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masturbation
#7947019 - 01/28/08 07:21 PM (16 years, 4 days ago) |
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I'm all for it!!!! Love to do it. However, its killing my relationship!! My boyfriend also loves it. We have very active sex lives, and have been having sex like 10 times a week since we started dating, one year ago. Now, he's not always ready to go that often which is understandable. HOWEVER, almost EVERYDAY while I'm working, he jerks off. Sometimes, this often makes him not in the mood later on when I am.
Then I get mad, and I'm jealous I guess. Am I requiring too much? I know we should tone down the sex, to keep it interesting, but I want to please him, instead of his hand.
Is he being an ass like I feel? Or am I being silly?
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makaveli8x8
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how are you anonymous i don't get it?
anyways if he likes jerking off more than having sex you should ask yourself why.
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appleorange
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I'm a guy for the record.
Most guys just like to beat their meat, it has absolutely nothing to do with you, trust me. Don't look for fault in yourself because there isn't any.
It does sound like he needs some self-control though.
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memes
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it's not you, it's guy time.
guys need a certain period of time to themselves everyday, away from their woman, to just sit and do nothing. It's their time, and masterbation is he ultimate relaxation. Bong + pr0n = relAx. He probably takes a nap while you're at work too.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said: Sometimes, this often makes him not in the mood later on when I am.
This is the problem. I have problem with the masturbation itself. Hell I understand very very well! But when it takes away from our sex life, I feel shitty. And I think he should learn to curb this desire SOMETIMES... thats not too much to ask?
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said:
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Anonymous said: Sometimes, this often makes him not in the mood later on when I am.
This is the problem. I have problem with the masturbation itself. Hell I understand very very well! But when it takes away from our sex life, I feel shitty. And I think he should learn to curb this desire SOMETIMES... thats not too much to ask?
correction: I DONT have a prob with the masturbation itself ****
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ohmatic
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masturbation can be so much more better than sex .. just sayin'
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Re: masturbation [Re: ohmatic]
#7950535 - 01/29/08 02:04 PM (16 years, 3 days ago) |
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weed + sex = tha lyfe!
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sherm
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Maybe its just easier to beat off while your not home cause he knows you're just gonna start bitching when you get home and its easier to just beat off before you get there, than it is to deal with your bullshit and try to fuck you.
this may not apply to your situation no offense just something to think about
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Re: masturbation [Re: sherm]
#7950792 - 01/29/08 03:09 PM (16 years, 3 days ago) |
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I've never turned down sex from a girlfriend and never will. Ill fuck 100 times a day if its ok lol
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Re: masturbation [Re: Cubie]
#7950882 - 01/29/08 03:31 PM (16 years, 3 days ago) |
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Maybe his sex drive is really high too, and he has a hard time waiting until you get home. Then it just takes a little bit for his pee pee to get hard again. It's not a problem with you.
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Re: masturbation [Re: sherm]
#7951537 - 01/29/08 05:26 PM (16 years, 3 days ago) |
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sherm said: Maybe its just easier to beat off while your not home cause he knows you're just gonna start bitching when you get home and its easier to just beat off before you get there, than it is to deal with your bullshit and try to fuck you.
this may not apply to your situation no offense just something to think about
Thats way way off. I dont start bitching and he doesnt have to "try" to fuck me. I'm always down. We both have high sex drives. I only bitch, when its been hours after I've been home, and I'm trying to have sex, and he seemingly wants to and cant get it up because he's been whackin. Or it's me? I find that hard to believe though, cuz when he hasnt been jerking off he's all over me and ready to go. I seem to think, correct me if i'm wrong, but I deserve, once in a while, for him to wait for me, no matter how hard it is.
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makaveli8x8
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maybe you should stop waiting for him? and then things will balance themselves out...and if they don't then you know you have some serious issues to work out
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Maybe he really wants too but he actuley can't get it up... Ill take his place :p
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Cubie
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Maybe he really wants too but he actuley can't get it up... And its all an excuse Ill take his place :p
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Mezcal
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Simple idea:
Come home for your lunch break.
