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DimensionX
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Kamek]
#7928138 - 01/25/08 01:49 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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My friend told me a sleezy yet funny way to proposition a women with casual sex. You wear a hands free phone kit. Sit down next to her and say "how do you feel about sex tonight" or something similar. If she says no you point to the hands free in your ear and tell her you were talking to someone else.
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Ego Death
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: DimensionX]
#7928714 - 01/25/08 07:08 AM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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Its strange how women dress all slutty but then complain if you ask them for sex.
But yet if you butter them up with some cheesy bullshit and a nice night out they will let you hit it.
Seems men are just more honest about it.
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MushroomTrip
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Ego Death]
#7928734 - 01/25/08 07:19 AM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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It's strange how some men think that they have the right to behave like shit heads with women who dress "slutty". It's what rapists say when asked about their reasons: she tempted me, she provoked me.  The matter of fact is that NO remains NO, no matter what the circumstances are.
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Icelander
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My question is, why the completely different attitude towards sex?
Many men aren't to be trusted, are pigs and are stronger and more violent. If men acted more humanely in general I would bet you would see some eager females. Plus the fact that if a woman takes a man up on such an offer our culture condemns her as a slut. She can't win.
I posted before I read your post Veritas. I don't know why I bother.
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Edited by Icelander (01/25/08 09:24 AM)
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Veritas

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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Icelander] 1
#7929043 - 01/25/08 09:31 AM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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I think that there would be an increased quantity AND quality of sex if men and women became more flexible in their gender performance. It seems to me that people become locked-in to a polarized version of "man" or "woman" and will not allow themselves to express the opposite qualities. Polarized gender performance can be sexually exciting, but not 100% of the time.
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NiamhNyx
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
#7929307 - 01/25/08 11:09 AM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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Veritas said: I think that there would be an increased quantity AND quality of sex if men and women became more flexible in their gender performance. It seems to me that people become locked-in to a polarized version of "man" or "woman" and will not allow themselves to express the opposite qualities. Polarized gender performance can be sexually exciting, but not 100% of the time.
Absolutely!!
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MushmanTheManic
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas] 1
#7929586 - 01/25/08 12:33 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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Veritas said: If a man gets a woman pregnant, his role is pretty much over. His genes have been passed on to the next generation, and he is an evolutionary success. However, when a woman gets pregnant, she has 40 weeks of gestation to contend with. She needs to have enough food to grow a human being, enough shelter and time to relax to prevent a miscarriage or premature birth, and help during labor and the early weeks of infancy.
Exactly. I don't understand why everyone is so quick to rush to the "it is all because of culture" conclusion. Almost every female mammal is more selective than her male counterpart. The cost-benefit analysis for reproduction for males is awesome - small energy expenditure, can mate again in the same day, and has no other obligations after sex. It doesn't matter if a male mates with an undesirable female, because the cost of mating is so damn low.
As you mentioned, the cost of mating for a female is huge. In that case, she better mate with the best possible piece of ass she can find and reject everything else.
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Icelander
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In that case, she better mate with the best possible piece of ass she can find and reject everything else.
That's where Icelander cums in!
(I wish)
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NiamhNyx
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It makes evolutionary sex (edit: sense what was that? some kind of freudian slip?) for women to also opt for a wider selection of partners. If she has several partners around the time of ovulation she can be assured the best possible swimmers make it to the finish line, thus ensuring she gets the best genes. She would still want to be selective about her prospective mates, but there's usually more than one total babe floating around at any given time.
Men, on the other hand, may have an evolutionary incentive for controlling the sexuality of women, because women who philander could carry another man's baby unbeknownst to man#1. So if a man wants to make sure he really is passing on his genes he may be inclined to set up social institutions that make women think they're dirty, or simply punish them, for following thier natural inclination to explore various gene pools.
You can interpret this evolution thing in a whole lotta ways.
Edited by NiamhNyx (01/25/08 01:34 PM)
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: mushbaby]
#7929716 - 01/25/08 01:00 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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Actually, I saw a documentary a few months ago where they re-did this experiment in Brittan, I think it was. This happened in the summer of 2006. The findings...
THE SAME RESULTS AS IN 1978!
Not one female said yes to the stranger, but at least 75% of the men said yes. Both strangers were what I would consider "good looking".
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: NiamhNyx] 1
#7929784 - 01/25/08 01:16 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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She would still want to be selective about her prospective mates, but there's usually more than one total babe floating around at any given time.
But will the total babe be there when she is pregnant or devoting her attention to a newborn? There is more to genetic transmission than insemination, you also need to assure the survival of your offspring.
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: NiamhNyx]
#7929841 - 01/25/08 01:30 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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What a mess.
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NiamhNyx
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
#7929861 - 01/25/08 01:33 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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Veritas said:
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She would still want to be selective about her prospective mates, but there's usually more than one total babe floating around at any given time.
But will the total babe be there when she is pregnant or devoting her attention to a newborn? There is more to genetic transmission than insemination, you also need to assure the survival of your offspring.
True. But don't forget that for many hundreds of thousands of years of our evolutionary past, people raised children in communities-- not in isolated nuclear families. There are plenty of cultures that don't see men as having much of anything to do with the making of babies. If the instinctual prerogative was for a woman to find a man to take care of her babies, I don't see how there would be such diversity in the manner in which children are raised and regarded, and with the types of marriage and sexual relations that occur.
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Re: Women & Casual Sex *DELETED* [Re: Icelander]
#7929873 - 01/25/08 01:35 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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Veritas

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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: NiamhNyx]
#7929888 - 01/25/08 01:38 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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Because it is not the only prerogative. When a woman gets turned on by a man, she is not usually thinking "I bet he'd make a great father!" Sexual attraction is a big part of sexual selection, and (as I said on a different thread) introduces one of many confounding factors into the mix.
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Chronic7]
#7929901 - 01/25/08 01:41 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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It's all in how you ask.
When I was a kid I was wearing my bondage pants without drawers and my crotch ripped, and some girl saw my weiner hanging out, and she came right onto me and we ended up going into the parking lot to screw. I admit I got a bit limp from all the speed I was snorting especially when she started screaming from me eating her pussy. Underground parking lots make alot of echo. I was fourteen. So what?
Anyway, I used to believe I could have any girl. (When I was masturbating :O)
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NiamhNyx
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
#7929904 - 01/25/08 01:42 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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It's definitly a complicated puzzle to solve...
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Veritas

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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: NiamhNyx]
#7929909 - 01/25/08 01:43 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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No need to solve it to enjoy it! 
Casual sex, committed sex, fun sex, rowdy sex, loving sex, gentle sex, sleepy sex...it's all terrific!
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
#7929912 - 01/25/08 01:44 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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Yep, even limp dick sex can be fun. You can really work that clit. It's a bad pick up line but it works on old bar girls.
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NiamhNyx
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Re: Women & Casual Sex [Re: Veritas]
#7929917 - 01/25/08 01:45 PM (16 years, 7 days ago) |
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Hahah, you're right. By 'solve' I meant, figure out the best evolutionary psychology theory, not figure out how to select a partner in keeping with evolutionary prerogatives.
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