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Girlfriend just cheated on me.
    #7923054 - 01/24/08 03:43 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Hi, I feel like expressing my feelings right now because I dont really have anywhere else to put them.

My girlfriend just called me and confessed that she had sex with this guy when she went out of town to California.
I think allot of it is my fault because I havent been respecting her as much as I should. Im not a asshole to her or anything, I just have been too much in my world and that lead her wondering. She also has a hard time saying no, but obviously if I was giving her what she wanted she wouldnt of done that.

This is kindof hard, because we have been going out for 18 months. I think allot of the pain has to do to me putting alot of my identity in this vision which is "Girlfriend & Boyfriend", and she basically just destroyed that vision. But there is no way I can just not ever see her again, I care for her way to much. Im still going to care for her as much as I always do, and Im still going to have sex with her. Now its just way different because now I get to have sex with other girls and that is pretty cool :smile: She is really cool, she said she is going to help me have sex so she doesnt feel so bad. Then we will be even.

Anyway this still sucks allot, right now Im worried about her getting pregnant but there isnt really anything i can do about that.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: p4kSouL]
    #7923057 - 01/24/08 03:51 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

It sucks that she cheated on you but basically what she's proposing is using you to eliminate her own guilt in a way that is not going to be healthy for your relationship.

It's not your fault that she cheated on you though things you did may have led to that decision on her part.

Just be careful what you do and make sure you think it through beforehand if you care about salvaging what you have.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Bandersnatch]
    #7923062 - 01/24/08 03:54 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Take the high road:

stop screwing her.
move on.


Too many good women out there bro.

a cheater always is...
























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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Crasher]
    #7923074 - 01/24/08 04:05 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

I just dont understand though, why quit having sex with her? Why quit carrying for her, I just cant find a reason why not. It would hurt way to much just not to ever see her again, I like her way too much.

Why not be ok with her having sex with other people while at the same time I can also have sex with other people also? It seems totally fine, and now I dont have to worry about raising someone else's child.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: p4kSouL]
    #7923090 - 01/24/08 04:35 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

What you do is clearly your own choice, but here's my take. By continuing in a
sexual relationship with her, and by eliminating any semblence of a meaningful relationship
with her, you're effectively excusing her for what she did. There's no getting even
here. It's not about getting even. It's about a violation of trust. She's trying
to make herself feel better by giving you this "opportunity." It's not an opportunity.
It's a tangled emotional mess that will cause more trouble. Eventually, someone's
gonna get pissed. I agree with the above statement. Take the high road. Stop screwing
her. Move on.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: BurningBeard]
    #7923105 - 01/24/08 04:46 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Quote:

BurningBeard said:
What you do is clearly your own choice, but here's my take. By continuing in a
sexual relationship with her, and by eliminating any semblence of a meaningful relationship
with her, you're effectively excusing her for what she did. There's no getting even
here. It's not about getting even. It's about a violation of trust. She's trying
to make herself feel better by giving you this "opportunity." It's not an opportunity.
It's a tangled emotional mess that will cause more trouble. Eventually, someone's
gonna get pissed. I agree with the above statement. Take the high road. Stop screwing
her. Move on.




QFT

Then you'll knock her up, it'll be yours, and then what? are you going to marry a cheating pirate hooker or run?


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: BurningBeard]
    #7923106 - 01/24/08 04:46 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Quote:

BurningBeard said:
What you do is clearly your own choice, but here's my take. By continuing in a
sexual relationship with her, and by eliminating any semblence of a meaningful relationship
with her, you're effectively excusing her for what she did. There's no getting even
here. It's not about getting even. It's about a violation of trust. She's trying
to make herself feel better by giving you this "opportunity." It's not an opportunity.
It's a tangled emotional mess that will cause more trouble. Eventually, someone's
gonna get pissed. I agree with the above statement. Take the high road. Stop screwing
her. Move on.




