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Is My Penis Too Big?
#7962342 - 01/31/08 09:48 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Well,
Me and my girlfriend who are both virgins, will be doing the deed sometime fairly soon I imagine. When it comes to the whole penis size issue though, I am very confused. The internet doesn't really give a clear answer as to whether big is good or bad. My penis is about 10-11" fully erect and I'm really confused if this is going to be painful or not for her. I'm sure the first time will hurt eitherway. But, generally speaking, is 10-11" too big?
Thanks and hopefully some girls can respond here.
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dill705
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You might fuck her up a little with a biggun' like that.
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Re: Is My Penis Too Big? [Re: dill705]
#7962434 - 01/31/08 10:05 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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This figures to be painful sex. Make sure to loosen her up a little bit by fingering and/or eating her out first. If go straight to ploddin around with that fuckin baby hippopotamus, you're liable to scar her for life.
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LoL, well since it is anonymous, no one is gonna call you on being a show off.
But uhh, hopefully she's not small is all I can say.
You better go reeeeally slow and not too deep the first... however many times, 'till she can take it.
Make sure to pay attention to if she is in pain, because if you hurt her badly, she won't want to do it again.
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Re: Is My Penis Too Big? [Re: CureCat]
#7963079 - 02/01/08 12:42 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah, if this isn't a joke, I wouldn't even try to go at it without a REALLY REALLY long foreplay session. Just build it up until you guys can't help but stay off each other. Might be hard to time everything right if its your first time though. Just make sure shes ready before you do the official deed. Also, go and get some KY - it will probably be a necessity.
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Woman on top. She controls penetration and speed. Will be easier for her. Or tell her to play with a cucumber for a week then call you!
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Re: Is My Penis Too Big? [Re: MistaUNGA]
#7963208 - 02/01/08 01:43 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yes, good call. On both accounts. heh.
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Re: Is My Penis Too Big? [Re: CureCat]
#7963289 - 02/01/08 02:27 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Woman on top. She controls penetration and speed. Will be easier for her. Or tell her to play with a cucumber for a week then call you!
solid advice
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Virus_with_Shoes
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Yeah man, take it slow at first. The vag is a very versatile organ and will expand to accommodate your wang but thou must first lick it before you stick it, as others here have so astutely pointed out.
Best of luck, young fucker.
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CureCat
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The vag is a very versatile organ and will expand to accommodate your wang
Umm, no. Not always. There are physical limits. If she is smaller than average, i have doubts about it working at all.
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Re: Is My Penis Too Big? [Re: CureCat]
#7964217 - 02/01/08 10:22 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yes there are obviously limitations but during childbirth the vag can expand to allow a child's head to pass through... it uses this ability during sex as well.
Don't discourage this guy from at least trying. OP, just do what these folks have suggested, that is, heavy on the foreplay and get her really wet then do your thing but SLOWLY at first. Or just tell her to do the cucumber thing
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Yes there are obviously limitations but during childbirth the vag can expand to allow a child's head to pass through... it uses this ability during sex as well.
And childbirth literally TEARS the vagina. It doesn't just "expand".
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Don't discourage this guy from at least trying.
I'm not. I never said "don't even try". I gave suggestions, and agreed with some other good suggestions that might help.
I'm simply saying, that I doubt he wants to hurt her, and I doubt she wants to be hurt. So, I'm just clearing up the distinctions between SEX and CHILDBIRTH. Childbirth is said to be one of the most painful experiences for a woman who chooses to go through it. I certainly doubt a woman would want to experience anything comparable a second time, unless it was necessary to get a baby out.
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Re: Is My Penis Too Big? [Re: CureCat]
#7964289 - 02/01/08 10:46 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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You're absolutely right cat, it can definitely end up being very painful for the girl. What I should have gotten across is that OP should test the waters slowly while checking if she's in pain.
It may or may not work for the girl but it's very possible that she could take it for the reasons I mentioned earlier. Start with the girl on top so she can control it.
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If a baby can come out of that thing, then his penis isn't too big.
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Re: Is My Penis Too Big? [Re: Maverick]
#7964360 - 02/01/08 11:12 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Did you totally not read my last post explaining why that is a BAD COMPARISON??
I'll recap:
Childbirth = Tearing = Pain Sex = ....?
Look. How about this. I couldn't take it without getting hurt badly. That is why I said hopefully she is not smaller than average.
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Re: Is My Penis Too Big? [Re: CureCat]
#7964871 - 02/01/08 01:04 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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hmm...
ok. thanks for the replies guys. i'm a virgin by the way too, so in no way shape or form is this thread meant to be about bragging. i'm going to be pretty gentle my first time with her because of the circumstances.
generally speaking though, is my penis too big? I mean, is sex going to be uncomfortable for most women I have sex with? growing up, guys had the idea that having a big schlong made you a man or something and I felt pretty good about myself, but after actually reading about the topic, I just don't fucking know anymore. I'm confused as shit as whether a big penis is good or not. the media drills into your head that big=good, but then I read of women saying that sex is uncomfortable for them because of the size of their boyfriends penis.
i'm just really confused here. i'm sure vagina's vary in size, but generally are all about the same.
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CureCat
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Generally speaking, there is not a "yes" or "no" answer to your question.
In terms of bragging rights, and some women who might like that size or are larger themselves, it is a good thing.
For a lot of women, it may be uncomfortable, or perhaps not even manageable. I imagine there will be very few women who will be able to comfortably fit 10 inches in them all the way. Which of course would be lame for you, since you would only get partial stimulation. If you try to go too deep, you could hit her cervix, which REALLY HURTS.
Generally (see exceptions), a larger (taller, larger bone structure- not fatter) woman would be able to comfortably fit a larger penis. So, if you date smaller chicks, you will probably have more sexual struggles.
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Virus_with_Shoes
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OP, I've actually had your problem a few times. You don't need to go all the way in and bottom out at her cervix (yikes!) for a good time. Aim for shallower penetration, which would probably be good for the both of you as the majority of her nerve endings are in the first 3 inches of her vagina anyway. Unless you are really thick (my problem) as well it shouldn't be so hard to work around it.
Cat, do you have any sources for this information about a woman's vagina depth correlating to bone structure? I can't imagine this being the case as there is no evidence to suggest that penis size correlates with bone structure in men. It sounds a bit like that big hands/big feet then big penis rule of thumb you always hear about men.
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I'm calling this guy out. He is a liar. He wants attention for some reason, even if we don't know who he is.
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Re: Is My Penis Too Big? [Re: robbyberto]
#7965680 - 02/01/08 04:45 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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robbyberto said: I'm calling this guy out. He is a liar. He wants attention for some reason, even if we don't know who he is.
Agreed. It always makes me lol when people say things like 'is 10 inches big?'.
If they're asking that question then there's a good chance they already googled it anyway.
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