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Women & Casual Sex
    #7926268 - 01/24/08 08:07 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Taken from:

http://www.museumofhoaxes.com/hoax/Top/ecomments/4754/

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"If you were a man walking across the campus of Florida State University in 1978, an attractive young woman might have approached you and said these exact words: "I have been noticing you around campus. I find you to be attractive. Would you go to bed with me tonight?"

If you were that man, you probably would have thought that you had just gotten incredibly lucky. But not really. You were actually an unwitting subject in an experiment designed by the psychologist Russell Clark.

Clark had persuaded the students of his social psychology class to help him find out which gender, in a real-life situation, would be more receptive to a sexual offer from a stranger. The only way to find out, he figured, was to actually get out there and see what would happen. So young men and women from his class fanned out across campus and began propositioning strangers.

The results weren't very surprising. Seventy-five percent of guys were happy to oblige an attractive female stranger (and those who said no typically offered an excuse such as, "I'm married"). But not a single woman accepted the identical offer of an attractive male. In fact, most of them demanded the guy leave her alone.

At first the psychological community dismissed Clark's experiment as a trivial stunt, but gradually his experiment gained first acceptance, and then praise for how dramatically it revealed the differing sexual attitudes of men and women. Today it's considered a classic. But why men and women display such different attitudes remains as hotly debated as ever."

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My question is, why the completely different attitude towards sex? There's not a guy on this board who would turn down a hot chick whom he never met, for a nasty at the motel 6. But I seriously doubt there there is any woman on this board, aside from Crystal G, who would do the same if some stud approached her.

I definitely have my own thoughts and opinions on this, but I just wanna hear what some of the females have to say here. Try not to reply with "he might be a serial killer or a perv" because I highly doubt that this is what is going on here.

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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: appleorange]
    #7926407 - 01/24/08 08:27 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

:lol: That's pretty funny. I think if someone walked up to me and asked me if I'd go to bed with them I'd initially be taken aback and probably not know how to respond immediately. To be entirely honest, if they were my type physically and style-wise and asked in a way that was light hearted and not too intense, I'd probably consider saying yes. Maybe I'd suggest going for a drink in order to have more time and information necessary for a decision. If they weren't the type I was attracted to, I'd probably be totally creeped out.

75% of men said yes, eh? Hmm... that gives me hope that the total babe in english class wouldn't be wierded out by a forward approach... I'm trying to be more blunt in most areas of social interaction, so this seems like a worthy experiment! :yesnod:


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: appleorange]
    #7926454 - 01/24/08 08:32 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Oh yeah, and as to 'why' the different attitudes: socialisation.

Women are taught in our culture that having no-strings-attached spontaneous sex is SLUTTY, and that being slutty is beyond reproach. Women are taught that a good man could never love a woman with any history of sluttiness... that promiscuity is an invitation to abuse.

Men are taught that they should want as much sex as possible, and dread being 'tied down.' That they are proven powerful if they get as much as they can.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: NiamhNyx]
    #7926541 - 01/24/08 08:44 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

haha,

even niamh alluded to how it would be nice to get a drink first and chat before doing the deed. :smirk:


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: appleorange] * 1
    #7926676 - 01/24/08 09:00 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Aside from the obvious socialization reasons, there may also be evolutionary reasons why men say "yes" to a stranger, but women say "hell no!"

If a man gets a woman pregnant, his role is pretty much over. His genes have been passed on to the next generation, and he is an evolutionary success. However, when a woman gets pregnant, she has 40 weeks of gestation to contend with. She needs to have enough food to grow a human being, enough shelter and time to relax to prevent a miscarriage or premature birth, and help during labor and the early weeks of infancy.

Thus, it makes sense that women who are naturally cautious in their choice of sexual partners would be more likely to pass on their genes, as well as to teach their daughters to be similarly cautious. Eventually, this caution would become part of our socialization process for females, and be passed on to the few females who descended from incautious women.

Then if we throw in the general tendency for men to be more violent than women, and the general tendency for women to be smaller and more vulnerable than men, it makes sense that a woman would say "hell no!"


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
    #7926718 - 01/24/08 09:08 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Quote:

Veritas said:
Aside from the obvious socialization reasons, there may also be evolutionary reasons why men say "yes" to a stranger, but women say "hell no!"