Very well said.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Bandersnatch]
    #7923114 - 01/24/08 04:53 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

you should post up naked pictures of her for us to see.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Bandersnatch]
    #7923116 - 01/24/08 04:55 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Thanks, folks. Just calling it as I see it.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: p4kSouL]
    #7923125 - 01/24/08 05:04 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Keep your boy protected bro


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: BurningBeard]
    #7923126 - 01/24/08 05:05 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

I say. Stop caring about her. Keep fucking her. Just use her for now on. If she cared about you she wouldn't have turned into a slut just çuz she went to cali. She did it once and shell do it again.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Cubie]
    #7923147 - 01/24/08 05:28 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

just know california is the promised land. many an immigrant bitch has sucked the cock on the longshot chance that maybe one of us will save her from the skull numbing existance in shitland, but it never happens. it seems in cali hookers get sold a dream. can't make a ho a housewife. live and learn. at least you found out before your friend got her pregnant...


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: rickpsfuckyou]
    #7923165 - 01/24/08 05:58 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Quote:

rickpsfuckyou said:
just know california is the promised land. many an immigrant bitch has sucked the cock on the longshot chance that maybe one of us will save her from the skull numbing existance in shitland, but it never happens. it seems in cali hookers get sold a dream. can't make a ho a housewife. live and learn. at least you found out before your friend got her pregnant...


lol


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Sprish]
    #7923307 - 01/24/08 07:59 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

hell of a first post sprish. welcome :-D


i agree with everyone else - dump the bitch. you think it'll be hard to not see her anymore because you love her etc. In reality - after a few weeks and some random sex you won't give a shit about that cheatin' hoe.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: memes]
    #7923334 - 01/24/08 08:12 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

damn man that sucks, i mean the only reason your lady friend would fuck another dude is because she wants to hurt you, cause you know chicks don't even like sex,

girls do shit to hurt emotionaly, guys do shit to hurt physicly

im a little stoned


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: dutchmushroom]
    #7923348 - 01/24/08 08:21 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Quote:

dutchmushroom said:
cause you know chicks don't even like sex,







LOLOL. what planet do you live on?


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Teragon]
    #7923367 - 01/24/08 08:27 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Yea. All bitches are whores who love sex


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Teragon]
    #7923378 - 01/24/08 08:31 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Quote:

Teragon said:
Quote:

dutchmushroom said:
cause you know chicks don't even like sex,




planet badsex.

i hate bitches.


LOLOL. what planet do you live on?




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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: memes]
    #7923407 - 01/24/08 08:45 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

I'd say put it in her butt and then leave the bitch.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: circularvortex]
    #7923427 - 01/24/08 08:51 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

And slam it in there so it hurts. Then punch her in the kidney when you pull out


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: p4kSouL]
    #7923449 - 01/24/08 09:01 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Quote:

p4kSouL said:
She is really cool, she said she is going to help me have sex so she doesnt feel so bad. Then we will be even.




She's going to help you get laid?:crazy: Ummm, okay.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Teragon]
    #7923452 - 01/24/08 09:02 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Quote:

Teragon said:
Quote:

dutchmushroom said:
cause you know chicks don't even like sex,







LOLOL. what planet do you live on?



Yeah really. WTF?

BTW, hey Teragon!


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Cubie]
    #7923484 - 01/24/08 09:12 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

If she really cared for you as much as you care for her she wouldn't have doen it. I hate to be mean but you don't count as shit to her if she did that. I have never cheated on anyone and have had the option more than once. All I could think about is not being able to live with myself. I love my wife and she doesn't deserve to be hurt. You care but as previously stated she shattered that trust. You can't really be even because she is letting you fuck someone. You have to do it after when it isn't allowed to really be even, after she thinks it is exclusive. That type of chaos willdestroy your chance of it ever being anything real because IMO the trust is dead. It is unhealthy and it isn't your job to watch her 24-7 because it WILL, 100% guaranteed, happen again. It isn't the 1st time she's cheated on someone I bet, whether she tells you or not.

Point is ther are many good women out there who are faithful. I believe there is one for everyone and you don't want to miss her because of some whore who took you for a ride. You love her man, you don't care shit!, If you cared, you would say she doesn't care much about you to do that. If you like getting hurt then keep it up with her. I think you can't handle to keep fucking her because you will have the rejection and the reminder. If my wife doesn't give me what I need, I jerk off. Unless she was born without fingers or lost them in a tragic accident she has no excuse and one can't justify being with her. If she cares about you she will be very jealous of the other girls and that is bound to be drama imo


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: rizingfire]
    #7923538 - 01/24/08 09:36 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

OP. You sound pretty desperate in my opinion, you are even trying to turn things around so this is "your" fault.

