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Veritas

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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: eve69]
#7929918 - 01/25/08 01:45 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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I think that women probably think all sorts of things when looking at their boyfriends.
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
#7929932 - 01/25/08 01:47 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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sorry I changed that post. i offended myself.
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MushroomTrip said: It's strange how some men think that they have the right to behave like shit heads with women who dress "slutty". It's what rapists say when asked about their reasons: she tempted me, she provoked me.  The matter of fact is that NO remains NO, no matter what the circumstances are.
No shit sherlock.
Your answer has nothing to do with the questions posed, rape isn't the issue.
The issue is what makes a female consent. If your gonna rape then obviously you don't need consent.
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Kamek]
#7933782 - 01/26/08 06:02 AM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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I read something ages ago in NewScientist where they ended up finding out that women want sex to fulfill the need to have children and not entirely for the pleasure. Men on the other hand have sex for pleasure they figured, and therefore, were trying to fulfill a desire, and not a long-term urge like women.
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Veritas

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I don't think so. That does not sound like the result of any research on sexuality I've ever read. Link or it didn't happen.
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
#7934227 - 01/26/08 10:11 AM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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Veritas said: No need to solve it to enjoy it! 
Casual sex, committed sex, fun sex, rowdy sex, loving sex, gentle sex, sleepy sex...it's all terrific!
With the exception of drunk sex. Or at least too drunk sex.
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: mushbaby]
#7934234 - 01/26/08 10:17 AM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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Even when it's bad it's good...
Don't forget mind melding tantric tripping sex.
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: mushbaby]
#7934237 - 01/26/08 10:17 AM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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What's wrong with drunk sex?
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Well. some drunk sex is GREAT! But too drunk sex is when the guy can't stay hard or can't find it or can't keep a decent rhythem. That kind of sex is not worth having.
Now tripping sex, HELL YES! Although I have a slight issue with trying not to giggle. The harder I try not to giggle the more I do.
I have not had a partner that I have been able to have tantric sex with. So I have no opinion on it. Sounds very interesting.
As far as casual sex (to try to stay on topic) although I might want to have it with an attractive man who just came straight up and asked me. I know I would say no. For sex to be really good (and why bother having it if it isn't good) I need to be with someone I am comfortable with. It would just feel too awkward. I would like to believe I could have casual sex with someone and consider it just physical pleasure because that's the way alot of media touts it these days. But I know for me sex is more than just two bodies giving each other pleasure.
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: mushbaby] 1
#7934772 - 01/26/08 12:27 PM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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I think that casual sex is great for when you don't want to commit into anything and still have sex and personally, I think that there's absolutely nothing wrong with two (or more ) bodies giving each other pleasure.  Of course, when there's also deep connection that things are so much better, but casual sex serves it's purpose and it's a very good therapy for those with inhibitions.
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: NiamhNyx]
#7935107 - 01/26/08 01:27 PM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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Men, on the other hand, may have an evolutionary incentive for controlling the sexuality of women, because women who philander could carry another man's baby unbeknownst to man#1. So if a man wants to make sure he really is passing on his genes he may be inclined to set up social institutions that make women think they're dirty, or simply punish them, for following thier natural inclination to explore various gene pools.
For a man that is willing to father a child, cuckoldry can be quite a big problem. From the standpoint of genetic fitness, it is disastrous. This is probably why most decent men don't want to be with a woman who sleeps around and why institutions such as marriage exist.
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Ego Death]
#7935417 - 01/26/08 02:29 PM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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No shit sherlock.
Yeah shit E.T. hunter.  My point is that it is EXACTLY this attitude (when a man thinks that he has the right to ask for sex a woman that dresses "slutty" - and then doesn't understand why he's being refused) that in many cases makes a man rape a woman.
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Your answer has nothing to do with the questions posed, rape isn't the issue.
You mean it is not directly related to the original post, but it IS related to what you said.
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OK, lol.
You think that a man who asks a slut for sex will rape her.
Men will rape if they get refused, of course I see your point now.
I have a male friend who was raped by a 40 year old women when he was 12. She was convicted and sent to jail, thank god.
Mod Edit: Please refrain from making personal remarks, thanks.
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Veritas

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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Ego Death]
#7936130 - 01/26/08 04:45 PM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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No, I think that she is saying that the rapist AND the stranger who behaves in a sexually aggressive manner share an attitude which includes the idea that a woman who dresses provocatively somehow provokes and deserves certain treatment from men.
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
#7936274 - 01/26/08 05:33 PM (16 years, 6 days ago) |
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Yes, that was exactly my point
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: trendal]
#7939913 - 01/27/08 11:57 AM (16 years, 5 days ago) |
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trendal said: Actually, I saw a documentary a few months ago where they re-did this experiment in Brittan, I think it was. This happened in the summer of 2006. The findings...
THE SAME RESULTS AS IN 1978!
Not one female said yes to the stranger, but at least 75% of the men said yes. Both strangers were what I would consider "good looking".
That doesn't surprise me at all. I'd like to see another study done in a more comfortable setting before I read too much evolutionary purpose into the results. Physical safety is obviously more of a concern for women than it is for men.
My guess is that some of those women probably may have actually wanted sex at the moment they were propositioned, but wouldn't feel safe going home with some random guy. I've done the "slutty" one night stands before without any of the gender guilt I'm supposed to have, but there's no way in hell I'd say yes to some random dude on campus, no matter how sexy he was or how horny I was at that moment.
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
#7941989 - 01/27/08 06:49 PM (16 years, 5 days ago) |
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Yes, I agree they may share a attitude. I don't know much about the psychology of rapists though, just a few speculations.
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