|
blissedout


Registered: 11/11/04
Posts: 22,320
Loc: Yonder
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: p4kSouL]
#7923449 - 01/24/08 09:01 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
p4kSouL said: She is really cool, she said she is going to help me have sex so she doesnt feel so bad. Then we will be even.
She's going to help you get laid? Ummm, okay.
--------------------
|
blissedout


Registered: 11/11/04
Posts: 22,320
Loc: Yonder
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Teragon]
#7923452 - 01/24/08 09:02 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Teragon said:
Quote:
dutchmushroom said: cause you know chicks don't even like sex,
LOLOL. what planet do you live on?
Yeah really. WTF?
BTW, hey Teragon!
--------------------
|
rizingfire
Mycoticus psychoticus




Registered: 09/10/07
Posts: 875
Loc: North-east USm'f'nA
Last seen: 4 months, 11 days
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Cubie]
#7923484 - 01/24/08 09:12 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
If she really cared for you as much as you care for her she wouldn't have doen it. I hate to be mean but you don't count as shit to her if she did that. I have never cheated on anyone and have had the option more than once. All I could think about is not being able to live with myself. I love my wife and she doesn't deserve to be hurt. You care but as previously stated she shattered that trust. You can't really be even because she is letting you fuck someone. You have to do it after when it isn't allowed to really be even, after she thinks it is exclusive. That type of chaos willdestroy your chance of it ever being anything real because IMO the trust is dead. It is unhealthy and it isn't your job to watch her 24-7 because it WILL, 100% guaranteed, happen again. It isn't the 1st time she's cheated on someone I bet, whether she tells you or not.
Point is ther are many good women out there who are faithful. I believe there is one for everyone and you don't want to miss her because of some whore who took you for a ride. You love her man, you don't care shit!, If you cared, you would say she doesn't care much about you to do that. If you like getting hurt then keep it up with her. I think you can't handle to keep fucking her because you will have the rejection and the reminder. If my wife doesn't give me what I need, I jerk off. Unless she was born without fingers or lost them in a tragic accident she has no excuse and one can't justify being with her. If she cares about you she will be very jealous of the other girls and that is bound to be drama imo
-------------------- aka NHMI
|
appleorange
Rainbow Technician



Registered: 12/30/07
Posts: 4,868
Loc: Reykjavík
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: rizingfire]
#7923538 - 01/24/08 09:36 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
OP. You sound pretty desperate in my opinion, you are even trying to turn things around so this is "your" fault.
Hold on to some of your dignity and move on.
Jesus man.
|
Blend
afferent orchestra



Registered: 08/16/06
Posts: 2,949
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: appleorange]
#7923561 - 01/24/08 09:45 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
I didn't want to be the first to say it.
|
SixCee
keep rolling



Registered: 06/12/02
Posts: 3,720
Loc: US, Chicago
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: p4kSouL]
#7923566 - 01/24/08 09:47 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
I don't know why this would bother you. You don't seem like the type of person that would get bothered by this. But hey, atleast you can have sex with other girls now.
-------------------- ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ -->The above statements may or not be true. ->Quote of the Moment : "Yea. All bitches are whores who love sex." -Cubie ----> PMs checked daily.
|
WhiskeyClone
Not here


Registered: 06/25/01
Posts: 16,509
Loc: Longitudinal Center of Canada ...
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: appleorange]
#7923571 - 01/24/08 09:48 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
appleorange said: OP. You sound pretty desperate in my opinion, you are even trying to turn things around so this is "your" fault.
Hold on to some of your dignity and move on.
Jesus man.
-------------------- Welcome evermore to gods and men is the self-helping man. For him all doors are flung wide: him all tongues greet, all honors crown, all eyes follow with desire. Our love goes out to him and embraces him, because he did not need it. ~ R.W. Emerson, "Self-Reliance"
|
appleorange
Rainbow Technician



Registered: 12/30/07
Posts: 4,868
Loc: Reykjavík
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: WhiskeyClone]
#7923667 - 01/24/08 10:23 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
One more thing to the OP, if you do decide to get back with her and I assume you will. She may still very much love you, but she will never respect you again.
By you deciding to take her back, she realizes on some basic level that you are only with her for companionship and not out of any authentic love for her.
|
debianlinux
Myconerd - DBK




Registered: 12/09/02
Posts: 8,334
Loc: Over There
Last seen: 7 months, 1 day
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: appleorange]
#7923868 - 01/24/08 11:29 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
I'm practically shocked to see such a voice of reason. Who are you and where did you come from?
Where's the good ol' fashioned "dry smash her shit box" when you need it? (Nice try, cubie.)
Seriously, that is some the most profound advice along these lines I've seen around here in a while and put so succinctly to boot.
|
Shroomism
Space Travellin



Registered: 02/13/00
Posts: 66,015
Loc: 9th Dimension
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: p4kSouL]
#7923905 - 01/24/08 11:49 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
p4kSouL said: I think allot of it is my fault because I havent been respecting her as much as I should.
FUCK that shit. It's HER fault. For not respecting YOU. Don't let her convince you otherwise. Move on. Sounds like trouble to me.
--------------------
|
Senor_Doobie
Snake Pit Champion