If a man gets a woman pregnant, his role is pretty much over. His genes have been passed on to the next generation, and he is an evolutionary success. However, when a woman gets pregnant, she has 40 weeks of gestation to contend with. She needs to have enough food to grow a human being, enough shelter and time to relax to prevent a miscarriage or premature birth, and help during labor and the early weeks of infancy.

Thus, it makes sense that women who are naturally cautious in their choice of sexual partners would be more likely to pass on their genes, as well as to teach their daughters to be similarly cautious. Eventually, this caution would become part of our socialization process for females, and be passed on to the few females who descended from incautious women.

Then if we throw in the general tendency for men to be more violent than women, and the general tendency for women to be smaller and more vulnerable than men, it makes sense that a woman would say "hell no!"




you pretty much summed up my thoughts.

I think it's mostly an evolutionary thing tossed in with a pinch of women needing to be skeptical of strangers.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: appleorange] * 1
    #7926765 - 01/24/08 09:16 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Which would ALSO be an evolutionary thing, as the women who trust strangers would be more likely to end up dead & therefore not pass on their genes. :shrug:

I like a nice balance of curiosity, trust & caution myself.  It leads to more adventures!  :naughty:


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
    #7926824 - 01/24/08 09:24 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

I don't believe in casual sex either, which is why I frequently wear a tuxedo.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
    #7926828 - 01/24/08 09:25 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

"Be Prepared"?  :lol:


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
    #7926852 - 01/24/08 09:29 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Not as in getting married, I just believe in formal sex.

As the black guy who went in to get a vasectomy wearing a tuxedo said, "If I's gonna be impotent, I wants to look impotent!"


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
    #7926870 - 01/24/08 09:31 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Edit: never mind. Damn those lesser-used definitions!


Edited by Veritas (01/24/08 09:33 PM)


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
    #7926887 - 01/24/08 09:33 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

It was a quote, dearie - challenge the author. (Ruin my joke! :mad2:)


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: appleorange]
    #7927228 - 01/24/08 10:28 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

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But not a single woman accepted the identical offer of an attractive male. In fact, most of them demanded the guy leave her alone.




haha, that's funny. especially since this was done at FSU


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Cracka_X]
    #7927404 - 01/24/08 11:01 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

I would be interested to see if the results would be the same now as in '78. I bet they wouldn't be.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: mushbaby]
    #7927441 - 01/24/08 11:06 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

I'm sure you're right. What would be really interesting is how much different they might be. It would also be interesting to try the experiment in a variety of locations and in different cultures and compare the differences.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: NiamhNyx]
    #7927445 - 01/24/08 11:08 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Yes I think the majority would still be the same. But a few more guys would say no and a few more girls would say yes.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: mushbaby]
    #7927590 - 01/24/08 11:34 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Im not sure if there would be much of a change from the man perspective but i think your right about the females. If you go to a night club or a rave there seems to be plenty of women there who dont mind casual sex.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: DimensionX]
    #7927934 - 01/25/08 12:55 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

So if you asked women to go for a cup of coffee and then have sex percentages would become more even?
They should do some research on that. How much coffee does it require for a woman to want to have sex with a man?


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Kamek] * 1
    #7927964 - 01/25/08 01:01 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

A more interesting research would be: how much coffee is it necessary in order to make a man stop wanting to have sex with a woman? :lol:


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: MushroomTrip]
    #7927988 - 01/25/08 01:04 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Unless you can OD on coffee I think no amount would be enough.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Kamek]
    #7928138 - 01/25/08 01:49 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

My friend told me a sleezy yet funny way to proposition a women with casual sex. You wear a hands free phone kit. Sit down next to her and say "how do you feel about sex tonight" or something similar. If she says no you point to the hands free in your ear and tell her you were talking to someone else.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: DimensionX]
    #7928714 - 01/25/08 07:08 AM (16 years, 7 days ago)

Its strange how women dress all slutty but then complain if you ask them for sex.

But yet if you butter them up with some cheesy bullshit and a nice night out they will let you hit it.

Seems men are just more honest about it.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Ego Death]
    #7928734 - 01/25/08 07:19 AM (16 years, 7 days ago)

It's strange how some men think that they have the right to behave like shit heads with women who dress "slutty".
It's what rapists say when asked about their reasons: she tempted me, she provoked me. :rolleyes:
The matter of fact is that NO remains NO, no matter what the circumstances are.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: appleorange] * 1
    #7929011 - 01/25/08 09:21 AM (16 years, 7 days ago)

My question is, why the completely different attitude towards sex?

