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sdaddio
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my girlfriend broke up with me
#7932300 - 01/25/08 09:31 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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so she broke up with me tonight, anyone got some words of wisdom as to how I can stop feeling like I wanna die. Also if anyone needs a roomate in the milwaukee area I need a place to live (she is kicking me out...)
-------------------- "The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over. " -Dr. Hunter S. Thompson (RIP)
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mycopsycho
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Re: my girlfriend broke up with me [Re: sdaddio]
#7932310 - 01/25/08 09:34 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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you should try meditation. it can be a great way to help get passed tough situations. i used it when my father died and it helped get passed the sorrow and stop drinking so much. if i lived near you man i'd room up with yah but alas im in NY
-------------------- I Am The Sickness. Diploid: I think adults have a right to make stupid decisions and it's nobody else's fucking business.
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sdaddio
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Re: my girlfriend broke up with me [Re: mycopsycho]
#7932311 - 01/25/08 09:36 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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ya, maybe ill try some meditation, i did some writing and that made me feel a little better. . . kinda wanna put my head through a wall still tho.
-------------------- "The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over. " -Dr. Hunter S. Thompson (RIP)
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Re: my girlfriend broke up with me [Re: mycopsycho]
#7932313 - 01/25/08 09:36 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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Give it some time, you will feel fine in awhile.
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Re: my girlfriend broke up with me [Re: sdaddio]
#7932314 - 01/25/08 09:36 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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Damn dude that sucks.
My best advice is to try and forget about her. Go do something that will get your mind off of it, another girl does the trick nicely.
Keep your chin up dude, you don't need her and there are plenty more out there.
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Re: my girlfriend broke up with me [Re: sdaddio]
#7932322 - 01/25/08 09:39 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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sdaddio said: ya, maybe ill try some meditation, i did some writing and that made me feel a little better. . . kinda wanna put my head through a wall still tho.
writing deffinately helps. one of the last serious relationships i was in ended bad and i felt like shit for a while after it but i started writing poetry and it was a great way for me to expresss my emotions in a private way.
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fuck either her sister, mother, best friend, or all of the above.
Then meditate and just get out and keep busy
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Re: my girlfriend broke up with me [Re: learningtofly]
#7932328 - 01/25/08 09:40 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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the fucking idea is just bad... i hope that was a joke. revenge is going to make you feel like shit later so dont resort to it.
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sdaddio
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Re: my girlfriend broke up with me [Re: learningtofly]
#7932333 - 01/25/08 09:42 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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I think my first step is going to be to smoke a bowl and consider my options... fuck apartments are expensive. porn stores need to pay more than 8 dollars an hour for real... Id make a great roomate, any offers?
-------------------- "The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over. " -Dr. Hunter S. Thompson (RIP)
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Re: my girlfriend broke up with me [Re: sdaddio]
#7932356 - 01/25/08 09:47 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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sdaddio said: I think my first step is going to be to smoke a bowl and consider my options...
That's the first step I take in any new or different circumstances. Glad you've already thought of it.
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sdaddio
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Re: my girlfriend broke up with me [Re: sdaddio]
#7932359 - 01/25/08 09:48 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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it just sucks, cause Im totally torn, she was kind of a bitch, so I kind of wanted to break up with her, but on the other hand we've been together for a year and i love her, so i dont know I kind of feel shitty and also a little releaved at the same time...
-------------------- "The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over. " -Dr. Hunter S. Thompson (RIP)
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Re: my girlfriend broke up with me [Re: sdaddio]
#7932372 - 01/25/08 09:50 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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just smoke a bowl and let your mind wander onto other shit.once your not thinking about her or the breakup try clearing your mind out except for one image that makes you feel comfortable and then hold that for a while until your stress levels have gone down enough to think clearly.
-------------------- I Am The Sickness. Diploid: I think adults have a right to make stupid decisions and it's nobody else's fucking business.
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Re: my girlfriend broke up with me [Re: Gr8fulJ420]
#7932385 - 01/25/08 09:52 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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sorry to hear that man... give it time, its hard to lose someone, but put your focus towards the things you are passionate about. start a new hobbie, accomplish/set goals for yourself. also girls love guys that just got out of a relationship
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Re: my girlfriend broke up with me [Re: bmiles]
#7932405 - 01/25/08 09:58 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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It was kindof like i saw it coming a little bit, but it still hurts like hell, you know? I just want the pain to go away. err it feels like i wasted a whole year! fuck
-------------------- "The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over. " -Dr. Hunter S. Thompson (RIP)
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Re: my girlfriend broke up with me [Re: sdaddio]
#7932412 - 01/25/08 09:59 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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get out of the house, go have fun. do the things she wouldn't let you do.
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mycopsycho
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Re: my girlfriend broke up with me [Re: sdaddio]
#7932414 - 01/25/08 10:00 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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did you get stoned yet man? get blazed and do some meditation and get back to us. you need to clear your mind of this negative shit for a while.
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kidaihuan
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Re: my girlfriend broke up with me [Re: mycopsycho]
#7932427 - 01/25/08 10:04 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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I'm going to agree with smoking a bowl. Keep smoking whenever you feel down. Don't start drinking.
Get some female friends and if you feel like talking about the breakup, talk to them about it. Women are good with this stuff.
Don't be alone too much and don't try to devise any plans to get her back. They don't fucking work.
Sometimes, if you want to try to get over her, though, the best way to do it is with revenge. It'll make you feel better and afterwards, you won't want her back and you won't be upset she left. Try posting her nude pictures up in her apartment building or emailing it to her boss, for starters. Don't do anything that could get you in trouble though.
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I'm in the exact same situation bro, my girlfriend broke up with me a couple of days ago too. We had been together 2 years and I'm still madly in love with her.
I could see it coming for about a week, after she got back from a holiday without me something had changed.
I've been trying my best to distract myself, hanging out with friends etc. The worst thing is though there's a major weed shortage at the moment so I haven't been able to smoke my sorrows away.
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Re: my girlfriend broke up with me [Re: kidaihuan]
#7932431 - 01/25/08 10:06 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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kidaihuan said: I'm going to agree with smoking a bowl. Keep smoking whenever you feel down. Don't start drinking.
Get some female friends and if you feel like talking about the breakup, talk to them about it. Women are good with this stuff.
Don't be alone too much and don't try to devise any plans to get her back. They don't fucking work.
Sometimes, if you want to try to get over her, though, the best way to do it is with revenge. It'll make you feel better and afterwards, you won't want her back and you won't be upset she left. Try posting her nude pictures up in her apartment building or emailing it to her boss, for starters. Don't do anything that could get you in trouble though.
no drinking and no revenge. those are dead ends and nothing good will come from them.
-------------------- I Am The Sickness. Diploid: I think adults have a right to make stupid decisions and it's nobody else's fucking business.
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