Registered: 08/11/99
Posts: 22,678
Loc: Trump Train
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Shroomism]
#7923930 - 01/24/08 11:59 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
If he says its his fault, how do you know it isn't?
-------------------- "America: Fuck yeah!" -- Alexthegreat “Nothing can now be believed which is seen in a newspaper. Truth itself becomes suspicious by being put into that polluted vehicle. The real extent of this state of misinformation is known only to those who are in situations to confront facts within their knowledge with the lies of the day.” -- Thomas Jefferson The greatest sin of mankind is ignorance. The press takes [Trump] literally, but not seriously; his supporters take him seriously, but not literally. --Salena Zeto (9/23/16)
|
future
Stranger
Registered: 12/05/07
Posts: 408
Last seen: 15 years, 6 months
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: p4kSouL]
#7923932 - 01/24/08 12:00 PM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
p4kSouL said: I just dont understand though, why quit having sex with her? Why quit carrying for her, I just cant find a reason why not. It would hurt way to much just not to ever see her again, I like her way too much.
Why not be ok with her having sex with other people while at the same time I can also have sex with other people also? It seems totally fine, and now I dont have to worry about raising someone else's child.
Because THAT means you broke up, THAT means you are no longer each others one and only, and THAT means she owned your ass.
Tell her she's a dumbass for telling you and never talk to the bitch again unless she does something out of this world demonstrating how much she cares about you.
-------------------- I am the fakest person on this site. I only pretend to grow and consume illegal mushrooms. I have no knowledge what so ever on any scheduled substance because I know and respect the governing law in the United States of America. All pictures and dialogue posted by me is entirley copyrighted from those who wish to knowingly ignore the laws. I only post these messages as a mere propaganda technique used to gain attention and admiration from others. Thank You
|
future
Stranger
Registered: 12/05/07
Posts: 408
Last seen: 15 years, 6 months
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Teragon]
#7923940 - 01/24/08 12:01 PM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Teragon said:
Quote:
dutchmushroom said: cause you know chicks don't even like sex,
LOLOL. what planet do you live on?
2x
-------------------- I am the fakest person on this site. I only pretend to grow and consume illegal mushrooms. I have no knowledge what so ever on any scheduled substance because I know and respect the governing law in the United States of America. All pictures and dialogue posted by me is entirley copyrighted from those who wish to knowingly ignore the laws. I only post these messages as a mere propaganda technique used to gain attention and admiration from others. Thank You
|
Cubie
Moderator




Registered: 01/11/08
Posts: 8,840
Loc: Down the rabbit hole...
Last seen: 11 years, 8 months
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Shroomism]
#7923947 - 01/24/08 12:04 PM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
Yes. Its alll her fault. Don't blame your self. She decided to go to cali and be a slut. Not you.
|
WhiskeyClone
Not here


Registered: 06/25/01
Posts: 16,509
Loc: Longitudinal Center of Canada ...
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: dutchmushroom]
#7923952 - 01/24/08 12:04 PM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
dutchmushroom said: damn man that sucks, i mean the only reason your lady friend would fuck another dude is because she wants to hurt you, cause you know chicks don't even like sex,
LOL
Maybe they just don't like it when you do it
-------------------- Welcome evermore to gods and men is the self-helping man. For him all doors are flung wide: him all tongues greet, all honors crown, all eyes follow with desire. Our love goes out to him and embraces him, because he did not need it. ~ R.W. Emerson, "Self-Reliance"
|
Cubie
Moderator




Registered: 01/11/08
Posts: 8,840
Loc: Down the rabbit hole...
Last seen: 11 years, 8 months
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: WhiskeyClone]
#7923987 - 01/24/08 12:18 PM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
Fuckin lmao
|
Shroomism
Space Travellin



Registered: 02/13/00
Posts: 66,015
Loc: 9th Dimension
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Senor_Doobie]
#7923992 - 01/24/08 12:19 PM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Senor_Doobie said: If he says its his fault, how do you know it isn't?
How is one person's actions the fault of someone else? It is easy to place blame. It is usually not so easy to take responsibility for one's own actions. He didn't cheat on her. She cheated on him. Thus it's her fault for cheating pretty much regardless of any extenuating circumstances.
If someone doesn't "respect you enough", that's not really grounds to justify cheating on them. Unless you live in some twisted universe of mind games and sexual deviation. Usually the solution is to part ways.
If I tell someone their hair looks bad, and then they later go and kill themselves.. it's not "my fault" they killed themselves. It's theirs, for committing suicide. A child can be beaten, sexually and physically abused, and humiliated every day from the time it was born... but when it gets older and grabs a sniper rifle and gets on top of a watchtower and starts picking people off, is it their fault or the fault of society/parents? Certainly certain factors can cause people to react/develop in certain ways, but ultimately WHAT we do is entirely up to the individual. We are responsible for our own actions, that's how I know.
--------------------
|
GonzoCool


Registered: 09/30/03
Posts: 726
Loc:
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: p4kSouL]
#7924029 - 01/24/08 12:27 PM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
girlfriends are overrated
--------------------
|
debianlinux
Myconerd - DBK




Registered: 12/09/02
Posts: 8,334
Loc: Over There
Last seen: 7 months, 1 day
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: GonzoCool]
#7924033 - 01/24/08 12:28 PM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
vagina is not unless you ghey
|
Shroomism
Space Travellin



Registered: 02/13/00
Posts: 66,015
Loc: 9th Dimension
|
Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: debianlinux]
#7924041 - 01/24/08 12:31 PM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
|
|
well said.
--------------------
|
|