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p4kSouL
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Girlfriend just cheated on me.
#7923054 - 01/24/08 03:43 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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Hi, I feel like expressing my feelings right now because I dont really have anywhere else to put them.
My girlfriend just called me and confessed that she had sex with this guy when she went out of town to California. I think allot of it is my fault because I havent been respecting her as much as I should. Im not a asshole to her or anything, I just have been too much in my world and that lead her wondering. She also has a hard time saying no, but obviously if I was giving her what she wanted she wouldnt of done that.
This is kindof hard, because we have been going out for 18 months. I think allot of the pain has to do to me putting alot of my identity in this vision which is "Girlfriend & Boyfriend", and she basically just destroyed that vision. But there is no way I can just not ever see her again, I care for her way to much. Im still going to care for her as much as I always do, and Im still going to have sex with her. Now its just way different because now I get to have sex with other girls and that is pretty cool She is really cool, she said she is going to help me have sex so she doesnt feel so bad. Then we will be even.
Anyway this still sucks allot, right now Im worried about her getting pregnant but there isnt really anything i can do about that.
Edited by p4kSouL (01/24/08 03:48 AM)
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Bandersnatch
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: p4kSouL]
#7923057 - 01/24/08 03:51 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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It sucks that she cheated on you but basically what she's proposing is using you to eliminate her own guilt in a way that is not going to be healthy for your relationship.
It's not your fault that she cheated on you though things you did may have led to that decision on her part.
Just be careful what you do and make sure you think it through beforehand if you care about salvaging what you have.
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Crasher
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Bandersnatch]
#7923062 - 01/24/08 03:54 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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Take the high road:
stop screwing her. move on.
Too many good women out there bro.
a cheater always is...
a cheater, in case you hadn't gotten that.
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p4kSouL
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Crasher]
#7923074 - 01/24/08 04:05 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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I just dont understand though, why quit having sex with her? Why quit carrying for her, I just cant find a reason why not. It would hurt way to much just not to ever see her again, I like her way too much.
Why not be ok with her having sex with other people while at the same time I can also have sex with other people also? It seems totally fine, and now I dont have to worry about raising someone else's child.
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BurningBeard
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: p4kSouL]
#7923090 - 01/24/08 04:35 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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What you do is clearly your own choice, but here's my take. By continuing in a sexual relationship with her, and by eliminating any semblence of a meaningful relationship with her, you're effectively excusing her for what she did. There's no getting even here. It's not about getting even. It's about a violation of trust. She's trying to make herself feel better by giving you this "opportunity." It's not an opportunity. It's a tangled emotional mess that will cause more trouble. Eventually, someone's gonna get pissed. I agree with the above statement. Take the high road. Stop screwing her. Move on.
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: BurningBeard]
#7923105 - 01/24/08 04:46 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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BurningBeard said: What you do is clearly your own choice, but here's my take. By continuing in a sexual relationship with her, and by eliminating any semblence of a meaningful relationship with her, you're effectively excusing her for what she did. There's no getting even here. It's not about getting even. It's about a violation of trust. She's trying to make herself feel better by giving you this "opportunity." It's not an opportunity. It's a tangled emotional mess that will cause more trouble. Eventually, someone's gonna get pissed. I agree with the above statement. Take the high road. Stop screwing her. Move on.
QFT
Then you'll knock her up, it'll be yours, and then what? are you going to marry a cheating pirate hooker or run?
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Bandersnatch
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: BurningBeard]
#7923106 - 01/24/08 04:46 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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Quote:
BurningBeard said: What you do is clearly your own choice, but here's my take. By continuing in a sexual relationship with her, and by eliminating any semblence of a meaningful relationship with her, you're effectively excusing her for what she did. There's no getting even here. It's not about getting even. It's about a violation of trust. She's trying to make herself feel better by giving you this "opportunity." It's not an opportunity. It's a tangled emotional mess that will cause more trouble. Eventually, someone's gonna get pissed. I agree with the above statement. Take the high road. Stop screwing her. Move on.
Very well said.
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Bandersnatch]
#7923114 - 01/24/08 04:53 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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you should post up naked pictures of her for us to see.
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BurningBeard
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Bandersnatch]
#7923116 - 01/24/08 04:55 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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Thanks, folks. Just calling it as I see it.
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: p4kSouL]
#7923125 - 01/24/08 05:04 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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Keep your boy protected bro
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: BurningBeard]
#7923126 - 01/24/08 05:05 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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I say. Stop caring about her. Keep fucking her. Just use her for now on. If she cared about you she wouldn't have turned into a slut just çuz she went to cali. She did it once and shell do it again.
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Cubie]
#7923147 - 01/24/08 05:28 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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just know california is the promised land. many an immigrant bitch has sucked the cock on the longshot chance that maybe one of us will save her from the skull numbing existance in shitland, but it never happens. it seems in cali hookers get sold a dream. can't make a ho a housewife. live and learn. at least you found out before your friend got her pregnant...
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: rickpsfuckyou]
#7923165 - 01/24/08 05:58 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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rickpsfuckyou said: just know california is the promised land. many an immigrant bitch has sucked the cock on the longshot chance that maybe one of us will save her from the skull numbing existance in shitland, but it never happens. it seems in cali hookers get sold a dream. can't make a ho a housewife. live and learn. at least you found out before your friend got her pregnant...
lol
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Sprish]
#7923307 - 01/24/08 07:59 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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hell of a first post sprish. welcome :-D
i agree with everyone else - dump the bitch. you think it'll be hard to not see her anymore because you love her etc. In reality - after a few weeks and some random sex you won't give a shit about that cheatin' hoe.
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: memes]
#7923334 - 01/24/08 08:12 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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damn man that sucks, i mean the only reason your lady friend would fuck another dude is because she wants to hurt you, cause you know chicks don't even like sex,
girls do shit to hurt emotionaly, guys do shit to hurt physicly
im a little stoned
peace out Dm
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: dutchmushroom]
#7923348 - 01/24/08 08:21 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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dutchmushroom said: cause you know chicks don't even like sex,
LOLOL. what planet do you live on?
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Teragon]
#7923367 - 01/24/08 08:27 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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Yea. All bitches are whores who love sex
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: Teragon]
#7923378 - 01/24/08 08:31 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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Quote:
Teragon said:
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dutchmushroom said: cause you know chicks don't even like sex,
planet badsex.
i hate bitches.
LOLOL. what planet do you live on?
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Re: Girlfriend just cheated on me. [Re: memes]
#7923407 - 01/24/08 08:45 AM (16 years, 8 days ago) |
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I'd say put it in her butt and then leave the bitch.
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Cubie
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And slam it in there so it hurts. Then punch her in the kidney when you pull out
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