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Anonymous #1
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relationship trouble - need to end it
#7963294 - 02/01/08 02:31 AM (16 years, 22 hours ago) |
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soooo, i need to write this off my mind.
been together about 1.5 years and i wasnt with a girl for many years before that, so it was sort of nice to finally get across one again.
the whole getting to know eachother was rad, lotsa romance and lotsa fun, finally a girl i could say whatever i had on my mind and i mean whatever ! when she was around, quite a difference to previous relationships.
anyways she turned my life around, to the MUCH better, and i thank her for that, i quit a lot of nasty habbits and picked up new, great hobbies, a overall change in personality, its like a new life for me.
anyway, for the past half year shit startet boiling, she obviously found out that she could allow herself to do lots of stuff with, tons of psychoterror .. me playing the good guy and seeing over it - BIG MISTAKE.
anyways, she got depressive fits more and more recently (not that i dont understand that but she isnt working on them AT ALL) yells at me, and overall talks shit. sooo ive given this relationship so much, i dont quite see why i should continue that way seeing that i get more misery out of it than good feelings. well, deal is, this sort of girl is a bit on the rare to find kind, also most of my friends who know her tell me that theyr amazed of how they can talk to her and behave around her, well ok but they dont know about the psycho headfuck i had to put up with.
anyways, the bad times outweight the good times and i need to get the balls to driver to her flat, sit down with her and tell her its over - and then finally giving her a big fat juicy smack in the face that she had coming for months when she smacked me, ive been savoring this moment.
jup, felt good typing that
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distgre1
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Re: relationship trouble - need to end it [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7964022 - 02/01/08 09:23 AM (16 years, 15 hours ago) |
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I don't want to come off as an asshole, but you said she changed your life for the better... you even said she gave you a new life? Now that she has depressive fits... your going to dump her.... and slap her?
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Re: relationship trouble - need to end it [Re: distgre1]
#7964199 - 02/01/08 10:16 AM (16 years, 14 hours ago) |
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Quote:
distgre1 said: I don't want to come off as an asshole, but you said she changed your life for the better... you even said she gave you a new life? Now that she has depressive fits... your going to dump her.... and slap her?
i see it wrote the post with insufficient detail.
the mood swings were there always, however to a far less degree than they are present now and they are always ending in she blaming me for feeling bad, and causing trouble and screaming in my face.
those however arent the reason for me wanting to quit it, its the brainfuck she puts me through, like just yesterday she suddenly leaves bed, runs out of the flat, i trace her and she tells me that she needs to get laid by someone else even though she loves me and she wants to throw herself infront of a car and all that drama, and ive simply had it with it, fed up to the max.
i tollerated her slapping me several times in the past, had her do fucked up shit in front of my mother and tons of other stuff which i happened to somehow not bring along in the initial post.
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Re: relationship trouble - need to end it [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7965173 - 02/01/08 02:27 PM (16 years, 10 hours ago) |
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if you aren't enjoying what you two share, then end it. and don't hit her, seriously, that's just bullshit.
what exactly are you asking here?
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Re: relationship trouble - need to end it [Re: demiu5]
#7965207 - 02/01/08 02:39 PM (16 years, 10 hours ago) |
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I assumed the slap thing was a metaphor
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Re: relationship trouble - need to end it [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7965514 - 02/01/08 04:08 PM (16 years, 9 hours ago) |
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I reckon she sounds like she might be borderline personality, and/or emotionally abusive. If so, you need to know that her nice side is charm and empty promises. Pay attention to her actions rather than her words and how the negative behaviours make you feel. And run. Check out these sites http://www.bpdcentral.com/index.php http://www.womanabuseprevention.com/html/emotional_abuse.html
-------------------- Computer games don't affect kids. I mean if Pacman affected our generation as kids, we'd all be running around in a darkened room, munching pills and listening to repetitive electronic music. "Being bitter and hateful is like drinking a vial of poison and hoping the other person gets sick" FreakQLibrium "My motto from here on out is: If someone or something (including me) in my life is conducting themselves in such a way that they can be seen on Jerry Springer, it's time to take out the garbage!!! When you stop taking their behaviour personally and see their antics as a true reflection on their character, it becomes absolutely nauseating." Anon. on abusive relationships.
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