Hold on to some of your dignity and move on.

Jesus man.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: appleorange]
    #7923561 - 01/24/08 09:45 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

I didn't want to be the first to say it.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: p4kSouL]
    #7923566 - 01/24/08 09:47 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

I don't know why this would bother you.  You don't seem like the type of person that would get bothered by this.  But hey, atleast you can have sex with other girls now.  :thumbup: :rolleyes:


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: appleorange]
    #7923571 - 01/24/08 09:48 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Quote:

appleorange said:
OP. You sound pretty desperate in my opinion, you are even trying to turn things around so this is "your" fault.

Hold on to some of your dignity and move on.

Jesus man.




:yesnod:


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: WhiskeyClone]
    #7923667 - 01/24/08 10:23 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

One more thing to the OP, if you do decide to get back with her and I assume you will. She may still very much love you, but she will never respect you again.

By you deciding to take her back, she realizes on some basic level that you are only with her for companionship and not out of any authentic love for her.

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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: appleorange]
    #7923868 - 01/24/08 11:29 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

I'm practically shocked to see such a voice of reason.
Who are you and where did you come from?

Where's the good ol' fashioned "dry smash her shit box" when you need it? (Nice try, cubie.)

Seriously, that is some the most profound advice along these lines I've seen around here in a while and put so succinctly to boot.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: p4kSouL]
    #7923905 - 01/24/08 11:49 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Quote:

p4kSouL said:
I think allot of it is my fault because I havent been respecting her as much as I should.




FUCK that shit. It's HER fault. For not respecting YOU. Don't let her convince you otherwise. Move on. Sounds like trouble to me.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Shroomism]
    #7923930 - 01/24/08 11:59 AM (16 years, 8 days ago)

If he says its his fault, how do you know it isn't?


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: p4kSouL]
    #7923932 - 01/24/08 12:00 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

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p4kSouL said:
I just dont understand though, why quit having sex with her? Why quit carrying for her, I just cant find a reason why not. It would hurt way to much just not to ever see her again, I like her way too much.

Why not be ok with her having sex with other people while at the same time I can also have sex with other people also? It seems totally fine, and now I dont have to worry about raising someone else's child.





Because THAT means you broke up, THAT means you are no longer each others one and only, and THAT means she owned your ass.

Tell her she's a dumbass for telling you and never talk to the bitch again unless she does something out of this world demonstrating how much she cares about you.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Teragon]
    #7923940 - 01/24/08 12:01 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

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Teragon said:
Quote:

dutchmushroom said:
cause you know chicks don't even like sex,







LOLOL. what planet do you live on?




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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Shroomism]
    #7923947 - 01/24/08 12:04 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Yes. Its alll her fault. Don't blame your self.
She decided to go to cali and be a slut.
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: dutchmushroom]
    #7923952 - 01/24/08 12:04 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

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damn man that sucks, i mean the only reason your lady friend would fuck another dude is because she wants to hurt you, cause you know chicks don't even like sex,





LOL

Maybe they just don't like it when you do it


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: WhiskeyClone]
    #7923987 - 01/24/08 12:18 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Fuckin lmao


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Senor_Doobie]
    #7923992 - 01/24/08 12:19 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

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Senor_Doobie said:
If he says its his fault, how do you know it isn't?




How is one person's actions the fault of someone else?
It is easy to place blame. It is usually not so easy to take responsibility for one's own actions.
He didn't cheat on her. She cheated on him. Thus it's her fault for cheating pretty much regardless of any extenuating circumstances.

If someone doesn't "respect you enough", that's not really grounds to justify cheating on them. Unless you live in some twisted universe of mind games and sexual deviation. Usually the solution is to part ways.

If I tell someone their hair looks bad, and then they later go and kill themselves.. it's not "my fault" they killed themselves. It's theirs, for committing suicide. A child can be beaten, sexually and physically abused, and humiliated every day from the time it was born... but when it gets older and grabs a sniper rifle and gets on top of a watchtower and starts picking people off, is it their fault or the fault of society/parents? Certainly certain factors can cause people to react/develop in certain ways, but ultimately WHAT we do is entirely up to the individual.
We are responsible for our own actions, that's how I know.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: p4kSouL]
    #7924029 - 01/24/08 12:27 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

girlfriends are overrated


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: GonzoCool]
    #7924033 - 01/24/08 12:28 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

vagina is not
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: debianlinux]
    #7924041 - 01/24/08 12:31 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

well said.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: debianlinux]
    #7924043 - 01/24/08 12:31 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

yea because no one has ever had sex with a vagina that wasnt their girlfriends?


