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Anonymous #8
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #2]
#7931135 - 01/25/08 05:41 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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Anonymous said: And WTF is a marriage? She is obviously unhappy, he is obviously a jerk. Why should SHE stay with him just because they're "married"?
A marriage is a commitment between two consenting adults. I'm not saying she has to stay with him, but don't you think she should at least TRY to address the situation before ending it?
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #8]
#7931284 - 01/25/08 06:11 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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She should tape him, confront him with it while sober and issue an ultimatum. When he doesnt change leave, and live with a family member for a few months. Then she will give him a second chance, and the process can start over again until somebody dies or they get a divorce.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #7]
#7933539 - 01/26/08 02:29 AM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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Viewing your situation from outside the box, I think that it's imperative that you immediatley dry smash his shit box.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #5]
#7933558 - 01/26/08 02:36 AM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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boxhead
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Anonymous #13
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #5]
#7933591 - 01/26/08 02:49 AM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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Anonymous said: Viewing your situation from outside the box, I think that it's imperative that you immediatley dry smash his shit box.
QFT
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Anonymous #14
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #6]
#7933594 - 01/26/08 02:51 AM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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Ill take over for him
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Anonymous #15
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #2]
#7933623 - 01/26/08 03:08 AM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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Anonymous said: And WTF is a marriage? She is obviously unhappy, he is obviously a jerk. Why should SHE stay with him just because they're "married"? I can't believe how many irrational stuff people believe in. Please tell me exactly what's the difference? A fucking paper? Does this make their relationship more valuable? Or is REAL human connection more valuable? The connection that these two lack of? She has the right to be happy and I honestly and strongly believe that this situation will only make her unhappy and more depressed about HER OWN person. Get a divorce girl, nothing in this world deserves the sacrifice you're making. Life is to be enjoyed, and from what it looks to me you can't enjoy it anymore. Plus, this way you'll have the change to find REAL love.
You are a Fucking Idiot.
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Anonymous #16
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #12]
#7933627 - 01/26/08 03:09 AM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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find a real man and stop bitching about it.
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Anonymous #17
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7933629 - 01/26/08 03:10 AM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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damnit woman, you don't love me!!!
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #15]
#7933860 - 01/26/08 07:34 AM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
Quote:
Anonymous said: And WTF is a marriage? She is obviously unhappy, he is obviously a jerk. Why should SHE stay with him just because they're "married"? I can't believe how many irrational stuff people believe in. Please tell me exactly what's the difference? A fucking paper? Does this make their relationship more valuable? Or is REAL human connection more valuable? The connection that these two lack of? She has the right to be happy and I honestly and strongly believe that this situation will only make her unhappy and more depressed about HER OWN person. Get a divorce girl, nothing in this world deserves the sacrifice you're making. Life is to be enjoyed, and from what it looks to me you can't enjoy it anymore. Plus, this way you'll have the change to find REAL love.
You are a Fucking Idiot.
Ahhh you're just an ass who's afraid that his wife/future wife will do the same with you when she'll realize what kind of a loser you are
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #2]
#7934192 - 01/26/08 10:01 AM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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Well everyone has been making me smile at least.
But like I said earlier the situation has been addressed, more than once. Unfortunately you can't make someone quit drinking.
To be honest I don't know if there's much hope here. My problem is I agree with both sides of this debate.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7934244 - 01/26/08 10:20 AM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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True. And you are responsible ONLY for your happiness. Pursue it.
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Anonymous #18
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #3]
#7934461 - 01/26/08 11:16 AM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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Anonymous said: Fuck that above advice, I was like that until my wife pulled me aside and told me how she felt so I stopped and switched to smoking tons of pot instead which she likes better, though she doesn't smoke she prefers it over drinking, as do i. Tell him how you feel and then if he doesn't change leave him. Hopefully he will get the message.
Every single women out there has this anxiety. Its about telling people things. Its really odd. I don't quite understand it, but apparently women are unable to tell people things that can be hurtful to ones ego.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #18]
#7934788 - 01/26/08 12:31 PM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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Every single women out there has this anxiety. Its about telling people things. Its really odd. I don't quite understand it, but apparently women are unable to tell people things that can be hurtful to ones ego.
And you know this how?  I am a woman and I have no problem with telling things that might hurt one's ego. It is true that for a very long while I felt VERY uncomfortable doing that, but then I realized that the only way to feel good about life is to become honest and look for honesty. What I DON'T like to do is impost my will on others, especially on my partner.
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Anonymous #13
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #2]
#7934989 - 01/26/08 01:07 PM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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Anonymous said: What I DON'T like to do is impost my will on others, especially on my partner.
that's not always a bad thing ya know
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Anonymous #19
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #13]
#7935003 - 01/26/08 01:10 PM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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"For Entertainment purposes only. If rash or irritation occurs, discontinue use."
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #13]
#7935017 - 01/26/08 01:11 PM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
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Anonymous said: What I DON'T like to do is impost my will on others, especially on my partner.
that's not always a bad thing ya know
I never referred to sex, case in which you're ABSOLUTELY right
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Anonymous #19
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #2]
#7935039 - 01/26/08 01:14 PM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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Sheesh, FWG & MT, don't you two ever get tired of flirting?
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #19]
#7935069 - 01/26/08 01:19 PM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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No
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Anonymous #8
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Re: Sometimes I despise my husband [Re: Anonymous #2]
#7936251 - 01/26/08 05:25 PM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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I do. FWG just won't quit
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