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Iolaa
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the solution, i believe, is quite simple. in fact the idea has already sort of been mentioned. you should masturbate a LOT. then when he hella really wanna does, you won't be horny. then he'll get all butthurt about it, and then you bitch him out and have steamy hot make up sex.
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Re: masturbation [Re: Iolaa]
#7953003 - 01/29/08 09:23 PM (16 years, 3 days ago) |
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also you should set up some nanny cams around the house to make sure its actually his hand doing the work
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Re: masturbation [Re: Iolaa]
#7953011 - 01/29/08 09:25 PM (16 years, 3 days ago) |
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Just buy yourself a vibrator. If you like to masterbate anyways.
I doubt him masterbating is the reason y'all aren't having sex. Look elsewhere for the cause. Has is gotten too routine? Maybe you just need to take the initiative, I mean surely if you just start going down on him he's not going to say "No thanks, I'm not in the mood".
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Anonymous said: I'm all for it!!!! Love to do it. However, its killing my relationship!! My boyfriend also loves it. We have very active sex lives, and have been having sex like 10 times a week since we started dating, one year ago. Now, he's not always ready to go that often which is understandable. HOWEVER, almost EVERYDAY while I'm working, he jerks off. Sometimes, this often makes him not in the mood later on when I am.
Then I get mad, and I'm jealous I guess. Am I requiring too much? I know we should tone down the sex, to keep it interesting, but I want to please him, instead of his hand.
Is he being an ass like I feel? Or am I being silly?
god damn why cant i find a girl like you?
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Re: masturbation [Re: Cubie]
#7953363 - 01/29/08 10:21 PM (16 years, 3 days ago) |
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Cubie said: Maybe he really wants too but he actually can't get it up... Ill take his place :p
i though i already responded to this but i guess it didnt work... He can def get it up. He gets it up for porno. Mind you this problem never happens if its oral sex. And the PROBLEM is, it's not that he cant get it up. Its that once we start, after a few minutes, (he says when he's about ot come) he goes soft. leaving us both unsatisfied.
Also, I do initiate. Often, and he'll tell me not right now, or what i've explained above will happen. Third case scenario, we have INCREDIBLE SEX...like INCREDIBLE..where we are connected, so I dont think he's unattracted to me...or what.. I just wonder, if he really cant stop himself from beating, if his dick just wont come now? or what?
but i'm def easy going, and available..
but thanks for all your advice boys. Maybe i'll try giving him a taste of his own medicine. for a lack of a nicer sounding term
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makaveli8x8 said: also you should set up some nanny cams around the house to make sure its actually his hand doing the work
I dont need nanny cams. I trust him. Also my computer has a history, and unless this possible adulteress likes the same shit he does..its just him beating his meat.
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Iolaa
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well, if it's THAT incredible...why do you have to complain. getting some that is THAT incedible should do you for some time.
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Iolaa, what if half the time you went to have sex with your girlfriend..and right when you were gettin into it..her pussy dried up and spit you out....with no re-entry..Then she said..."sorrrrrry, i came earlier". How'd you feel? And is that not worth complaining about, on some level?
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Cubie
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For real
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makaveli8x8
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Re: masturbation [Re: Cubie]
#7953902 - 01/29/08 11:43 PM (16 years, 3 days ago) |
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her pussy dried up and spit you out....with no re-entry..Then she said..."sorrrrrry, i came earlier"
sounds like when i was born
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Iolaa
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i mean...it did happen a couple times. it sucked, but i got over it. sex should not be the defining factor in a relationship. thank GOD i've taken a vow of celebacy since then. sex only complicates things. If it is THAT strong of a factor in the relationship, then you may want to reconsider your relationship.
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Cubie
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Re: masturbation [Re: Iolaa]
#7954388 - 01/30/08 02:34 AM (16 years, 2 days ago) |
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Every time you masturbate god kills a kitten...0is it worth it scooby?
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Re: masturbation [Re: Cubie]
#7954390 - 01/30/08 02:36 AM (16 years, 2 days ago) |
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Cubie said: Every time you masturbate god kills a kitten...0is it worth it scooby?
definitely !
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