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: GonzoCool]
    #7924056 - 01/24/08 12:36 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

the girlfriend status just makes it more of a sure thing


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: GonzoCool]
    #7924063 - 01/24/08 12:38 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

yeah, i was agreeing that girlfriends are overrated.
all of the internet is not out to get you.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Shroomism]
    #7924078 - 01/24/08 12:42 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

girlfriends are better in theory. vagina is overrated. i could jerk off looking at a picture of a vagina and get the same result as actually having sex with a vagina, and alot quicker. making girls have orgasms dropped off of my priority list at around 20 yrs old. it gets where you just want to hurry up and get your girlfriend off so you can get back to playing halo.


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    #7924089 - 01/24/08 12:44 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

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debianlinux said:
yeah, i was agreeing that girlfriends are overrated.
all of the internet is not out to get you.



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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: GonzoCool]
    #7924098 - 01/24/08 12:46 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

wow, you may be ghey!

Don't get me wrong, jerking it is awesome. I have never had a disappointing wank. It's always as tight as you want it and it doesn't need cuddling afterwards. OTOH (the clean one), I'll take vagina over my hand any day. And Halo can go straight to hell if pussy is an option.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: circularvortex]
    #7924103 - 01/24/08 12:47 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

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I'd say put it in her butt and then leave the bitch.




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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: debianlinux]
    #7924124 - 01/24/08 12:52 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

you sound like a homophobic redneck that got touched by his uncle when he was younger so now you feel insecure about your sexuality and have to defend your pseudo-straightness at a comment as simple as "girlfriends are overrated" you say "vagina isnt overrated. unless you're gay" youre starting to sound like your uncle bubba


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: p4kSouL]
    #7924127 - 01/24/08 12:52 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

hahaha

you can't just keep having sex with her without any type of emotion attached... that's not how girls work. When girls cheat it's not for reasons a guy cheats. I guy is more likely to cheat for physical satisfaction.

not girls. Girls cheat for EMOTIONAL reasons. She cheated b/c she has some type of problem. She wanted to create chaos or sabotage a relationship she wasn't happy with. Did she come from a family of chaos? That's probably why... if not she just wasn't happy with the relationship b/c you've been distant.

I say don't sleep with her. It shows the girl has no respect for herself by allowing you to use her as a sex object... and trust me, once you've been with someone, especially the length you have, there is no such thing as having sex without feelings. If you keep having sex with her you're less likely to go find a better girl b/c having sex just gives you false hope that maybe, just maybe, you guys can work it out someday. But you won't, and if you try it would take A LOT of effort- and frankly, this type of girl is NOT WORTH THAT EFFORT, because it'll all be in vain.

You keep saying you care about her so much, but she obviously doesn't care about you as much as you care about her. In fact, the ONLY person she cares about is HERSELF. So stop wasting emotion on someone who 1) doesn't deserve it and 2) doesn't reciprocate the same feelings.

Yeah, it's gonna suck, and you're going to be heart broken, but just realize, she did this, NOT YOU. It's not your fault, she's just manipulating you to think so.

Don't fuck her, don't talk to her, and don't see her. The cleaner the break and the faster you cut ties, the better.

It will suck. BAD. For a week or so... then, you'll start to feel better. It's like a drug. she's a BAD DRUG for you and you're addicted. You will go through "withdrawals" and you will want to call her, but don't. after a month of being "clean" from her, you'll feel a lot better.

Sorry, but that's just how it is son.


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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: GonzoCool]
    #7924150 - 01/24/08 12:57 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

lol

i might be a bit redneck but homophobic i am not.

the comment was supposed to humorous. well, i was serious in that g/f's are overrated but poon isn't; although it was supposed to still be humorous. the addition of "unless you are ghey" was simply to enforce the humor.

my further comments that "you must be ghey" weren't so much a homophobic lashout as it was a further enforcement of the humorous notion that vagina is not overrated. I was quite serious that the opportunity to get laid would certainly take top priority to anything I might be doing at the time, tho.

Humor is tough on the internets.


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