways, not down, and walk out. She's got your number. She'll call.
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makaveli8x8
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i always look down?
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HeadTripVertigo
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I'm pretty frustrated since I didn't ask to meet this girl. she just randomly seemed to appear in my life when I was having a bad time and generally made me feel better. I don't understand it.
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makaveli8x8
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so why don't you just put your dick in your pants and be her friend? she can still make you feel happy being around her
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respect the relationship she's in
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bmiles
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you sound like a stalker.
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