Many men aren't to be trusted, are pigs and are stronger and more violent. If men acted  more humanely in general I would bet you would see some eager females. Plus the fact that if a woman takes a man up on such an offer our culture condemns her as a slut. She can't win.

I posted before I read your post Veritas. I don't know why I bother.:lol:


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Edited by Icelander (01/25/08 09:24 AM)


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Icelander] * 1
    #7929043 - 01/25/08 09:31 AM (16 years, 7 days ago)

I think that there would be an increased quantity AND quality of sex if men and women became more flexible in their gender performance. It seems to me that people become locked-in to a polarized version of "man" or "woman" and will not allow themselves to express the opposite qualities. Polarized gender performance can be sexually exciting, but not 100% of the time.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
    #7929307 - 01/25/08 11:09 AM (16 years, 7 days ago)

Quote:

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I think that there would be an increased quantity AND quality of sex if men and women became more flexible in their gender performance.  It seems to me that people become locked-in to a polarized version of "man" or "woman" and will not allow themselves to express the opposite qualities.  Polarized gender performance can be sexually exciting, but not 100% of the time.




Absolutely!! :thumbup:


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas] * 1
    #7929586 - 01/25/08 12:33 PM (16 years, 7 days ago)

Quote:

Veritas said:
If a man gets a woman pregnant, his role is pretty much over. His genes have been passed on to the next generation, and he is an evolutionary success. However, when a woman gets pregnant, she has 40 weeks of gestation to contend with. She needs to have enough food to grow a human being, enough shelter and time to relax to prevent a miscarriage or premature birth, and help during labor and the early weeks of infancy.




Exactly. I don't understand why everyone is so quick to rush to the "it is all because of culture" conclusion. Almost every female mammal is more selective than her male counterpart. The cost-benefit analysis for reproduction for males is awesome - small energy expenditure, can mate again in the same day, and has no other obligations after sex. It doesn't matter if a male mates with an undesirable female, because the cost of mating is so damn low.

As you mentioned, the cost of mating for a female is huge. In that case, she better mate with the best possible piece of ass she can find and reject everything else.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: MushmanTheManic]
    #7929609 - 01/25/08 12:37 PM (16 years, 7 days ago)

In that case, she better mate with the best possible piece of ass she can find and reject everything else.


That's where Icelander cums in!

(I wish)


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: MushmanTheManic]
    #7929687 - 01/25/08 12:54 PM (16 years, 7 days ago)

It makes evolutionary sex (edit: sense what was that? some kind of freudian slip?) for women to also opt for a wider selection of partners. If she has several partners around the time of ovulation she can be assured the best possible swimmers make it to the finish line, thus ensuring she gets the best genes. She would still want to be selective about her prospective mates, but there's usually more than one total babe floating around at any given time.

Men, on the other hand, may have an evolutionary incentive for controlling the sexuality of women, because women who philander could carry another man's baby unbeknownst to man#1. So if a man wants to make sure he really is passing on his genes he may be inclined to set up social institutions that make women think they're dirty, or simply punish them, for following thier natural inclination to explore various gene pools.

You can interpret this evolution thing in a whole lotta ways. :shrug:


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: mushbaby]
    #7929716 - 01/25/08 01:00 PM (16 years, 7 days ago)

Actually, I saw a documentary a few months ago where they re-did this experiment in Brittan, I think it was. This happened in the summer of 2006. The findings...

THE SAME RESULTS AS IN 1978!

Not one female said yes to the stranger, but at least 75% of the men said yes. Both strangers were what I would consider "good looking".


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: NiamhNyx] * 1
    #7929784 - 01/25/08 01:16 PM (16 years, 7 days ago)

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She would still want to be selective about her prospective mates, but there's usually more than one total babe floating around at any given time.





But will the total babe be there when she is pregnant or devoting her attention to a newborn? There is more to genetic transmission than insemination, you also need to assure the survival of your offspring.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: NiamhNyx]
    #7929841 - 01/25/08 01:30 PM (16 years, 7 days ago)

What a mess.:monkeydance:


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
    #7929861 - 01/25/08 01:33 PM (16 years, 7 days ago)

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She would still want to be selective about her prospective mates, but there's usually more than one total babe floating around at any given time.





But will the total babe be there when she is pregnant or devoting her attention to a newborn? There is more to genetic transmission than insemination, you also need to assure the survival of your offspring.




True. But don't forget that for many hundreds of thousands of years of our evolutionary past, people raised children in communities-- not in isolated nuclear families. There are plenty of cultures that don't see men as having much of anything to do with the making of babies. If the instinctual prerogative was for a woman to find a man to take care of her babies, I don't see how there would be such diversity in the manner in which children are raised and regarded, and with the types of marriage and sexual relations that occur.


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    #7929873 - 01/25/08 01:35 PM (16 years, 7 days ago)

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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: NiamhNyx]
    #7929888 - 01/25/08 01:38 PM (16 years, 7 days ago)

Because it is not the only prerogative. When a woman gets turned on by a man, she is not usually thinking "I bet he'd make a great father!" Sexual attraction is a big part of sexual selection, and (as I said on a different thread) introduces one of many confounding factors into the mix.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Chronic7]
    #7929901 - 01/25/08 01:41 PM (16 years, 7 days ago)

It's all in how you ask.

When I was a kid I was wearing my bondage pants without drawers and my crotch ripped, and some girl saw my weiner hanging out, and she came right onto me and we ended up going into the parking lot to screw. I admit I got a bit limp from all the speed I was snorting especially when she started screaming from me eating her pussy. Underground parking lots make alot of echo. I was fourteen. So what?

Anyway, I used to believe I could have any girl. (When I was masturbating :O)


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
    #7929904 - 01/25/08 01:42 PM (16 years, 7 days ago)

It's definitly a complicated puzzle to solve...


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: NiamhNyx]
    #7929909 - 01/25/08 01:43 PM (16 years, 7 days ago)

No need to solve it to enjoy it!  :wink:

Casual sex, committed sex, fun sex, rowdy sex, loving sex, gentle sex, sleepy sex...it's all terrific!


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
    #7929912 - 01/25/08 01:44 PM (16 years, 7 days ago)

Yep, even limp dick sex can be fun. You can really work that clit. It's a bad pick up line but it works on old bar girls.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
    #7929917 - 01/25/08 01:45 PM (16 years, 7 days ago)

Hahah, you're right. By 'solve' I meant, figure out the best evolutionary psychology theory, not figure out how to select a partner in keeping with evolutionary prerogatives. :lol:


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    #7929918 - 01/25/08 01:45 PM (16 years, 7 days ago)

I think that women probably think all sorts of things when looking at their boyfriends.  :shrug:


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
    #7929932 - 01/25/08 01:47 PM (16 years, 7 days ago)

sorry I changed that post. i offended myself.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: MushroomTrip] * 1
    #7933416 - 01/26/08 01:50 AM (16 years, 7 days ago)

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It's strange how some men think that they have the right to behave like shit heads with women who dress "slutty".
It's what rapists say when asked about their reasons: she tempted me, she provoked me. :rolleyes:
The matter of fact is that NO remains NO, no matter what the circumstances are.




No shit sherlock.

Your answer has nothing to do with the questions posed, rape isn't the issue.

The issue is what makes a female consent.  If your gonna rape then obviously you don't need consent.:boxerface:


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Kamek]
    #7933782 - 01/26/08 06:02 AM (16 years, 6 days ago)

I read something ages ago in NewScientist where they ended up finding out that women want sex to fulfill the need to have children and not entirely for the pleasure.
Men on the other hand have sex for pleasure they figured, and therefore, were trying to fulfill a desire, and not a long-term urge like women.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: hillbilly32]
    #7934062 - 01/26/08 09:06 AM (16 years, 6 days ago)

I don't think so. That does not sound like the result of any research on sexuality I've ever read. Link or it didn't happen.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
    #7934227 - 01/26/08 10:11 AM (16 years, 6 days ago)

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No need to solve it to enjoy it!  :wink:

Casual sex, committed sex, fun sex, rowdy sex, loving sex, gentle sex, sleepy sex...it's all terrific!




With the exception of drunk sex.  Or at least too drunk sex.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: mushbaby]
    #7934234 - 01/26/08 10:17 AM (16 years, 6 days ago)

Even when it's bad it's good...

Don't forget mind melding tantric tripping sex. :thumbup:


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: mushbaby]
    #7934237 - 01/26/08 10:17 AM (16 years, 6 days ago)

What's wrong with drunk sex? :what:


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: MushroomTrip]
    #7934507 - 01/26/08 11:28 AM (16 years, 6 days ago)

Well. some drunk sex is GREAT! But too drunk sex is when the guy can't stay hard or can't find it or can't keep a decent rhythem. That kind of sex is not worth having.

Now tripping sex, HELL YES! Although I have a slight issue with trying not to giggle. The harder I try not to giggle the more I do.

I have not had a partner that I have been able to have tantric sex with. So I have no opinion on it. Sounds very interesting.

As far as casual sex (to try to stay on topic) although I might want to have it with an attractive man who just came straight up and asked me. I know I would say no. For sex to be really good (and why bother having it if it isn't good) I need to be with someone I am comfortable with. It would just feel too awkward. I would like to believe I could have casual sex with someone and consider it just physical pleasure because that's the way alot of media touts it these days. But I know for me sex is more than just two bodies giving each other pleasure.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: mushbaby] * 1
    #7934772 - 01/26/08 12:27 PM (16 years, 6 days ago)

I think that casual sex is great for when you don't want to commit into anything and still have sex and personally, I think that there's absolutely nothing wrong with two (or more :hehehe:) bodies giving each other pleasure. :yesnod:
Of course, when there's also deep connection that things are so much better, but casual sex serves it's purpose and it's a very good therapy for those with inhibitions.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: NiamhNyx]
    #7935107 - 01/26/08 01:27 PM (16 years, 6 days ago)

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Men, on the other hand, may have an evolutionary incentive for controlling the sexuality of women, because women who philander could carry another man's baby unbeknownst to man#1. So if a man wants to make sure he really is passing on his genes he may be inclined to set up social institutions that make women think they're dirty, or simply punish them, for following thier natural inclination to explore various gene pools.




For a man that is willing to father a child, cuckoldry can be quite a big problem. From the standpoint of genetic fitness, it is disastrous. This is probably why most decent men don't want to be with a woman who sleeps around and why institutions such as marriage exist.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Ego Death]
    #7935417 - 01/26/08 02:29 PM (16 years, 6 days ago)

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No shit sherlock.




Yeah shit E.T. hunter. :smirk:
My point is that it is EXACTLY this attitude (when a man thinks that he has the right to ask for sex a woman that dresses "slutty" - and then doesn't understand why he's being refused) that in many cases makes a man rape a woman.

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Your answer has nothing to do with the questions posed, rape isn't the issue.




You mean it is not directly related to the original post, but it IS related to what you said. :grin:


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: MushroomTrip]
    #7936112 - 01/26/08 04:41 PM (16 years, 6 days ago)

:rolleyes:

OK, lol.

You think that a man who asks a slut for sex will rape her.

Men will rape if they get refused, of course I see your point now.:boxerface:

I have a male friend who was raped by a 40 year old women when he was 12.  She was convicted and sent to jail, thank god.

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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Ego Death]
    #7936130 - 01/26/08 04:45 PM (16 years, 6 days ago)

No, I think that she is saying that the rapist AND the stranger who behaves in a sexually aggressive manner share an attitude which includes the idea that a woman who dresses provocatively somehow provokes and deserves certain treatment from men.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
    #7936274 - 01/26/08 05:33 PM (16 years, 6 days ago)

Yes, that was exactly my point :thumbup:


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: trendal]
    #7939913 - 01/27/08 11:57 AM (16 years, 5 days ago)

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Actually, I saw a documentary a few months ago where they re-did this experiment in Brittan, I think it was. This happened in the summer of 2006. The findings...

THE SAME RESULTS AS IN 1978!

Not one female said yes to the stranger, but at least 75% of the men said yes. Both strangers were what I would consider "good looking".




That doesn't surprise me at all. I'd like to see another study done in a more comfortable setting before I read too much evolutionary purpose into the results. Physical safety is obviously more of a concern for women than it is for men.

My guess is that some of those women probably may have actually wanted sex at the moment they were propositioned, but wouldn't feel safe going home with some random guy. I've done the "slutty" one night stands before without any of the gender guilt I'm supposed to have, but there's no way in hell I'd say yes to some random dude on campus, no matter how sexy he was or how horny I was at that moment.


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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
    #7941989 - 01/27/08 06:49 PM (16 years, 5 days ago)

Yes, I agree they may share a attitude. I don't know much about the psychology of rapists though, just a few speculations.


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